Kumukama hwepedyo ndizvo zvinoita kuti hukama huwedzere ushamwari hweplatoni. Vamwe vakaroorana vanowira muitiro wakaipa kana tsika yekurega chikamu chemuchato chinowira munzira. Pane doro "rinowanzoitika" mukati memakore mashomanana okutanga ewanano, kunyanya kana vana vachiuya mumufananidzo. Asi, kuibvisa kuti zviome zvakakwana kazhinji chinetso chikuru chemhuri chinofanira kutariswa.
Murume nomudzimai vanogona kuva vazhinji-kana-vashoma vavakidzani. Kana vose vakanaka neizvi, hazvirevi kuti vane hanya. Asi, izvi hazviwanzo zvakadaro. Kazhinji, mumwe kana vese vakaroorana vanovhiringidzika kana kukuvadzwa nemamiriro ezvinhu akadaro.
Imba isina zvepabonde inotsanangurwa sewanano ine zvishoma kana kuti kwete zvepabonde pakati pevanhu vaviri. Inofungidzirwa kuva inenge 2% yemuchato. Pane zvikonzero zvakawanda zvinokonzera kuti muchato urege kuita zvepabonde.
Zvikonzero Zvakawanda zveMukati Wisina Kuita Zvepabonde
kunyatsosangana pabonde zvepabonde (kuita zvepabonde)
ukama hukama
Manzwiro asina kunaka kune wawakaroorana navo sehasha kana kutsamwa
kuranga kana kusazvipira-kurwisana nekudzivirira zvepabonde
boredom
kuneta
kusatenda
kubereka
kushungurudzika
erectile dysfunction
hypo-sex sexual desire disorder (low sex drive)
simba hondo
medication side effects
kuora mwoyo kana zvimwe zvinhu zvehutano hwepfungwa
nhoroondo yekushungurudzwa kwepabonde
zvinonyadzisira kukanganisa
kudzvinyirira zvakanyanya
Purofesa Denise A Donnelly akataura neNew York Times nezvekudzidza kwake pamusoro pemhirizhonga dzepabonde.
Anofungidzira 15 muzana yevarume vakaroorana vasina kurara nemumwe wavo mumwedzi mitanhatu yekupedzisira kusvika kune rimwe gore. Kuongorora kwedu kusina chesayenzi panyaya dzepabonde dzakaderera kunoratidza huwandu hwakanyanya hwevaya vanoita sarudzo vanozviona ivo vachiroorana zvepabonde. Zvimwe ichi ndicho chikonzero iwe uri kutsvaga nyaya pamusoro pehurukuro yewanano!
Pasinei, iwe hausi woga. "Kuroorana pasina zvepabonde" iri izwi rinotsvaga paIndaneti.
Michele Weiner Davis, munyori webhuku iro, Sex Starved Marriage akatsanangura kuti nei kuroorana kwepabonde kwepabonde ndiro dambudziko guru muwanano: "Ndiyo apo mumwe wako ari kuda chaizvo kubata mamwe, kushamwaridzana kwepanyama, zvepabonde zvakawanda, uye mumwe wake ari kufunga : "Chii chikuru? Chikonzero nei iwe wakangodaro wakanetsa? "Kana izvi zvisingabvumirwi kuitika, hukama hwepedyo pamatunhu ose hunowedzera kudonha.Icho chaicho pamusoro pekunzwa uchida, kunzwa unoda, kunzwa unofadzwa uye unonzwa uchibatanidzwa uye, mune izvi, uchinzwa uchikadzi. rega kupedza nguva pamwe chete vanorega kusiya kuseka kwejokes uye vanomira kutarisa maziso, kushamwaridzana pakati pavo kunonyadzisa, uye kunoita kuti imba yako ive pangozi yekusatenda uye kurambana. "
Mazano Okubatsira Imba Yisina Kuita Zvepabonde
- Ziva zviratidzo zvekuroorana kwepabonde.
- Taura nemumwe wako pamusoro pehutano hwepabonde kana kwete zvepabonde mumba mako. Zvinogona kunge zvakaoma, asi zvakakosha.
- Gamuchira kuti kuchinja kusaroorana kwako kwepabonde hakuzovi nyore. Imi mose munoda kuita sarudzo yekuva nembairo yakanaka.
- Sezvaunotaura, sarudza nzira dzaunofunga kuti unogona kudzorera hupenyu hwako hwepabonde.
- Isa zvepabonde purogiramu yako. Inonzwika isinganzwisisiki, asi inogonawo kunge yakanyanya rudo kudai yakaitwa nenzira yakarurama. Imi mose muchava nechimwe chinhu chekutarisira mberi!
- Tora basa idzva pamwechete. Iwe unofanirwa kuedza kuvandudza rudo rwako nekusika izvo zvinokuita iwe pakutanga. Novelty uye dating kunobatsira!
- Ona vanachiremba vako kuti vatarise hutano hwehutano hwakakonzera hupenyu hwako hwepabonde. Kune mhinduro dzakawanda dzinogona kubatsira, asi iwe unofanirwa kuvhura chiremba wako. Vakanzwa zvose uye vachakwanisa kubatsira kana iwe wakatendeseka.
- Edzai muchato kudzokera, musangano kana seminari kuti ubatsire nekukurukurirana nekubatana.
- Chimbofunga kuona chiremba wevanyanzvi vanoita zvepabonde mumhuri. Mumwe chiremba wepabonde anozivikanwa angabatsira zvikuru munyaya iyi.
Kana mumwe wako asingabvumirani kuti kune dambudziko mumhuri yako uye haadi kuchinja, iwe uchafanira kusarudza kana hutsika hwepabonde kana huri hwepabonde isangano rakakunakira iwe. Usaita chisarudzo chokupandukira mumwe wako uye kusava wakatendeseka senzira yekubata kushungurudzika kwako nekushayikwa kwepabonde muwanano yako.
Nyaya yakarongwa naMarni Feuerman