Kukurukurirana kwehutano kwakauya nenzira yakareba mumakumi mashoma emakore apfuura. Kungofanana nekuve kuine kuwedzera kukurudzira kwekusiyana kwehutano nekuzivikanwa kwemadzinza, kwakave zvakare kuwedzera kukurudzira kuti nhoroondo dzezvemadzinza ehurume dze "varume" uye "vakadzi" dzinogona kudzivirira zvakanyanya. Vanhu havasi vega transgender kana cisgender.
Mazuva ano, vanhu vanowedzera vachizvitsanangura sevamwe varume, vakadzifluid, vasina binary, kana agender. Aya mazwi anoreva zvinhu zvakasiyana, asi ivo vose vanotsanangura vanhu vane hutano hwechikadzi chimwe chinhu kunze kwechiri murume kana mukadzi.
Kunzwisisa Gender Binary
Nhoroondo, vanhu vazhinji vakaona hutano hwavo semurume kana mukadzi. Izvi zvinowanzowirirana nehutano hwemunhu pakuberekwa. Zvisinei, pane nguva dzose pane vanhu vanoratidzika sehutano husina kuwirirana nehutano hwavo hwepabonde pakuberekwa. Vamwe vevanhu ivavo vanodarika. Vamwe vane hutano hwemadzimai hunooma kuverenga.
Bhinary yebonde inoreva chirevo chokuti hutano ndewe / kana kurongedza. Munyika ine bhinary sex, vanhu vari varume kana vakadzi-chisarudzo chebhinari. Zvisinei, vamwe vanhu vanoona sevasiri varume kana vakadzi, kusanganiswa kwevarume nevakadzi, kana kuti vakadzi vakasiyana zvachose.
Mutsara unoti "kubva pamabhinari" inowanzoshandiswa nevanhu vasinganzwi sokuti bhinari yemurume nemukadzi inobatsira pakuzivikanwa kwavo.
Kwemakore mazhinji, vanhu ve transgender vaitarisirwa nevechiremba kuti vazive se "zvakasiyana" zvepabonde uye vakaronga kuchinja kuti vave mumiriri wepabonde wepabonde iyo kuitira kuti vakwanise kutanga utano kana kuti kuchinja.
Izvo zvinodiwa zvave zvakanyanyisa kuregererwa kwekufamba kwenguva, kunyanya nekuda kwechisimba chesangano re transgender. Kuchinja uku kunoratidza, muchidimbu, kugamuchirwa kwehurochani, hutano hwepabonde, uye hukama hwehutano hwakanaka sehutano hwakanaka hwepabonde.
Zvinorevei Kuve Genderqueer kana Isina Binary?
Vamwe vanhu vanozviti ivo vane unhu husina kubhadhara, chizivikanowo chinonziwo "Enby" (Anoshandurwa semakanyorwa N neB). Vanhu ava vanogona kuziva sezviri kunze kwebhinari kana pane imwe nzvimbo pakati pevarume nevakadzi. Vanhu vasina bhinari vane maitiro akasiyana-siyana. Vamwe vanobvuma zvinhu zvezvipfeko zvevakadzi uye zvevakadzi uye zvese. Vamwe vanoedza kurongedza. (Izwi, izwi androgyny isangano rechiGiriki midzi inoreva murume nemukadzi). Vamwe vanogona kuisa mune imwe nzira bhenary asi vachiri kuziva sevasina bhinary. Zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti hutauri hwehutano kana hutano hwevanhukadzi ndeyevanhu vanosarudzwa kuratidza nyika, asi hutano kuziva kuti ndivanaani.
Genderqueer uye kwete bhinary pane dzimwe nzvimbo dzakaputika. Vamwe vanhu vanonyatsoshandisa mazwi okureva chinhu chimwe chete. Kune vamwe, chimiro chemadzimai chinonyanya kufanana nehutano hwepabonde hwemhepo.
Queer is term ambulance that encompasses all sexual orientation other than the "sex". Saizvozvowo, mumwe munhu ane hutano ndiye mumwe munhu asingatauri kuti haana-bhanari. Vanogonawo kutarisa semurume kana mukadzi, vose varume nevakadzi, kana kumwe kusanganiswa kwevarume.
Mumwe munhu anotaura sekuti sexfluid ine hutano husina kugadziriswa kwenguva. Zita ravo zvevanhukadzi zvinogona kusiyanana nemamiriro ezvinhu kana mamiriro kana nenguva. Kuwanda kwavanofunga kana kuratidza hutano hwavo kunogonawo kusiyana nenguva. Vamwe vanhu vanotaura zvakasimba nehutano hwavo kana vakomana.
Vanonyatsoziva nezvehutano hwavo uye havanzwisisiki kana vakanganisa (vanoonekwa sevamwe vakadzi pane zvavanoziva). Vamwe vanhu havakwanisi kuwana hutano sehunoita.
Kuva Agender
Kana mumwe munhu aine hutano, zvinoreva kuti havana hutano hwehutano, kana kuti hutano hunenge huri hunovakwa. Muchiitiko ichi, chirevo chekutanga - chinoshandiswa kureva kunze . Vanhu avo vane agender vanogonawo kuzivikanwa semunhukadzi kana kuti asina kubhadhara. Zvakakosha kutaura kuti sezvinongoita munhu ane hutano haisi iye zvino, munhu wegender haafaniri kushandiswa. Vanhu vemarudzi ose vanogona kuita zvepabonde.
Neutrois uye zvematongerwo enyika hazvirereki kune mamwe mazwi angashandiswa nevanhu vasingatauri sevari nehutano, kana kuti ndiani anoratidza seasina zvematongerwe enyika.
The Singular I-A Pronoun Primer
Havasi vose vanoita zvekuita uye vasiri vana vanogona kushandisa zvirevo zvakafanana. Kune zvirevo zvakasiyana-siyana zvinoshandiswa mumapoka akasiyana. Zvisinei, chimwe chezvirevo zvinowanzoshandiswa nevanhu vasingatauri sevarume kana vakadzi ndevamwe ivo. "Ivo" anoshandiswa panzvimbo ye "iye" kana "iye." "Iwo" anoshandiswa panzvimbo ye "iye" kana kuti "iye". Pakupedzisira, "yavo" inoshandiswa panzvimbo yezvaanoita.
Kana iwe usingazivi chirevo cheumwe munhu anoshandisa, zvakakodzera kubvunza. Ichokwadi, zvakanyanyisa kukumbira kubvunza kupfuura kufungidzira. Zvose zvaunofanirwa kuita ndezvokuti, "iwe unofarira chirevo chei?" Iwe unogonawo kuisa muenzaniso wakajeka paunenge uchizvizivisa iwe pachakupa zvirevo zvako. Semuenzaniso, iwe ungati "Hongu, ini ndiri Elizabeth, uye ndinoshandisa she / hers pronouns".
Izvozvo zvakati, kana uri muboka raunenge uchizobvunza nezvemashoko omunhu mumwe, iwe unofanirwa kubvunza pamusoro pevanhu vose mazita. Hazvina kukodzera kusarudza munhu mumwe chete kuti ape mubvunzo, sezvo izvozvo zvinogona kunzwa sokuti uri kutarisana navo. Pane kudaro, iwe unogona kutaura chimwe chinhu, "Ko isu tose tingapa zvirevo zvedu here?" Ndinoishandisa ivo / ivo / ivo. "
Shoko Rinobva
Mashoko anoshandiswa kureva zvepabonde ari kuchinja nguva dzose. Nokudaro, zvakakosha kuziva kuti kuzvitaurira kweumwe munhu kunogona kunge kwakasiyana zvikuru nezvomumwe, kunyange kana vakashandisa mazwi mamwechete kutsanangura hutano hwavo. Chinhu chakakosha ndechokuremekedza vanhu kuziviswa kwevanhukadzi. Izvozvo zvinoreva kuratidza mazwi avanoshandisa kurondedzera ivo pachavo, panzvimbo pokuzvisarudzira iwe pachako. Izvi zvinorevawo kuremekedza uye kushandisa mazita avo akasarudzwa. Mushure mezvose, munhu wose ndiye nyanzvi muupenyu hwavo uye anotora kugoverana zvavari ivo nenyika. Vamwe vari kungocherechedza, kwete sevanogona kukwanisa kutsanangura zvakaitika kune munhu uyu.
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