Zvipomera kuti Josh Duggar, mwanakomana wedangwe pane chokwadi chinoratidza 19 Vana uye kuverenga, kushungurudzika kana imwe yehanzvadzi dzake yakaita kuti hurukuro yevhidhiyo itaure pamusoro pehama yekushungurudzwa kwepabonde. Nhau dzakasiya mhuri dzakawanda dzichinetseka kuti izvi zvinonzi rudzi rwechisimba zvinogona kuitika sei mumhuri.
Zvinosuruvarisa, kushungurudzwa kwepabonde pakati pehama nevana vanowanzoshamisa kupfuura vanhu vakawanda vanoziva.
Hazvirevi kune mamwe marudzi emhuri - inoitika mumhando dzakasiyana dzemhuri. Kushungurudzwa kwepabonde pakati pehama dzedu kunogona kuramba kwenguva yakareba vabereki vasati vanyatsoziva nyaya yacho. Uye zvinosuruvarisa kuti vamwe vabereki havatore chiito chakanaka kana vakazoziva dambudziko racho.
Heano humwe humwe humwe hutatu hwekushungurudzwa kwepabonde pakati pehama dzese iyo vabereki vose vanofanira kuziva:
Vavaridzi vemu Frequent Offenders
Apo vanhu vanonzwa shoko rokuti "mutadzi wepabonde," vanoona munhu mukuru. Asi, vanoita zvepabonde vanogona kuva vaduku. Kutaura zvazviri, zvinodarika chikamu chetatu chekuita zvepabonde pamusoro pevana chinopiwa nevamwe vaduku, maererano neDhipatimendi reRubatsiro reUnited States . Kuwana nyore kuvana vehama kunoita kuti zvive nyore kuti munhu anenge apara mhosva anenge asarudza mumwe munhu mumba.
Vabereki Vanokakavadzana Vakatambudzwa Apo Mutambudzi uyu ari Muduku
Zvinosuruvarisa, vana vazhinji vanoratidzira kushungurudzwa kwepabonde nehanzvadzi yavo havatendi nevabereki.
Chidzidzo che2012 chakabudiswa mu Journal of Interpersonal Violence chakawana kuti vabereki vainyanya kuisa mhosva yevana vavo nekushungurudza kana kusava nechokwadi nenyaya iyo yose apo mutambudzi aiva muduku. Zvinogona kunyanya kuoma kuti vabereki vatende kuti mutambudzi mwana wavo.
Vatadzi vazhinji vari muMid-Adolescence
Zvizhinji zvekutsvakurudza zvinoratidza kuti muvhareji wemakore ekudarika kwevana vechidiki ndewegumi nemashanu.
Vanenge 1 pa8 vechidiki vatadzi vari pasi pezera remakore gumi nemaviri, zvisinei. Ivhareji yezera remunhu akarova ndeye 9. Kushungurudzwa kwepabonde pakati pehama nehanzvadzi kunogona kuitika chero ipi zvayo asi kune kazhinji kacho kusiyana kwemakore yemakore pakati peanotambudzwa uye mutambudzi.
Vanhurume vane Zvichida Kuita Kuda Kuita Zvepabonde
Pakati pemhosva yevechidiki yepabonde, inenge 7% chete yakaitwa nevakadzi. Apo vakadzi vanoita zvido zvepabonde, zvisinei, ivo vanowanzoshungurudza nhengo dzemhuri, zvisinei. Zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti vatambudzi dzimwe nguva vanosarudza vana vakomana pamwe chete zvepabonde pamwe chete.
Kushungurudzwa Kwepabonde Pakati Pehama Dzakaberekwa
Zvinotarisirwa zvinoratidza kuti hama yako kushungurudzwa inonyanya kuendeswa kune vane masimba. Chidzidzo che2002 neDhipatimendi reMweya weUnited Health uye Human Services chakawana kuti anenge 2.3% yevana vakambotambudzwa nehanzvadzi. Kunenge 12% chete inoshungurudzwa nemunhu mukuru wemhuri.
Sibhini vanoita zvakaipa vanowanzoita zvepabonde zvepabonde akawanda kwenguva yakareba kana vasingagamuchiri kurapwa. Chidzidzo che1999 chakabudiswa mu Journal of Interpersonal Violence chakawana kuti unhu hwepabonde hunogona kuva hunyanyisa kupfuura nguva.
Kushungurudzwa kweSiberia Kunogona Kutungamirira Migumisiro Yakareba
Kungofanana nedzimwe mhando dzekushungurudzika kwevana, kushungurudzwa kwepabonde nehanzvadzi inogona kuva nemigumisiro yenguva refu kune akaurayiwa.
Vakapukunyuka pakushungurudzwa kwepabonde vanogona kunzwa sokuti ndivo vanokanganisa, kana kuti vanogona kuzviita ivo pachavo kuti vashandi vekubatana, pane kuti vashandurwe. Pane kazhinji pfungwa yakadzama yekunyadziswa iyo inoitika apo mutambudzi uyu ari nhengo yemhuri.
Dzimwe nguva vanopona vanoona kusagadzikana kwepabonde, zvinetso zvepfungwa, kana PTSD semhaka yekushandiswa kwechisimba pamwe chete. Zvinosuruvarisa, pamusana pemhando yekushungurudzwa kwehanzvadzi, pfungwa yekusava nesimba inogona kupararira zvikuru kana ichienzaniswa nokushungurudzwa kwepabonde kunoitwa nevamwe. Vakapukunyuka vakuru vanowanzosangana nematambudziko ehukama hwehukama semugumisiro.
Kuvabereki Kuziva nezveSibling Kudzvinyirira
Dzidzidzise pamusoro pezviitiko zvekukuvadza kwehanzvadzi yako kushungurudzwa zvepabonde uye utore matanho akakodzera kudzivirira kusangana kwepabonde zvisina kukodzera.
Kana iwe uchifungidzira kuti kushungurudzwa kwepabonde kuri kuitika mumba mako, zvakakosha kutsvaga kurapwa kwevashandi kune vose vanoita zvekutambudza uye vakaurayiwa. Nzvimbo dzakasiyana-siyana dzinobatsira kuti uchengetedze kuchengetedzwa uye kudzivirira zvimwe zviitiko zvekuda kurara.