Iwe unogona kufunga kuti nzira yaunobata nayo kana kutaura nemumwe wako ndeyezvakanaka kana zvichinyanya kushungurudza. Dzimwe nguva zvakaoma kutaura kana iwe uri iwe unogona kunge usingave nehutano hwekunzwisisa hunodiwa kuti uone izvi. Kana, iwe unogona kufunga kuti tsika yako "yakasununguka" nokuti wakakurira mumba yekutuka, kusagadzikana kana kusagadzikana.
Kushungurudzwa kunogona kuitika nemashoko, mupfungwa uye mupfungwa.
Icho haisi kungoita chete, iyo inozivikanwawo se "kurwisana mumba." Kushungurudzwa kwepanyama kunonyatsooneka, asi mamwe maitiro ekutsvaga achiri kukanganisa zvikuru imba yako. Icho chichaderedza kuvimba, kushamwaridzana, uye chisungo chinofanira kunge chiripo muhukama hwako kuti imba yako ibudirire uye ive nehutano.
Mibvunzo yekuziva kuti Kana Uri Wakaipa Kune Wawakaroorana naye
- Wakawana wako akakuudza here kuti iwe uri kushungurudza?
Ko wako wako anotya iwe here?
Wakambotyisidzira kuuraya wako here?
- Unotenda here kuti nzira yako ndiyo nzira chete?
- Wati wamborova, kurohwa, kuputika, kubvisa bvudzi, kana kumanikidza mumwe wako here?
- Iwe unowanzonzwa godo here?
- Iwe unotenda here kuti une kodzero yekuziva zvinoitwa nemumwe wako uye kuti wako wako nguva ipi?
- Unoshevedza here kana kutumira mameseji wako nguva dzose kana ari kunze kunze kwako?
- Iwe unofunga nezvako seunotarisira here?
- Unofara kuona mumwe wako achirwadziwa, achichema kana kukuvadza here?
- Iwe unotenda here kuti mudzimai wako anofanirwa kurohwa kana kudanidzira kana kurangwa?
- Unotenda here wako wako 'akakumbira'?
- Iwe unoputsa kana kuparadza zvinhu zveumwe wako nechinangwa here?
- Wati wakambosungwa nekuda kwechisimba here?
- Vamwe vanokuudza here kuti vane dambudziko rokutsamwa?
- Vamwe vanokuudza kuti iwe unoratidzika sekumhanya here?
- Unotya kubvunza rubatsiro nekuti unogona kurasikirwa nezvinhu zvose zvinokosha kwauri here?
- Pane mumwe wako akamboedza kukusiya iwe here?
- Iwe unofunga nezve "kutora" nemumwe wako here?
- Unoshandura zvinhu zvakapoteredza, kureva nhema kana kuwedzeredza kuita kuti wawakaroorana naye asanetseke iye pachavo uye pfungwa yechokwadi?
Wakawana Wako Akatsoropodzwa Chero Chei Chezvinhu Izvi Nezvako?
- Kufambidzana muhukama hwemagariro evanhu
- Kusabvumira chero upi zvake hwehumwe
- Iwe hausi kuzarura uye / kana kazhinji kuvharwa
- Kufamba pane maheseksi
- Too controling
- Too uptight
- Zvose zvinowedzera rugare kana iwe usati uripo
- Asingakwanisi kushandisa mari kana kuenda / kuita zvirongwa, nezvimwewo pasina mvumo
- Nguva dzose mune zvakaipa
- Zvinokonzera kana kunyunyuta pamusoro pezvose
Roti we "Hongu," Unofanira Kuitei?
- Kana wakapindura hungu kune mimwe mimwe yemibvunzo iyi, tapota onai varairidzi vezvemhizha kana kliniki yevashandi vezvemagariro evanhu mukupa mazano. Iva akatendeseka nemunhu anopa mazano kana iwe haungawani rubatsiro rwaunoda. Mudzimai wako anogona kukubatanidza iwe nemishonga inopesana, asi kana iwe uine mazano ako pachako kwechinguvana uye kare pamwe chete nemishonga yekuroorana.
- Tarisa boka rekutsamwa nekutsvaga uye uverenge mabhuku ekubatsira pamwe chete nemamwe kurapa wauri kugamuchira.
- Kana ukashatisa kana kushandisa madhiragi kana doro , unofanira kumira kana kuwana rubatsiro kuti umire. Zvinodhaka uye doro pasina mubvunzo kuita kuti tsika yako iwedzere. Chirongwa chechikamu gumi nembiri kana chakafanana ndizvo zvinofanira.
- Kutaura kuti 'Ndine urombo' hazvina kukwana. Zvakakosha kuti iwe utore mutoro wakakwana nokuda kwekunyomba kwako.
Unofanira Kuva
- Kutendeseka pachako-kuongorora
- Kuda kutsvaka rubatsiro
- Iko kukwanisa kurega kuendesa kudzora mumwe wako
- Kunzwisisa kwakakwana kwe chikonzero nei iwe uchizvidza
- Kuporesa iwe pachako kwakapfuura kunorwadza kuitira kuti iwe usaenderera kuitora kune vamwe
- Kutadza kwakakodzera kwehutano hwako uye kuregerera kune avo vanotambudzwa nekuda kwezviito zvako
- Kuedza kwakakwana nekukurudzirwa kwekudzidza unyanzvi hwekutaurirana hwakakodzera, miganhu, uye maonero akanaka ane rudo
- Kuzviitira tsitsi uye tsitsi kune wako
* Article yakagadziridzwa naMarni Feuerman