Unogona Kuita Zvepabonde Zvepabonde Here?
Kuita zvepabonde kusagadzikana, kufanana nezvimwe zvinodhakwa, ndiyo maradaptive mararamiro emuitiro nekuramba uchivimba nemhando dzakasiyana dzekutaura zvepabonde kuitira kuti utsungirire matambudziko ehupenyu. Kufanana nezvimwe zvinodhakwa, kune nzira yekutenderera yakagadzikana, inosanganisira:
- inokurudzira uye chido chekuita zvepabonde
- nzira yokuronga uye kuronga kuita zvepabonde
- manzwiro ekuzorodzwa uye kufara paanenge achiita zvepabonde , kuteverwa nenguva yekusiya uye kudzokorora zvido
Kuita Zvepabonde Kuita Zvepabonde Kwakasiyana Sei Kunakidzwa Nepabonde Zvakawanda?
Chii chinokonzera zvepabonde kushaya muropa, kusingapindire kunakidzwa nekuita zvepabonde nevakawanda pamwe chete navo, nde:
- kudzokorora mafungiro ekufunga uye maitiro, izvo zvinoenderera pasinei nemigumisiro yakaipa
- iyo inokanganisa maitiro inoenderera mberi kwenguva yakareba
- kamwechete migumisiro inova pachena uye mishonga haikwanisi kumisa maitiro, vanofunga kuti vari kurasikirwa nekugadzirisa
Pane hutano hwakawanda hwepabonde kubva kubva kune chinonyadzisa kusvika kumugadziri zvinoguma nemigumisiro yakasiyana-siyana, zvimwe zvinokanganisa munhu wose ane zvinodhaka zvepabonde (zvakadai sehutano hwehukama), uye zvimwe zvingakanganisa vanhu vashoma (zvirwere zvepabonde, nyaya dzemari, uye zvepamutemo zvinetso).
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Rubatsiro runobatsira runowanikwa kune vanodhakwa zvepabonde.
Zvimwe zvinodhaka zvinotanga kugadzirwa kuti zvibatsire vanhu kukurira doro nezvinodhaka zvinetso zvekare zvinobatawo vanhu vane zvinodhaka zvepabonde, kunyange izvi zvisirizvo nemakiriniki ose emishonga.
Nyanzvi dzekliniki, inowanzotarisirwa hurumende, inopa kurapwa zvakananga zvekuita zvepabonde nekusimbiswa kwemari haisi nyore nyore kuwana semari yekudhakwa nedoro uye zvinodhaka.
Iko kunewo maverengera gumi nemaviri ekutsigira mapoka anowanikwa kune vanoita zvepabonde.
Kuvhiringidza kwepabonde kukanganisa
Icho chiri kuwedzera humwe uchapupu hwehupombwe hunokanganisa humwe hunotevera hunoziva uye hunhu hunoita uye hunosanganisira maitiro ehupano akafanana kune zvimwe zvinodhaka.
Zvisinei, kutengesa zvepabonde hazvizivikanwi panguva ino muDaagnostic uye Statistical Manual yeMental Disorders. Kunyange zvazvo kuongorora kutsva kweHypersexual Disorder kwakagadzirirwa DSM-V, haina kugamuchirwa.
Kuita zvepabonde kusagadzikana chinhu chakaoma kune vose vadzidzisi uye vanhu vose vanofanira kutora zvakanyanya. Pane zvikonzero zvakawanda zveizvi:
- Zvepabonde rinosanganisira mararamiro akasiyana uye akasiyana-siyana emaitiro. Zvimwe, zvakadai sekuita bonhora, zvakajairika apo vamwe, vakadai sevana vasina kujairika, vasingatarisiri uye vanobva kure ne "tsika" yevamwe vamwe vanoona zvakaoma kurondedzera kana kunzwisisa kunzwisisa kwekuita kwakadaro.
- Kubvuma kusagadzikana kwechishuwo chepabonde sekusimba uye kusimbisa simba ndiro chikonzero chekuita zvepabonde.
- Kuvhiringidzika pamusoro pezvaizoita kuti "kuregera" kubva kune zvinodhaka zvepabonde, sekuzvidzivirira, tsanangudzo yekugadzirisa zvimwe zvinodhaka, haisi nzira yakanaka yekuita kana kutarisira kwakanaka kune vanhu vakawanda.
- Kuita zvepabonde kunoramba kuri imwe yenhau dzakanyanya mumasangano, saka vanhu vane zvinodhaka zvepabonde kakawanda vanowanzosekwa uye kunyoreswa nenzira iyo vanhu vane mamwe mamiriro ezvinhu vasina kuzviisa pasi.
- Nokuti vamwe vanhu vane zvinodhaka zvepabonde, mune dzimwe nguva, kuvhiringidza vamwe kune zvepabonde, zvekuita zvepabonde zvinogona kuonekwa se "chikonzero" chekusava nehanya uye kuita zvakaipa.
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Sosaiti yekufambira mberi kwehutano hwepabonde. "Kuita zvepabonde." 12 Jan 2009.