Zviduku zvepabonde mapoka evanhu vanoita zvepabonde, zvepabonde kana maitiro ehupombwe zvakasiyana nehuwandu hunofungidzirwa hwehuwandu hwevanhu, huri varume kana vakadzi vanoita zvepabonde.
Zvekuita zvepabonde
Kushandiswa kwakajairika kwemashoko ekuita zvepabonde vashoma ndeyekutaura kune vanhu vanoita zvepabonde havakwanisi kuita zvepabonde. Izvi zvinosanganisira vanhu vanoita zvoungochani, kusanganisira varume vanoita zvepabonde - varume vanokwezva zvepabonde uye / kana kuita zvepabonde nevarume kwete vakadzi, uye vakadzi vechibharo - vakadzi vanodanana nevarume uye / kana vanoita zvepabonde nevakadzi asi kwete varume; uye bisexuals - varume nevakadzi vanokwezva zvepabonde uye / kana kuita zvepabonde nevarume nevakadzi.
Vamwe varume vanozivikanwa sevanhurume, uye vamwe vakadzi vanozviti sevanhurume, uyewo varume nevakadzi vanozivikanwa sevanhurume, vanotsanangura maitiro avo sekubatana nevanoita gay, lesbian kana kubatana, zvisinei nezvido zvepabonde kana kunyange chido chepabonde. Vose varume nevakadzi vanogona kuonekwa semuviri kune pane gayana, kunyange zvazvo vamwe vakadzi vechibharo nevarume vanoita zvechinguvana vachiri kugumburwa nezwi queer.
Chimwe chidiki chepabonde "varume vanoita zvepabonde nevarume" kana kuti MSM kwenguva pfupi. Varume ava havasi nguva dzose vanozviti ivo gay, bisexual, kana queer.
Kunyange zvazvo vanhu vose vanoita zvepabonde vanogona kuzviona semasimba pamusoro pehupombwe hwevamwe - vamwe vachizvirumbidza pamusoro pezvakarurama zve gaydar yavo-hapana munhu anogona zvechokwadi kuziva manzwiro omumwe munhu, uye hakuna munhu ane kodzero yekutaura zvepabonde chinangwa cheumwe munhu. Nokudaro, kuratidzira zvepabonde kune mumwe munhu kune zvakakwana kuti vasarudze uye vaudze, sezvavanofunga kuti zvakakodzera.
Nokuda kwekuoma kunzwisisa kwemanzwiro epabonde, izvo munhu umwe neumwe anosarudza zvinogona kuchinja panguva dzakasiyana dzehupenyu hwavo. Vamwe vanhu vanoita zvepabonde vanochinja, kana avo vanokohwa kune vanhu vakasiyana-siyana pasinei nehutano, vanozvitsanangura ivo sepansexual, asi vamwe avo vanozivikanwe chete vanobatanidzwa nehupombwe hwavo vanotsanangura ivo sevasxual.
Kuzivikanwa kwevanhukadzi uye zvepabonde
Vana vashoma vanoita zvepabonde vanobatanidza vanhu vanoita zvepabonde - varume nevakadzi vanozviratidza sevanopesana nevakadzi, vangave vakawana kana kuti vakambova nemhando ipi zvayo yezvechikadzi zvekare, uye vanhu vane maitiro evanhukadzi , avo vanonzi vanaamai, vanoberekwa kana kuti vanoita zvepabonde unhu husati huri hwemurume kana kazhinji hukadzi, kana kuti kune izvo zvinoita sechisungo chechimiro chevarume nevakadzi. Vanogona kana kuti vasasarudze kuvhiyiwa uye / kana mamwe marapirwo ekupa varume kana vakadzi, uye vangangodaro kana vasina kunge vakasarudzwa munyaya iyi, kana chimiro chevakadzi chikapiwa kwavari mucheche. Vamwe vanhu vanoramba pfungwa ye "bhinary sex", kureva kuti, havatendi kuti munhu wose anofanira kupiwa kune varume kana vakadzikadzi, kana kuti kunzwa zvakasimba kufambidzana nevanhurume nevakadzi nehutsika. Dzinogona kureva hutano hwavo sehutano hwemadzimai, "varumekadzi" kana kuti "vasati varoorana".
Kwete Zvose Zviduku Zvepabonde Zvakabatanidzwa
Sezvakarehwa zvezvematongerwe enyika, zviduku zvepabonde zvinowanzoreva kumapoka evanhu vanoita zvepabonde kana kuti maziviro mukati memiganhu inogamuchirwa nevanhu - kureva, vanhu vane unhu hwepabonde hune chokuita nemitemo yepabonde yepamutemo pakati pevakuru vanobvuma.
Izwi harisi iro rinogamuchirwa rinotaura nezvekudhakwa kwepabonde , saramiro, kushungurudzwa kwepabonde kwevana , kana paraphilias, kunyange zvazvo kuwedzerwa, mharaunda yepamyamori inowanikwa kugamuchirwa sevanhu vashoma zvepabonde.
Kushandisa Zvishandiswa uye Kuwedzeredza Mungozi Njodzi Dzepabonde
Kunyange zvazvo vamwe vashoma vanoita zvepabonde vakawanda kupfuura vamwe, kuva chikamu chevanhu vashoma vanoita zvepabonde kunowedzera kuwedzera dambudziko rekushandisa zvinodhaka nekushandisa zvinodhaka. Zvisinei, kutsvakurudza kwakanyanya kuisa pfungwa kune varume vanoita zvepabonde, kunyanya fambi uye kutamba chiitiko, uye sangano revarume vane gay rine kushandisa zvinhu zvinotungamirira kune nhema pamusoro pekuita gay meth use .
Kunyange zvazvo kutsvakurudza kuri kure nekutaura, zvinoratidzika kuti zvinonzwisisika kuti kuwedzerwa kunetseka kwekuva chikamu chevanhu vashoma zvepabonde, panzvimbo pechinhu chipi nechipi chine chokuita nekuita zvepabonde kana chizivi chepabonde, ndicho chikonzero chekuwedzera kwechiitiko.
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