Zvipe Iwe Kuputika Kunetseka Kunoenzaniswa Kwevanhu!
Chidzidzo chekunyatsotsvaga chakawana kuti vakadzi vanorondedzera kubatanidzwa nenzvimbo yehupenyu hwepikicha Pinterest seinovhiringidza. Chinonyanya kukosha apa ndechekufananidza kwevanhu munharaunda iyo vanozviwana ivo vachiita. Kune mishonga yakawanda yakawanda yekuita, mhizha yekuita, uye nzira dzekutarisa hupenyu, vakadzi vanozviwana ivo pachavo vanoshaiwa. Sezvo shamwari imwe ichangobva kuisa, "Ndiyo Marita Stewart Living wezvenhau dzekugarisana nevamwe!" Vamwe vanhu vanoona Pinterest kuti vaite zvekuti vanogona kudya maawa mazuva avo zvavasina kuronga kuzvipira kumagariro evanhu, vachiita kuti purogiramu yakawandisa ive yakawanda.
Zvisinei, kushungurudza kukuru nePinterest vanhu vanofunga kuti havakwanisi.
Chimwe chiitiko chinogona kudzvinyirira vanhu ndicho chinoshamisa chevanhu vanotumira nguva yavo yepamusoro pamagariro ehupfumi sezvakaitwa Facebook, asi vachirega zviitiko zvisina kunaka uye dambudziko - chimwe chinhu chinowanzoitika chakave chichitumidzwa nemumwe benzi benzi, " Facebooking. " Zviripo kuti isu tide kugovera nguva dzedu dzakanakisisa nevamwe, sezvinongoita zvekuzvidzivirira "kutinhira tsvina yedu" kana "Garfielding" (kungongonyunyuta pamusoro pezvose zvisingagoneki muupenyu, kusanganisira Misivhuro) nekutya kutsvaga shamwari. Izvi zvinogona, zvisinei, zvinotungamirira kudzvinyiriri apo vanhu vanofananidza zviitiko zvinonakidza uye zvinonakidza zvavanoona mu-Facebook feed (nguva dzakanakisisa muhupenyu hwevamwe vavo) nevanomanikidzwa navo (nguva dzakaderera muupenyu hwavo pachavo).
Kuenzanisa kwehutano hakusi chinhu chitsva - chakanga chisati chagadzirwa nehuwandu hwemagariro evanhu, kuva nechokwadi.
Zvisinei, mamiriro ezvinhu akafanana nemasikirwo emagariro evanhu anounza mukununurwa kwakakwirira. Tingawana sei zvikomborero zvehuwandu hwemagariro evanhu - kubatana, kuseka, kugoverana kwemashoko - asi kudzivisa zvinonetsa zvinouya nehuwandu hwemagariro evanhu uye "Fakebooking"? Heano mazano mashomanana:
Yeuka Kuti Ichi Hachisi Chaicho
Tine njere, tinoziva kuti vanhu vazhinji vanotora nguva yavo yakanakisisa yekushamwaridzana uye vanochengetedza nguva yavo yakaipa kune ivo pachavo, asi kana zvose zvatinotarisa zviri zvakanakisisa zvevamwe, tinogona kukanganwa.
Zvinogona kubatsira kuzviyeuchidza nezveizvi kakawanda.
Taura Nevamwe Shamwari
Inogonawo kubatsira kutaura kune shamwari dzako uye kuva chokwadi; iwe unogona kunge usingadi kuisa zvinetso zvako pamagariro evanhu munyika kuti uone, asi iwe unogona kutaurirana neshamwari dzako uri voga uye kugovera kukunda kwako uye matambudziko ako. Iwe unogona kubatsira mumwe nemumwe nenzira iyi. (Uye kana shamwari dzako dzakawanda dzichikwikwidza zvakakwana zvokuti dzinogona kunge dzichigovana chete kukunda kwavo, tsvaka shamwari itsva dzichagovera matambudziko avo zvakare, uye dzichatsigira iwe mune yako.)
Dzokorora Maonero Ako
Imwe nzira yekufungisisa kugadzirisa inogona kubatsira zvikuru nekudzvinyirira. Iyo inogona kushanda zvakanaka nemasayithi akaita sePinterest pamwe chete. Pane kutarisa mazano akanaka ekugadzira, zvipfeko zvokupfekedza, kana zvirongwa zvekushanda paPinterest sechimwe chinhu "iwe" unofanira "kuita", ona aya "pini" se "kukurudzira," kana "pfungwa dzekuti upenyu huchidzikira." Kana iwe uchikwanisa kufuridzirwa nezvamunoona, izvi zvinogona kunge zvinonakidza kuchinja; kana iwe uchinzwa usina kukwana kana iwe wakatarisa dzimwe pini, zvimwe uchinje maonero ako kana kurega kutarisa iyo mhando dzepini. (Heano mamwe mazano pamusoro pokuti ungawedzera sei kushushikana kwako .)
Tora A Step Back
Kana iwe ukawana kushungurudzika kwehuwandu hwemagariro ari kubva panguva yaunopedza uchishandisa nayo, kana kukosha kwaunoisa pairi, inogona kuva nguva yekutora (kana kutema nguva yako yekrini kwenguva yakati, kana kutora zvishoma mazuva aripo) uye bhurazve muhupenyu hwako.