Mhuri yekurovedza kurudziro inokurudzira mudzimai-kupwanya uye inobvumirwa uye inotsigirwa nedzimwe zvitendero. Zvinenge zvichitaurirwa kuti kupa varume rudzi urwu rwemasimba muwanano kunogona kutungamirira kumudzimai kushungurudzwa uye kunogona kuparadza kuzviremekedza kweiye munhu ari kuiswa. Pano tarisa kuti kana tsika yacho inopinda mumhirizhonga uye inoita zvechisimba, uye kana iri magwaro-based kana kuita zvepabonde.
Chii Chirango Chomukati?
Dzimba rekuzvipira hupenyu hunozviisa pasi hunoita kuti varume varove madzimai avo nekuda kwezvikanganiso kana kusateerera. Vaya vanotsigira mararamiro emararamiro avo vanofunga kuti:
- Dzimba dzomumba dzinobva muBhaibheri.
- Dzimba dzomumba haisi BDSM.
- Chirango chemumba hachisi chinhu chisingaiti.
- Chirango chemumba chikamu chinokosha cheukama hwewanano.
- Dzimba dzomumba dzinopa kururamiswa kwemuviri kune uyo anonyatsotarisira.
- Dzimba dzomumhuri inotungamirira masimba.
- Dzimba dzomumba chirango chakakodzera.
- Dzimba dzomumusha dzinoda kuti pave nemukana wekubvumirana zvachose kubva kumativi ose.
Kutsvakurudza pamusoro pekurangwa kwemisha kwakaratidza kuti:
- Dzimba dzomumba dzinobva pakusanzwisiswa kwemaBhaibheri.
- Icho chaizvoizvo BDSM.
- Chirango chemumba chinonyadzisira.
- Kururamisa muviri hakusi kupa upenyu kune hukama.
- Kutaura mudzimai senzira yekururamisa kana kurangwa ndeyekudzivirira uye zvinogona kukuvadza.
- Imba inoshevedza murume nemudzimai kutendeseka, kwete kukunda mumwe mukadzi kune imwe iyo inosanganisira kurangwa.
Iri Mumhuri Kurangwa Magwaro-Akavakirwa Here?
Kunyange zvazvo vadziviriri vemurairo wekumba vachidavira kuti mararamiro eDD anobva muBhaibheri ndima, vamwe vatungamiriri vezvitendero zvechiKristu havabvumi. Vaya vanoita mazano epamba vanowanzoreva magwaro matsvene anoda kuti mukadzi azviise pasi pemurume wake, asi kune vazhinji vanoteerera kutenda kwekuzviisa pasi pasina kurova kana kurova madzimai avo.
Chibvumirano cheAlantic Baptist Churches chinotaura "Harmony In Home":
"Kuoma kwemaonero evanhu vehutungamiri ndeyekuti yakashandiswa zvisina kufanira kuchengetedza vakadzi kusununguka uye mune zvimwe zviitiko kururamisa manzwiro uye / kana kushungurudzwa kwevakadzi mukati mehukama hwepedyo. Izvi hazvisi kuremekedzana uye kwete saMwari zvakagadzirirwa hukama hwepedyo. "
Mufundisi Al Blonigen, Mufundisi weMetro-Detroit Retrouvaille, akati:
"Handitendi kuti pane murume mumwe chete akakwana zvokuti angave akakodzera kushandisa simba rehutungamiri." Uyezve, hapana mubhuku iro Jesu akashandisa marwadzo omunhu kune ani zvake. "
Uye TheMarriageBed.com inonyora mubhuku re "Dzimba Dzimba Dzakashata NeShoko raMwari":
"Handigoni kuwana chirevo mumagwaro apo Mwari anotaura, kana kuti achibvumira, varume kuti varange mumuviri madzimai avo (zvisingaiti, nokuti Haaita seakakanganwa kuudza vabereki kuranga vana vavo.) Iniwo handigoni kutaura pamusoro paKristu mumuviri kuranga vadzidzi vake kana vateveri (Kristu / chechi uye murume / mukadzi zvakafanana). "
Nei Vakadzi Vanobvumirana Nekudzidziswa Kwemumba?
Vamwe vanotenda kuti vakadzi vanoda kana kubvumirana nevekurangwa kweimba nekuda kwemhosva pamusoro pemafambiro epabonde akare, kana nekuda kwekuti vanotenda kuti Mwari vakaona kuti iyi ndiyo basa rakakodzera remurume.
Zvichida vakadzi ava vane mafungiro asina kunaka, asi vamwe vakadzi vanowana kusangana pabonde kunonakidza.
TheMarriageBed.com inoti:
"Vakadzi ava 'vachanyengedzera' nokuti vanofunga kuti chiito chacho chakakosha chirango chavanowana nokuda kwekuita.Iri kuita sokuti kuputirwa, kana kurasikirwa nekutyaira motokari kwemazuva mashomanana, kunobvisa zvisakarurama.Iyo kusununguka kutonga kuita chero iwe kushaiwa, chero bedzi iwe unogona kubata chirango-ini handioni icho sebhaibheri.DD inogonawo kutarisa zvakanaka kune mukadzi anoda kusunungurwa kubva pakuita zvisarudzo, kana kutora mutoro muupenyu. Inowira pamurume uye mudzimai anoregererwa kuva mwana wechiremera.Kana iye asingararami nemutoro wake, anowana kuputika uye ndiwo mugumo waro.Haizviedza kana kuti kukurudzira kukura kuva mukadzi akakura mumwari. "
Nyaya Yechisimba Chemukati Mukati Muchirango Chokurarama Lifestyle
Maererano neNational Coalition Against Domestic Violence, mumwe wevakadzi vatatu vekuAmerica ave akatambudzwa mumhuri mune ukama hwepedyo. Vanenge makumi maviri vanhu vemunhurume chero upi zvake vanoshungurudzwa nemumwe wako maminitsi ose. Kana iwe uri munharaunda yekuroorana uye iwe haunzwisisi nekugadzirisa, tapota tsvaga kupiwa mazano kuitira kuti iwe uwane ruzivo, ruzivo pamusoro pehukama hwako.