Kushungurudzwa Kwemishonga Inobata Basa, Asi Haisi Mhosva
Kushandisa zvinodhaka nekushandisa doro kwenguva refu kwakabatanidzwa kumhirizhonga kumhuri, asi kunyanya kushandiswa kwezvinodhaka zvinokonzera kukonzera zviitiko zvechisimba hazvisi pachena. Kubvumirana kukuru kunoratidzika sekuti kushandisa doro uye kushandisa zvinodhaka kunogona kuita sechinhu chinokurudzira mukukakavhiringidza kunopesana nekuputika kwechisimba asi hachisi chikonzero chaiicho chekuita.
Doro inogona kuita chikamu mumhirizhonga mudzimba nekuti inogona kukanganisa kururamisira kwevatambudzi, kuderedza kusagadzikana uye kuwedzerwa utsinye.
Pakave nekuongororwa kwakawanda kunoitwa pahukama pakati pezvinodhakwa nekudhakwa mumhuri uye kuwandisa kwedoro rekushandisa doro panguva yechisimba chisati chave chakataurwa kubva kubva ku25 kusvika ku80%.
Asi hapana humwe uchapupu hwezvesayenzi hunoita hukonzero -uye-hukama hukama pakati pezvinodhaka uye hukama hwepedyo hwemhirizhonga.
Chii Chinokonzera Chisimba?
Ndeipi zvino inotanga zvikamu zvechisimba pakati pehama dzepedyo? Chii chinokonzera mutadzi kuti atange kurwisana nechisimba?
Nzira itsva yekutsvakurudza vashandisi vekumba nevanovhiringidzika inogona kuva chinhu chikuru chekuwana chikonzero chinowanzovhiringidza chiitiko chechisimba. Nokuteerera chaiyo hurukuro dzefoni pakati pevanopandukira avo vakaiswa mujeri nokuda kwechisimba chisina kuwanikwa mumba (chisimba chakakonzera kukuvadza kwakanyanya) uye avo vakaurayiwa, vatsvakurudzi vave vakakwanisa kuziva chaicho chakaita kuti zviitiko zvechisimba zvivepo.
Julianna Nemeth uye vamwe vatsvakurudzi veOhio State University vakateerera maawa akawanda ehurukuro dzakanzwika dzefoni hurukuro pakati pevarume vakadzvinyirira vaiva mujeri uye vakadzi vavo vakaurayiwa.
Vatsvakurudzi vakanga vachiedza kutsvaga chiitiko chekurumidza chechiitiko chisimba - "chinhu chimwe chakaitika kare chisati chaitika chisimba," akanyora kudaro.
Kupomera mhosva dzepabonde
Zvakawanikwa nevatsvakurudzi ndezvekuti chisimba chinowanzoteverwa kupomerwa kwekusabatwa kwepabonde kwakaitwa nemumwe kana vose vehukama hwepedyo.
Kushandisa zvinodhaka nekudhakwa kwaiwanzobatanidzwa munezviitiko izvi, asi kwete nguva dzose.
Kutsvakurudza kwakapfuura kwakaratidza kuti godo repabonde rakabatanidzwa mukubatwa kwepamba, asi veOhio State masayendisiti vakashamiswa kuona kuti rudzi urwu rwemhondi - kusatendeka kwezvakaitwa - ndiyo yakanga iri iyo inowanzotanga chisimba.
Zvimwe zvidzidzo zvakawana kuti kunyange kana nyaya dzichinwa doro, vamwe vanoramba vachiita zvechisimba kana nehasha kunze kwekunge vachinzwa kutyisidzirwa kana kutsamwa. Kushungurudzika kwekusatenda kunogona kukanganisa manzwiro ekutyisidzirwa.
Dzimwe Uhukama Hwepfungwa
"Ndave ndakashanda mumhirizhonga yemhuri kupindira kwemakore akawanda, asi zvakadaro zvitsva zvakandishamisa," akanyora munyori Nemeth akanyora. "Hatina kumboziva kuti iyi ndiyo yaipomerwa yekusatendeseka iyo yakangotanga kukonzera chisimba."
Pamwe pamwe nekupomerwa kwekusatendeseka sechikonzero chikuru chekuputika kwechisimba, nhaurirano dzefoni dzinoratidza humwe humwe hukama hwehukama hunokonzerawo hune hupombwe kune hukama hwepedyo hunoshandiswa. Dzinosanganisira:
- Kurwisana kwenguva refu pamusoro pekusatendeseka mune inenge hukama hwose.
- Kunyanya kushandisa zvinodhaka uye kudhakwa zvinodhaka, izvo zvakawedzera kukakavara muchisimba.
- Kutadza kusava nehutano hwepfungwa - kuora mwoyo, kufunganya nekuzviuraya.
A Red Flag for Violence
Vatsvakurudzi veOhio State vakagumisa kuti vatungamiri uye vatsigiri vanoshanda nevashandi vanoshungurudzwa munharaunda avo vari kuedza kuongorora kuti ingozi yakave yakanganisirwa iyi inofanirwa kukumbira zvakananga kana kupomerwa kwekusatendeseka kwepabonde kwakambokurukurwa nevakaroorana.
"Ndiyo mutsvuku mutsvuku iyo hukama hungave hune hutsinye," vakanyora kudaro.
Vakataurawo kuti vashandi vehutano vanoshanda nevanoshungurudzwa vakaroorana vanofanirawo kuratidza kushandiswa kwezvinodhaka nekudhakwa pamwe chete nehutano hwepfungwa.
Wana rubatsiro rwaunoda
Ongororo dzakapfuura dzakakurudzirawo kubatanidza kushandiswa kwezvinodhaka uye kushandiswa kwechisimba mumhuri.
Kunyange zvazvo kune maonero akasiyana pamusoro pekuti chinodhaka chinodhaka nechinodhaka chinodini mumhirizhonga yepedyo yevamwe, tsvakurudzo yakaratidza kuti kupa doro uye kushandiswa kwevashandi pamwe chete kunogona kubatsira pakugumisa kushungurudzwa.
Kana iwe kana mumwe munhu waunoziva ihwo hukama hwakakonzerwa nekusatendeseka kwepabonde uye umo pane imwe nzira yekushandisa zvinodhaka kana doro, tapota tsvaka rubatsiro. Kune rubatsiro uye rubatsiro runowanika munzvimbo yako .
Sources:
Collins, JJ, et al. "Nhaurirano Mukubatanidza Doro uye Nzvimbo Dzechisimba Dzimba." Ichangobva Kuvandudzwa muAlcoholism, Bhuku 13: Kunwa Doro uye Chisimba . Yakasvika 2012.
Nemeth, JM, et al. "Kuita zvepabonde kusatendeseka sekutonga: Zviitiko Zvokuongorora Kuwirirana Kwevamwe Vachiita." Nyaya Yehutano hwevakadzi .