Unhu hwekamanikidzi shopaholic
Ndezvipi zviratidzo zvekuva shopaholic? Mune tsika yakakurumbira, chimiro chemunhu anotengesa zvinokonzerwa nemufaro, musikana wechidiki musikana ane hanya nezvinhu zvishoma kupfuura zvitsva zvitsva nemabhegi. Kuzivikanwa kwe "Confessions yeShopaholic" mabhuku nemavhidhiyo inotaura kukumbira kwechifananidzo ichi.
Asi kutsvakurudza kunopa mufananidzo wakasiyana wemamiriro aya asinganzwisisiki.
Hezvino kutarisa mupfungwa dzechokwadi shopaholic.
Shopaholic Inotsvaka Kubvumirwa Nevamwe
Kutengesa kwekutengesa kana shopaholic unhu hwakawanikwa huchifarirwa kupfuura zvisiri zve shopaholic zvidzidzo, zvichireva kuti vane mwoyo munyoro, vanonzwira tsitsi uye vasingatambudzi kune vamwe. Kazhinji kacho kusurukirwa uye kurega, chiitiko chekutenga chinopa shopaholic nekubatana kwakanaka nevatengesi uye tariro yokuti izvo zvavakatenga zvichavandudza ukama hwavo nevamwe. Shopaholics vanewo tsika yekushandiswa nyore nyore nevamwe.
Mashoko akanaka kana iwe uri shopaholic ndechokuti kuva nemutsa, kutenderwa kuchaita kuti zvive nyore kwauri kuti ugadzirise hukama hwakanaka hwehutano kana iwe uchitsvaga kurapwa kwako. Uhu hunhu hwemunhu hunogona kukugadzirisa iwe kuti uite mazano emurapa wako uye kuti uwedzere kukurudzirwa kwevamwe mukurapa kweboka .
The Shopaholic Has Low Self Esteem
Kunyanya kuzviremekedza ndechimwe chezvinhu zvinowanikwa zvakajairika mune zvidzidzo zve shopaholic unhu. Kutenga inzira yekuedza kugadzirisa kuzvidzora, kunyanya kana chinhu chaidiwa chinosanganiswa nemufananidzo wezvinoshandiswa nomupfuri. Asi kuzvidzora kuzvidzora kunogonawo kuva mugumisiro wekutengesa kutengesa, kunyanya sechikwereti kunogona kuwedzera kunzwa kwekusakosha uye kusina maturo.
Nhau dzakanaka ndeyokuti nekuzvifungisisa-fungisisa, zvichida nekubatsirwa kwechiremba, iwe uchaona kune zvakawanda zvekukoshesa zvechokwadi pamusoro pako, zvakadai semutsa wako une rudo, wataurwa pamusoro.
The Shopaholic Has Problems Emotional
Sezvowo tsika yakawanda yekusagadzikana kwepfungwa kana kufungidzira kwepfungwa, zvidzidzo zvakawanawo kuti kutengesa mabhizinesi kazhinji kunotambura nekuzvidya mwoyo uye kuora mwoyo . Kutenga kunowanzoshandiswa senzira yekusimudza midzimu, kunyange kwechinguva.
Nhau dzakanaka ndechokuti zvose kuzvidya mwoyo uye kuora mwoyo zvinogona kurapwa nepfungwa dzepfungwa uye mishonga, kana zvichidikanwa. Izvi zvipembenene zvinoshanda zvakanyanya kudarika kufara kwenguva pfupi kwekutenga.
The Shopaholic Has Difficulty Controlling Impulses
Mifungiro ndeyezvakasikwa - kamwe-kamwe, kukurudzirwa kukuru kuita chimwe chinhu kukubata iwe, uye iwe unonzwa kudiwa kwekuita. Vanhu vazhinji vanozviona zviri nyore kutonga mafungiro avo uye vakadzidza kuita saizvozvo munguva yehuduku. Shopaholics, kune rumwe rutivi, vanowana mafungiro, kunyanya mafungiro anosanganisira kutenga chimwe chinhu, zvose zvinotyisa uye zvisingagoneki.
Mashoko akanaka ndeokuti iwe unogona kuwana simba pamusoro pemafungiro ako okushandisa, kunyanya kana iwe uchibata nedzimwe dambudziko riripo.
The Shopaholic Indulges in Fantasy
Iko kukwanisa kufungidzira kunowedzera mune shopaholics kupfuura inowanzo kune vamwe vanhu.
Kune nzira dzakasiyana-siyana dzokuti mafungiro anogona kusimbisa tsika yekutenga zvakanyanya. The shopaholic inogona kufungidzira nezvekufambisa kwekutengesa kana ichiita mune mamwe mabasa; vanogona kufungidzira zvose migumisiro yakanaka yekutenga chinhu chaidiwa, uye vanogona kupukunyuka kupinda munyika inofadza kutiza mikana yakaoma yehupenyu.
Nhau dzakanaka dze shopaholics ndechokuti kuva nesimba rakasimba rekufungidzira kunogona kubatsira zvikuru munguva yekurapa uye kunogona kubatsira mukudzidzira unyanzvi huchakubatsira kukurira kusagadzikana kwako, kwakadai sekusununguka kudzidziswa.
The Shopaholic Is Materialistic
Kutsvakurudza kunoratidza kuti shopaholics inowedzera kudarika zvinhu kune vamwe vatengi, asi kune kuoma mukuda kwavo zvinhu zvenyama.
Vanoshamisika kuti havafariri mune zvinhu uye vari kunyanya kuderedzwa kuwana zvinhu zvenyama kune vamwe vatengi, zvinotsanangura kuti nei shopaholics inotenga zvinhu zvavasingadi kana kushandisa.
Saka ivo vanowedzera sei zvinhu zvenyama? Zvakanaka, kune mamwe maviri maonero ekudisa zvinhu, godo, nekusava nerupo, uye izvi ndezvisina simba zve shopaholic. Vane godo zvikuru uye vasingadi kupa kune vamwe. Izvi zvinoshamisa, zvichiti chokwadi chokuti zvipo ndezvokutenga zvese zve shopaholics, asi izvi zvinoratidzika semuedzo wekutenga "rudo" nekuwedzera hukama hwehukama, pane kuva nechiito chechokwadi chekupa.
Mashoko akanaka ndeokuti kuburikidza nekuwedzera kuzviremekedza kwako uye kukwanisa kwako kubatana nevamwe nenzira chaiye, iwe ucharasikirwa nekutenda kwako kuti rudo nekuyemura kunogona kutengwa.
Mukuziva zvaunofanirwa kupa, iwe hauchazonzwa uchida kuviga shure kwechifananidzo chinokurudzirwa nekutengesa. Iwe unogona kuva iwe pachako uye urarame mune zvaunokwanisa.
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