Apo Zvakawanda Kupfuura Mumwe Wemumwe Wako Zvinosanganiswa
Kuva mararamiro ekureva hukama hwepabonde kana hwepabonde nemunhu anopfuura mumwechete panguva. Vanhu vanovhiringidza vanogona kunge vanoita zvepabonde, vanoita zvepabonde, vanoita zvepabonde, kana vanoita zvepabonde, uye hukama pakati pevanhu vanovhiringidza hunogona kusanganisira kusanganiswa kwevanhu vanoita zvepabonde zvakasiyana.
Chii Chinonzi Polyamory uye Chii Chisiri?
Vanhu vari muukama hwekunyadzisa vanogona kana kuti vangave vasati varoora, kunyange vanhu vanoona sevanokurudzira kunowanzove vachiramba kurambidzwa kwegungano rehutano hwemhuri , uye kunyanya, kukanganisa kune mumwe wako.
Polyamory haifaniri kunge yakavhiringidzika ne-bigamy, iyo inoroora kune munhu mumwe chete, uye izvo zvisiri pamutemo. Uyewo hazvifaniri kuvhiringidzika ne "mukadzi-swapping," kana kuti "kusvetuka" umo mahutano muhukama hwakagadziriswa akafananidza kugadzikana kushamwaridzana nevamwe vasikana vakasiyana nevamwe vakaroorana. Iyi urongwa hunosanganisira hupombwe kunze kwekuzvipira, ukama hwakagamuchirwa nepamutemo, izvo zvinyorwa zvisingabvumirwi.
Polyamory haina kufanana neukama "hwakasununguka", iyo inosanganisira vaviri vanozvipira vanobvumirana kuti mumwe kana vese vakaroorana vanobvumirwa kuita zvepabonde nevamwe vanhu, pasina kugoverana ruzivo kune vamwe vakaroorana, kunyange zvazvo vanhu vakaroorana vanogonawo kuva nehukama hwakasununguka.
Sex Addiction uye Polyamory
Kuita zvepabonde kusagadzikana hakusi kujekesa kwevanhu vanoita zvepabonde, uye vanhu vanonyadzisa havakwanisi kuita zvepabonde zvakanyanya. Zvisinei, vanhu vane zvirwere zvepabonde zvinoenderana nechishuvo chevamwe vakaroorana vanogona kunyanya kuswededzwa kunharaunda yepolyamorous.
Kunyange zvazvo vamwe vanhu vanonyadzisa vanosimbisa kukosha kwekukurukurirana zvakajeka nemiganhu pakati pevose vanofunga, zvakajeka kuoma kwehukama pakati pekubatana kwepamberi kunosiya vamwe vanotambura kushandiswa.
Kunyange zvazvo kune vanhu vazhinji vanobatanidzwa mukubatana kwepabonde nevanhurume kana vaviri, kune vamwewo vanhu vakawanda vanozviona sevanoratidzira uye vanopindirana nemirairo yekuita zvepabonde.
Vakawanda vari munharaunda yepolyamory vanoramba pfungwa yokuti kuparadzanisa uye zvepabonde kune zvekuita kune umwe neumwe. Maererano nePolyamory Society:
"Polyamory ndiyo isingatauri, yakatendeseka, inofunga uye ine tsika dzakanaka uye maitiro ekuda vanhu vakawanda panguva imwechete." Polyamory inotsanangura kusarudza kusarudza kuti vangani vanobatsirana avo vanoda kufambidzana navo pane kugamuchira mitemo yevanhu vanoita kuti vaite munhu mumwe chete panguva imwe. izwi rechimbera rinobatanidza hutano hwemadzimai ehukama nehuwandu hwehutano hwakasiyana-siyana.Polyamory inobatanidza kuenzana kwepabonde uye zvose zvido zvepabonde kune denderedzwa rakapararira revakaroorana neukama uye rudo.Pamyamory inobva mumidzo izwi Poly kureva vazhinji uye Amour zvinoreva rudo kubva ipapo " vazhinji vanoda " kana Polyamory.Zvino, rudo pacharo ndiro izwi rinonyanya kushamisa, asi mapurisa akawanda anoita seanorondedzera sechinhu chakakomba, hwepedyo, rudo, kana chisina kugadzikana, chisungo chine rudo iyo munhu ane mumwe munhu kana boka revanhu. Chisungo ichi kazhinji, zvisinei kwete nguva dzose, chinosanganisira zvepabonde. "Sexualove" kana kuti "eromance" mamwe mazwi akave ari mari d kudondedzera rudzi urwu rwe rudo. Mimwe mitauro inowanzoshandiswa sezvinonyanya kufanana neyamapuryamory ndeyemhosva, maitiro kana kuti nemaune kwete-monogamy. "