Kuburikidza kwekutaura kunogona kunge imwe yezvinhu zvinoshamisa zvikuru kuongorora. Kuchinja kunoshamisa kubva pakutaura zvishomanana zvisinganzwisisiki uye kutinhira kwekutaura zvakakwana, zvirevo zvakakomba zvinoitika nekutenda kusingatauriki. Kunyangwe vana vasati vataura mazwi avo okutanga, vatove vakakwanisa kunzwisisa mutauro wakawanda.
Vana vanofamba nepakati pezvikamu zvakasiyana- siyana zvekutaura mutauro . Rudzi rwekutanga rwemutauro runosanganisira kuita bhenekeri inzwi, iro rinozopedzisira richienda kune rimwe shoko rimwe. Kubva ipapo, vana vanokurumidza kuisa mazwi maviri pamwe chete uye pakupedzisira vanoenderera mberi kumutauro wemashoko akawanda.
Zvinotevera ndezvimwe zvezviitiko zvakakosha izvo vana vanowanzosvika sezvavanokudziridza mutauro uye unyanzvi hwokukurukurirana.
Kubva Kuberekwa kusvika Mwedzi mitatu
Zvingaita sechishamisika kuti mutauro unotanga kukurumidza pakarepo mushure mokuberekwa. Pamusoro pegore rokutanga rohupenyu hwemwana, vanogona kusiyanisa manzwi ose emutauro unoitika mumutauro. Mumwedzi mitatu yekutanga yehupenyu, vana vakawanda vanotanga ku:
- Teerera kumanzwi uye upindure kuburikidza nokutarisa mutauri
- Taura musiyano pakati pevabereki nemamwe manzwi evanhu
- Pindura kune kuchinja muzwi uye inzwi
- Ita zvakasiyana nemutauro wavo wemutauro pamwe neshoko risina mutauro
- Kurukura nekuchema, kuseka, nekubvongodza
- Tanga kuedza kutevedzera inzwi
Kubvira pa3 kusvika kumwedzi 6
Apo vana vasingakwanisi kutaura, izvi hazvirevi kuti havatauri. Iyi "hurukuro" yekutanga inotenderera pamisero, zviratidzo, meso nemeso uye chiso chekubatsira nekugadzirisa danho rekufambira mberi kwemashoko.
Kubva pamakore matatu kusvika matanhatu, vana vakawanda vanotanga ku:
- Tevedzera vowel nyore uye mhere-mhere
- Shanduko yekutarisana nevanotarisira, zvakadai sekumwemwerera kana mubereki achinyemwerera
- Teererai kukurukurirana kwevamwe
Kubvira pamwedzi 6 kusvika ku 9
Munguva iyi, vabereki vanowanzoona kuti mwana wavo ari kuramba achiwedzera. Mukuwedzera pakunyunyuta, vana vakawanda vanotanga kutaura mazwi avo okutanga akadai se "amai," "hanzvadzi," uye "bye." Pakati pemakore matanhatu kusvika mapfumbamwe, vana vakawanda vanotanga ku:
- Ita kuti kudzokorora kunzwike
- Shandisa zviratidzo zvemashoko uye zvisingaiti kuti utaure nevamwe
- Shandisa zviratidzo mukubatana nemashoko akajeka, akadai sekukanda uye achiti "bye"
Kubva pamwedzi 9 kusvikira kumwedzi gumi nemaviri
Sezvo vana vachienda kune rimwe gore remakore, ruzivo rwemutauro runowedzera zvinoshamisa. Kunyange vana vachigona kungobudisa mazwi mashomanana panguva ino, zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti vanogona kunzwisisa zvakawanda. Ichokwadi, vatsvakurudzi vakawana kuti vana vanotanga kunzwisisa mutauro kaviri nekukurumidza sezvavanodzidza kutaura chaizvo. Vana pakati pemakore mapfumbamwe nemwedzi gumi nemaviri vanogona kuve:
- Kunzwisisa mazita evanhu vakawanda nezvinhu
- Shandisa mutauro wemuviri uye chiso chekutaridza kuratidza manzwiro avanoita
- Ita kuti zviito zvavo kana mumwe munhu achiti "Kwete"
- Taura mazwi mashoma mashoma
Kubva pamakore 1 kusvika ku2
Mumakore ekutanga, kushandisa mutauro kunotanga kukura zvakanyanya. Vatsvakurudzi vanobudirira vanowanzoreva nguva iyi sechinyorwa chemashoko maviri nokuti vana vakawanda vanotanga kushandisa mazwi ari nyore, maviri-mazwi. Kutanga-kutarisana nemakore gumi nemana, vana vanotanga kudzidza vakadzika mazwi matsva 9 kusvika ku 10 zuva rega rega. Pagore rimwe chete, vana vakawanda vanotanga ku:
- Kunzwisisa mirairo yakadai se "Idya mbeu yako"
- Shandisa "mine" kuratidza zvinhu zvezvinhu
- Iva neshoko rinosanganisira mazwi akawanda anotaurwa zvakajeka
- Kazhinji shandisa mamwe mazwi asingatauri zvakajeka uye nhengo dzemhuri chete dzinogona kunzwisisa
- Tanga kuisa tambo pamwe chete mazwi ari nyore kuitira kutsanangura zvinhu kana zviitiko
Kubva pamakore maviri kusvika ku3
Mugore rechipiri, vana vanotanga kushandisa mutauro nenzira dzakaoma. Nenguva yemwedzi 24, inenge hafu yemashoko ose emwana ane mazwi mashoma maviri. Munguva iyi yekukura, vana zvakare:
- Iva nemashoko chaiwo okutsanangura zvinhu zvakawanda
- Inonzwisiswa nhengo dzemhuri
- Inotanga kushandisa zvirevo uye zvipikisheni
- Shandisa mairi maviri kusvika matatu-mazwi mashoko
- Unogona kutsanangura zvakaitika panguva iyo
Kubva pamakore matatu kusvika kumakumi mana
Pazera remakore matatu, vana vanotanga kuwedzera hukuru hwemutauro uye hutano hwekukurukurirana. Vanhu vakawanda kunze kwemhuri vanogona kunzwisisa zvinorehwa nemwana panguva iyi uye mwana anogona kukwanisa kukurukura achishandisa mitsara miviri kusvika mitatu nenguva. Mimwe mikana inotanga kubuda inosanganisira:
- Unogona kunzwisisa uye kushandisa mitsara
- Inotanga kushandisa nguva yakapfuura uye yakawanda
- Inokwanisa kutevera tsanangudzo mbiri kusvika kune ina
- Unogona kunzwisisa uye kushandisa mitsara inoshandisa nguva ("Ndiri ku zoo mangwana.")
- Dzidza uye kuimba nziyo
Kubvira pamakore mana kusvika kumashanu
Pakati pemakore mana uye mashanu, vana vanova vanyanzvi pakukurukurirana. Havasi ivo chete vanokwanisa kutaura pamusoro pekukonzera-uye-kushanda, vanogonawo kushandisa uye kunzwisisa mutauro wakasiyana-siyana wakadai sekutsanya, nekukurumidza, nekukurumidza. Dzimwe humwe hukuru hwekukurukurirana hunoitwa panguva ino dzinosanganisira:
- Inokwanisa kutevera tambo yepamusoro kune mitatu isingatauri mirairo
- Inonakidzwa nekuteerera nyaya dzakare uye unogona kuzvichengeta nekururama
- Vanoshandisa mitsara inowanikwa mumashoko mana kusvika mashanu
- Unogona kuunganidza pfungwa dzakasiyana mumutsetse mumwe chete
- Inobvunza mibvunzo pamusoro pekuti, sei, uye nei zvinhu zvichiitika
- Unogona kutaura pamusoro pezvinhu zvisingambofungi kana kuti zvenguva yemberi ("Ndinoda kuti ..." kana "Ndinotarisira kuti ...")
Yeuka, zviitiko zvose zvinosimudzirwa zvinoshanda sechitsanangudzo chekutanga chekusimudzira. Vose vana vanodzidza uye vanovandudza nenzira yakasiyana. Kana, asi, mwana wako ari kutadza kuzadzikisa zvimwe zviitiko uye hazviita sokuti haasi kukura paanotarisirwa, tarisa kuonana nehutano hwako hwehutano nezvekuwana kuongorora.
Iwe unofanirwawo kudzidza zvakawanda pamusoro pekukura kwehucheche nekuongorora zvinhu zvakakosha , zviitiko zvekufungisisa , uye hutano hwevanhu / hwemagariro .
References
Kudzidza Kuremara Association of America (1999). Kutaura uye mutauro wakaoma chati. Yakadzorerwa kubva ku http://www.ldonline.org/article/6313
Unyanzvi hwokukurukurirana. (nd). The Whole Child. Yakadzorerwa kubvahttp: //www.pbs.org/wholechild/abc/communication.html