Chimwe chezvisarudzo zvakaoma zvikuru kuita muwanano
Chimwe chezvisarudzo zvakaoma iwe unogona kuita muhupenyu hwako ndechokupa kupa chero mudzimai mukana wechipiri. Ichi chisarudzo chinonyanya kuoma kana wawakaroorana naye achireva nhema kwauri, akakunyengera iwe, akaita benzi kubva kwauri, uye / kana kuedza kuvhara nyaya yacho.
Asi, zvakadini kana wawakaroorana naye kazhinji akavimbika uye akavimbwa, kuzvidemba kusati akatendeka, anovimbisa kuva akatendeka, uye iwe unotenda kuti vaviri venyu munodanana?
Munhu wese ane mutsara wavo mujecha-chinhu chimwe icho chiri chipfeko chinopesana. Iwe chete unoziva kuti mutsara iwoyo mujecha ndewei.
Heano zvikonzero zvishanu usingafaniri kupa mutengi mukana wechipiri:
- Icho chakanga chiri chibvumirano neshamwari yekare
- Nyaya yacho yakanga yakakwana uye yakareba kwenguva refu
- Muchengeti haazviratidzi kana kuregerera
- Kubiridzira kwakaitika pakutanga kwehukama
- Kubiridzira ndeye serial kana maitiro ekubata
Mibvunzo Yekuzvibvunza Kana Iwe Uri Kufunga Kupa Wawakaroorana Naye Chance Chechipiri
Usati wapa mumwe wako mukana wechipiri, hezvino mimwe mibvunzo inokosha yaunofanira kuzvibvunza iwe:
- Ndiyo nguva yokutanga iyo mumwe wako akakubiridzira iwe?
- Mudzimai wako anonzwisisa kurwadziwa kwaakaita here?
- Iwe wako here anoziva kubiridzira sechinetso?
- Wakawana wako akabvuma here kuti haana kutendeka?
- Pasinei zvikonzero zvekusatendeseka, wako wako angagamuchira here kuti kuchinja kunodiwa mune zvaanoita?
- Mukadzi wako akakumbira ruregerero here?
- Unotenda here kuti wako wako anonyadzisa uye anonyademba kuti haana kutendeka?
- Ko wako wako angapinda mazano ekuroorana uye kumunhu oga here?
- Ive neushamwari hwose nehukama wehukama hwakakanganiswa here?
- Kana munhu wacho ari mumwe wako wawakashanda naye, wakambokurukura here kuti wawakaroorana naye angaita sei ukama hwebhizimisi chete?
- Iwe unofunga kuti iwe nemumwe wako mungakwanisa kuva nebudiriro, inofadza, inogara kwenguva refu here?
- Iwe unofunga kuti iwe unogona here kuvimba nemumwe wako zvakare?
- Unofunga kuti wanano yako inokosha here? Kana hongu, saka sei?
- Iwe unofunga kuti kusatendeka kwekwakaitwa nemumwe wako kuchanyanyisa pfungwa dzako nemoyo wako nokusingaperi here?
- Iwe unogona kukanganwira mumwe wako here?
- Iwe mose munoda kushanda pawanano yenyu uye mudzidze kuti mungagadzirisa sei dambudziko renyu rekukurukurirana muchidimbu?
Kana iwe ukasarudza kupa wawakaroorana naye mukana wechipiri, iva nechokwadi chokuti wako wako anoziva kuti iyi inguva imwe nguva mukana. Kamwe chete. Iwe haugoni kukanganwira kakawanda. Taura zvakajeka kuti hapazovizve nemikana. Zvakakosha kusimbisa kuti kukanganwirwa kwako uye chido chokupa mukana wechipiri hakusi kubvuma tsika yekubiridzira.
Kune Vane Kuwana Kechipiri Chance
Kana iwe uri mumwe wevakakomba uyo ane mudzimai anoda kukufunga achikupa mukana wechipiri, unofanirwa kutsanangura kuti sei iwe wakanyengedza uye uchinge uregerera, wakatendeseka, uye uchengete zvipikirwa zvako. Gamuchira kuti kuchava nemibvunzo pamusoro pekuzvipira kwako uye kana iwe uchazobudazve nguva inotevera apo iwe unotarisa meso ako pane umwe waunoda zviri nani.
Verenga Zvakawanda: Zvimwe Zviito Zvaunoda Kutora Kuporesa Kurwisa uye Kusatenda Muwanano Yako
Zvimwe Zvinotaurwa Nevamwe Nezvakaitika Kechipiri
"Usazvipa mhosva iwe pachako. Kuzviremekedza kwako uye kuzviremekedza hazvibvi pane zvinoitwa nemumwe wako. Unogona kuva chikamu chekugadzirisa kana kushanda kuchinja ukama asi iwe hausi iye unokonzera kusengedzwa." Dr. Terri Orbuch, Vanofanira Kuita Chengetani Wana Chechipiri Chance? pane FoxNews.com
"Kana zvichitaura kupa munhu anenge akatadza chikamu chechipiri (kana chechitatu kana chechina) kukanganwirwa, mumwe munhu anokonzera rini? Dambudziko guru rekubiridzira kune mumwe wako kana chimwe chinhu chakanyanya hachisi kureva kubata zvepabonde pachako, asi pane kutengeswa kwe kuvimba ndiko kunokonzera. Kuparara uku kunorwadza mumatambudziko akawanda kunoratidza zvakawanda zvokuti zvinopfuura ...
Pane imwe nguva inogona kutaridzirwa slip up. An aberration. Kaviri kana kupfuura ndiyo muenzaniso. Chii chinofanira kuregererwa muchecheti kana kukwanisa kupa mukana wechitatu, wechina kana wechishanu? "Dr. Stephen Diamond, Apo Partners Cheat: Ndiani Anokodzera Chechipiri? PsychologyToday.com (2010).
"Kana mumwe wako akawira mu" kusava nemhosva "muchikamu, kumudzosa shure hakurangarirwi.Iye anotora anofanira kuona mhosho yavo kana munhu uyu haazombokwanisi kuyanana newe nemanzwiro uye nokutendeseka. kuroorana, "kukanganisa kwaive kuchiri kune wawakaroorana naye kunetseka-kugadzirisa zvakakodzera (tsvaga kurapa, kutaura nevefundisi)." Marni Feuerman, Mibvunzo Yokuti Uzvibvunze Usati Wambosvika Kudzorera paWatango.com
Hapana munhu anogona kukuudza zvaunofanira kuita mumamiriro ezvinhu aya. Hazvisi nyore kungoenda kana kuparadzanisa mhuri. Iwe unogonazve kuvakazve imba yako nemishonga yakakodzera. Nhungamiro yevashandi uye mabhuku anoremekedzwa kana zvishandiso zvepaIndaneti zvinogona kukubatsira kuti ufambise mberi chero chinangwa chaunosarudza
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