Apo mwana wako ane ADHD, kushungurudzika uye kusava nechokwadi pamusoro pemibvunzo yevabereki zvinogona kukura nekukurumidza, zvichisiya mubereki kuti anzwe asina chokwadi, achishungurudzika, akaremerwa - uye dzimwe nguva ari oga. Kukurukurirana nevamwe vanonzwisisa uye vakawana matambudziko akafanana vanogona kubatsira. Boka rakadaro rinogona kupa kwete pfungwa iyo chete inokosha yemunharaunda nekusigirwa, asi inopawo ruzivo rwakarurama uye dzidzo pamusoro peHDH uye kuti ingapedza sei.
Asi mubereki angaitei kana pasina boka rekubatsira ADHD munzvimbo yake? Susan Collins anobva kuGreensboro, NC akazviwana mumamiriro ezvinhu aya mushure mekunge mwana wake aonekwa kuti ane ADHD achiri muduku. "Ndakatanga kubvunza zvakapoteredza kana paiva nemapoka ekutsigira mahara kuvabereki vevana vane ADHD," anoyeuka kudaro Collins. "Mhinduro yacho yakanga yakafanana - 'Aiwa, asi iyo ndiyo pfungwa huru! Unofanira kutanga imwe.' Uye saka akaita, pamwe chete nomubereki pamwe chete Blair Churchill.
Kutanga kweGreensboro Area ADHD Parent Support Group
Collins naChurchill vakasangana mukuwa kwegore ra2007 pane hurukuro pamusoro pe "Kunzwisisa ADHD" yakapiwa nenharaunda yemapfungwa uye yakatsigirwa nechipatara cheko, Mosesi Cone. "Ndakakurudzirwa zvikuru nekamuri iri rakazadzwa nevabereki vose vachitarisana nedambudziko rakadaro," anoyeuka kudaro Collins. "Ndakagara pedyo naBlair uye takaona kuti vakomana vedu vaiva chaiye neAIDS.Sherri McMillen (kubva mubazi rekutengesa reMoses Cone Behavioral Health Centre) akaita kuti pave nehusiku huno.
Mushure memusangano, ini naBlair taitaura kuna Sherri pamusoro pokuti zvinobatsira sei kuti tikwanise kusangana nevabereki vemunharaunda zvakare kuti tigovere nyaya, uyewo tidzidze ruzivo kubva kune vanoziva munzvimbo. "Collins naChurchill vakasangana naMicMillen mumavhiki anotevera uye iyo mvumo yekutanga boka rekutsigira kunharaunda yevabereki vevana vane ADHD zvakatangwa zvakarongeka.
Community Resources to Support the Group
Mukuwedzera kune McMillen pa Moses Cone, Collins naChurchill vakasvika kuna Dr. Arthur Anastopoulos, nheyo, uye mutungamiriri weDHD Clinic paunivhesiti yemo, University of North Carolina-Greensboro. Dr Anastopoulos, nyanzvi yakagadzwa munyika ye ADHD uye purofesa muDhipatimendi rezvepfungwa, akatsigira zvakakwana basa rekurerwa kwevabereki, vanotungamirirwa nevabereki, vachitungamirirwa neboka. Akapa hutungamiri hwake hwehutano uye akasayinwa sechirongwa chemagariro eboka.
Collins naChurchill vakasangana naBrooke Juneau kubva kuMhuri Support Network. Mhuri Support Network yeCentral Carolina inoshumira mhuri dzine vana vane chirwere chakakosha kana chirwere chisingaperi, kana kuti vakaberekwa vasati vasvika. "Vaiva rubatsiro runoshamisa kwatiri kuti tingatanga sei boka rekutsigira munharaunda sezvavanobatsira mune dzimwe mimwe mapoka ekutsigira vabereki mumunharaunda," anotsanangura kudaro Collins.
Zvose zvakatanga kuuya pamwe chete - muchechi wezvechipatara uye nyanzvi yekuvatungamirira (Dr. Anastopoulos), rubatsiro rwekutanga boka rekutsigira munharaunda (kuburikidza neMhuri Support Network), uye kubatsira pakugadzira uye kuwana izwi pamusoro peboka ( kuburikidza naMosesi Cone Behavioral Health).
"Icho chaiicho chaiva chikwata chakanaka chemasangano matatu emasangano uye amai vaviri. Unyanzvi hwevanhu vose hwakakumbirana uye isu tose taishanda pamwe chete zvakanaka," anodaro Collins. "Misangano yedu yekugadzira ikava chimwe chinhu chatinotarisira mberi uye ushamwari hwakasimba hwakaumbwa."
Mushure megore rinenge riri gore rokuronga, musangano wekutanga weboka remusangano wakaitwa muna September 2008 kune imwe chechi, Trinity Church (iyo inoramba ichinge ichinyatsopa nzvimbo yekusangana yeboka pasina mari). "Mosesi Cone akapa zvipfeko zvinokurudzira musangano wekuti Blair neni takatora mutaundi rose - kumahofisi evana vevana, vanachiremba, zvikoro, mabhuku ezvitoro, makamuri, nezvimwewo," anoyeuka kudaro Collins.
"Mosesi Cone Maitiro Ehutano uye Mhuri Inotsigira Network ine mazamu e-mail akawanda Avharesa uye vakakwanisa kutumira mapurisa acho kune zvikoro zvose munharaunda yacho, uyewo kune unyanzvi - mahofisi ezvechiremba, vanachiremba vepfungwa.Vaiva nevabereki makumi mashanu vakauya kune boka redu rekutanga rekutsigira boka uye takafara! "
Pfungwa yeBato Rokutsigira
Misangano yeboka rekutsigira yakarongerwa kutanga nemaminitsi makumi matatu emasangano ezvehupenyu nemafambisiro ezviyo, uye hurukuro yemaawa akawanda nehurukuro kana mapurisa eADHD nyanzvi, inoteverwa nemaminitsi makumi matatu emibvunzo nemhinduro. Vatauri vaisanganisira vepfungwa dzepfungwa dzekugara, vanachiremba vanachiremba, vanachiremba vezvepfungwa, vadzidzisi vezvedzidzo, vamiririri kubva purogiramu yeChikamu Chechidiki Chavana vechikoro, uye kunyange nyanzvi dzinozivikanwa munyika dze ADHD. Musangano wega wega weboka unotsigira mukurukuri wepamusoro mukurukuri uyo ari nyanzvi mumunda weAdHD.
"Ndinofunga kuti basa reboka redu rinokwezva vanhu vazhinji," anodaro Collins anotsanangura kuti chinangwa cheboka ndechokupa humwe uchapupu-hwakagadzirirwa nezveHADH kuvabereki nevatarisi. "Taida svesayenzi, ruzivo rwepamutemo rwakapiwa nevatauri vedu.Ipapo panoratidzika kunge kune ruzivo rwakanyanya runowanika kuburikidza neInternet, nezvimwe zvisingaiti zvakabatana neAdHD uye taida nzvimbo iyo vabereki vanogona kuwana kuwana ikozvino, ruzivo rwakarurama."
Kutsvakurudza Vabereki Kune Nyaya Inofarira
Collins naChurchill vakagadzirawo tsvakurudzo yakagoverwa kuvabereki kuti vaone kuti nyaya dzipi dzine chokuita neAdHD dzaifarira. Zvinyorwa zvegore zvakabva zvichishandiswa pamhinduro yekuongorora. Misoro yakafukidzirwa yakaisa ADHD 101 , kurapwa kwemishonga , mazano ekurera vana, dzimba dzekirasi , zvidzidzo zvechikoro , kugadzirisa matanho uye mamwe maitiro akaoma emhuri , kuvandudza hukama hwevezera , uye ADHD kuvanhu vakuru .
Collins akanyora kuti kutaridzika kweboka kunogona kuchinja nekufamba kwenguva, asi chiratidzo chekutanga chave chiri chekuenderera mberi nehurukuro yorudzi rwekudzidzisa ne Q & A pakuguma. Iyi mafaira inoita seinoshanda zvakanaka, inopa dzidzo ye ADHD uye inofadza kuvabereki vatsva. Mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, hapana munhu 'anoiswa pachena' kana kuti akaitwa kuti atore, kunyange vabereki vangasarudza kuita. Mamiriro ekuremekedza anoremekedza, anotsigira, kugamuchirwa uye kusagadzirisa.
"Ichi ndicho chinetso chekutsvaga uye chakave chichibatsira zvikuru kusangana nevamwe vabereki vachifamba nenzira dzakadaro.Zakaita kuti musiyano mukuru kwatiri tose tinzwe sitsigirwa," anodaro Collins. "Ndakatendeseka, ndinofunga kuti mapuraneti edu ainge akaenzaniswa zvakakwana kuti boka iri riumbwe." Ndinofunga kuti mapoka ose aya - Dr. Anastopoulos uye UNCG ADHD Clinic, Moses Cone Behavioral Health, Family Support Network, uye Trinity Church - vakaona Chido chaivepo kune vekugara uye vose vakapa zvavanogona uye zvakangoshanda. "
Kunobva:
Molly Sentell Haile, Kukurukurirana kuburikidza ne email. July 14 ne27, 2011
Susan Parker, Kukurukurirana kuburikidza ne email. March 22, 2011, uye musi waJuly 7, 2011.