Kunyange zvazvo dzimwe nguva dzisingakanganwiki, holide yePasika inowanzova yakaoma kune mumwe munhu anoshungurudzwa rufu rwomudiwa. Havasi chete vanofirwa vanogona kuomerwa nekufarira tsika, tsika, uye kuungana kunobatanidza neIsita, asi holide inogonawo kusimbisa chokwadi chekuti nhengo yemhuri inodiwa kana shamwari isisipo, inowedzera manzwiro edu ekurasikirwa.
Ichi chinyorwa chinopa mazano mashanu ekukubatsira kutsungirira nehotera yeIsita kana uri kuchema rufu rwomudiwa.
Dzorera Iko Easter Yenyu
Vanhu vakuru vanowanzoona zvisingaiti zvechitendero zve Easter se "fesheni yemwana" uye chimwe chinhu chavari kunze, asi mubereki wese anoziva kungofanana nekugadzirira kunoenderera mberi uye shure kwezviitiko kuitira kuti zororo iri rive rakakosha kumwana anotarisira kushanyira kubva paIsita Bunny kana kufara kwekuvhima mazai eIsita. Mukuwedzera, mhuri dzakawanda dzinoungana pamwe chete paSvondo yeSvondo kwekudya kwemazororo chaiwo, iyo inodawo kutarisira kukuru, kutenga, kubika, kuchenesa, nezvimwewo.
Kana iwe usingafungi nezvekuedza kunodiwa nemitemo yako yeIsita gore rino, kana kana wakafa wako waunoda aigarisa zvinhu izvi, saka usatya kutya kubvunza nhengo dzemhuri yako uye / kana shamwari kuti ikubatsire . Kushungurudzwa kunokonzerwa nerufu rwemunoda kunotora kunyatsoita muviri, mupfungwa uye mupfungwa kune vakafirwa uye, nokuda kwezvikonzero zvakasiyana-siyana, iwe ungasava nesimba uye / kana kufarira mukusimudzira chikamu chako "chenguva dzose" panguva ino.
Saka, bvunza avo vari pedyo newe kuti vabatsirwe uye vagovera mabasa chero ipi zvayo kana mabasa ako aunofunga kuti iwe unogona kuita iye zvino - kana ivo vachida uye iwe uchiramba uchiziva kuti mumwe munhu anganzwawo sewe unoitevera rufu.
Dzokai Easter Worship kana zvichidiwa
Mushure mekufa kweumwe munhu wepedyo, vazhinji vakafirwa vanobvunza mibvunzo yavo yechitendero / yekunamata nekutenda kwavo kune vose.
Manzwiro aya anogona kuitika apo rufu rwakaratidza kamwe kamwe, zvisingatarisirwi kana pasi pedambudziko, kana kutevera kurasikirwa kwechecheche, mwana, mwana kana mumwe munhu anofa "asati asvika nguva yake."
Uyezve, kushungurudzika kunogona kukonzera kuchinja kukuru muitiro wedu wenguva dzose sezvo tichiedza kutsungirira kurasikirwa. Vanhu vanowanzotsvaka uye / kana kunakidzwa nekamwe nevamwe, somuenzaniso, vangave vaine chido chakasimba chekugara vari voga kupfuura nguva dzose, kana kuti havanzwi sokuda kuenda kunze kwevanhu. Kunyange zvakadaro, vamwe vanonetseka kuti havazokwanisi kuibatanidza kana "kuisa chiso chakashinga" nekuda kwekutambudzika kwavo mukati nekutambudzika.
Pasinei nechikonzero chacho, kana tsika dzako dzeIsita dzinosanganisira kuenda kune imwe nzvimbo yekunamatira, asi iwe haunzwi mairi kana kuti unetseka iwe unogona kukura zvakare mupfungwa, zvino zvipe pfuure uye uzvidzike gore rino . Pane kudaro, ita zvose zvaunoda kuti uite holide iyi kuti uwedzere kukunda kushungurudzika kwako ( ona "Cope Ugly" pasi ). Kereke yako kana nzvimbo yako yekunamatira haigoni kuputsika muguruva kana iwe usiripo panguva iyi yekushumira uye iwe unogonazve kudzoka kwako nguva dzose gore rinouya panguva yezororo yePasika kana iwe uchinzwa.
Tarisira Hora / Zuva Rokubatanidza
Muchitendero chechiKristu chechitendero, Easter Svondo rinoreva "kuberekwa patsva," kureva, kumuka kwaJesu mushure mokufa kwake kubva pamuchinjikwa mazuva matatu apfuura.
Kubva pane maonero makuru, zvenyika, holide yeIsita inowanzoratidza kuvanhu vazhinji nguva apo zviratidzo zvinooneka zvechitubu zvinowanikwa zvakajeka / zvakajeka, izvo zvinoratidzira chiratidzo chekukunda kwehupenyu pamusoro pekufa (mutsivho nechando). Miti nemaruva zvinotanga kupenya kumativi ose eIsita, somuenzaniso; kunaya kwechando kana mvura inonaya yechando inotanga kukurira sezvo kuwedzerwa kwezuva kunowedzera kutonhora; Inguva yekuzarurazve dzimba dzedu uye zvakare tanga kutanga kunze kwekunze; nezvimwewo.
Nemhaka yezvikonzero izvi uye nevamwe vazhinji, zvichiziva kana kwete, zvinowanzobatana neIsita ne "hupenyu" nekuyeuka kufara kwakamboitika kwekuyeuka kwemazuva ano kunosanganisira akafa .
Iyi yezororo / sangano rinokonzera gore rinogona kukurudzira kana kuwedzera manzwiro ako ekurasikirwa pasi pePaster, saka zvakakosha kuti vose vanzwisise uye kunyange kutarisira kubatana uku kuitira kuti mugone kunyatsobudirira kubata nemarwadzo enyu.
Taura Nevana Vako
Kana iwe uchizviwana uchinetseka kukunda Easter gore rino uye une mwana, ipapo hovha ingaratidzawo zvakaoma kumwana wako (s) kutevera kurasika kweumwe munhu pedyo. Kutaura nevana pamusoro pekufa hakuwanzove nyore, asi mwana anowanzonzwisisa kana kunzwa (kusvika kune zvisiyana zvakasiyana) kune vakawanda vakura vanoziva nekutevera kufa kwemudiwa. Kunyangwe iwe usingatauri nezve kurasikirwa nevana vako, vanogona kutora zvisiri izvo mazwi zvaunoratidza, zvakadai sekusuwa, misodzi, kana kuora mwoyo, izvo zvingakanganisa mafungiro uye / kana mufambiro wemwana wako.
Zvinosuruvarisa, vamwe vabereki / vatarisi vanogona kutenda imwechete kana kupfuura dzimwe nhoroondo dzinoshungurudza pamusoro pevana nevechiri kuyaruka, sevana vaduku havanoshungurudzi, vanokurumidza kudzoka kubva pakurasikirwa, kana kuti zvakanakisisa kuti vasazovhiringidza vana nekutaura nezvekufa. Kana iwe uchinzwa usina chokwadi nezvekuti mwana wako ari kunyatsogadzirisa sei, kana kuti iye "anoziva" kana kuti anonzwisisa zvakadini, saka zororo reIsita rinopa mukana mukuru wekubatsira mwana wako kuratidza kushungurudzika kwake nekuverenga bhuku rinokosha pamwechete, kudyara muti wekuyeuchidza kana shrub, kana kungova nokutaura kwakatendeseka, kusununguka pamusoro pemanzwiro ako. Kutora nguva yekuongorora uye kunzwisisa kushungurudzika kwemwana wako hakugoni kumubatsira chete kana kurasika kurasikirwa nenzira yakanaka, asi kuchasimbisa chokwadi chokuti hakuna mumwe wenyu ari oga mukutambudzika kwako .
Cope Ugly
Kufanana neminwe yedu yeminwe, nzira yatinopindura nayo nekufa kwemudiwa yakasiyana. Sezvambotaurwa pamusoro, kushungurudzika uye kuchema zvinotora muviri chaiwo, mupfungwa, uye mupfungwa pamitumbi yedu, pfungwa, moyo, nemweya, asi hapana vanhu vaviri vanoona kurasikirwa nenzira imwecheteyo. Kunyange zvazvo vamwe vanochema, somuenzaniso, vachatsvaka rubatsiro kubva kune boka rekutambudzika-vamwe, vamwe vachaedza kutsungirira kurasikirwa kuburikidza nekubatsirwa uye kushamwaridzana neshamwari kana vemumhuri, kana kuti voga, mukati negavo. Kunyange zvakadaro, vamwe vachaedza kutarisira kuburikidza nokuzvirasa ivo pachavo mune basa, chido kana chido chekuita; nokuzvipira kubatsira vamwe; nokutora rwendo kuitira kutiza zviyeuchidzo zvemudiwa wavo; nezvimwewo.
Pfungwa ndeyekuti sezvo ukama hwako nevakafa hwaive humwe-we-a-mutsa, ndizvo zvazvakaitawo kushungurudza kwako. Hakune "zvigaro" zvisingatarisirwi zvekushungurudzika; hapana zviratidzo pamwe chete ne "rwendo" zvinoratidza kuti iwe wakakura zvakadini kana kuti uri kure zvakadini. Chinonyanya kukosha, hapana nzira yakarurama kana nzira yakakodzera yekurwadzisa rufu rweumwe munhu waunoda . Saka, rega kuteerera mazano mazano akanaka kana mazano kubva kune avo vanokupoteredza kana iwe usingafungi kuti zvingakubatsira; usakanganise inzwi duku iri romukati "uchitaura" iwe kuti iwe unofanira kuita izvi, kana kuita kuti unzwe uine mhosva kana iwe usingakwanisi kuita izvozvo.
Pane kudaro, ita chero chipi zvacho chaunofunga kana kunzwa chinogona kukubatsira kuti utsungirire kushungurudzika kwako nhasi, kana kwemaawa mashomanana anotevera, kana kunyange kumaminetsi mashomanana anotevera . Kana iwe uchifunga kuenda kunotenga, kana kune spa, kana kuti kufamba kunobatsira, zvino ita. Kana iwe uchinzwa uchida kuenda kunamato yeIsita kana kuti mhuri yako yekuzorodza pamwe chete ichabatsira, zvino itai-kunze kwekuti iwe usingafariri kana kufunga kuti hazvingakubatsiri kukunda. George Bonanno, Ph.D., akabatanidza izwi rokuti "kubata zvakaipa" kusimbisa pfungwa yokuti maitiro atinoita sei nekurwadziwa / kushungurudzika "hazvidi hazvo kuti inofanira kuva chinhu chakanaka, inongoda kuti basa riitike."
Dzimwe Nyaya Dzinogona Kubatsira:
• Kupona Nzira Dzakagadzirisa Kutarisana neHeri Yenhamo
• "Zita Remazita" Rinobatsira Vana Kutaura Kusuruvara
• Chii Chakutaurira Mubereki Anoshungurudzika
• Nzira Dzinoshanda Yokubatsira Munhu Anoshungurudzika
Sources:
"Kubata Kwevanhu Kubudirira Pasinei Nezvakangoita Njodzi" naGeorge A. Bonanno, Ph.D., uye Anthony D. Mancini, Ph.D., February 2008. www.pediatrics.aappublications.org . Yakadzorerwa musi waMarch 10, 2016. Mutsara wevanyori.