Tinder inowedzera kuwedzera kune nyika yepaIndaneti . Inowanzotsanangurwa sechimiro chekufambidzana kwepakombiyuta, asi kufambidzana hakusi chikamu chekuita. Pane kudaro, tinder ndiyo inopa mufananidzo uye zvishoma nezvemashoko makuru eboka guru revatori vechikamu, uye vashandi vanogona kusarudza kana "vanofarira" mumwe nomumwe kana kwete, kuburikidza nekusvetura skrini kuruboshwe kana kurudyi.
Nguva imwe neimwe munhu "aidiwa," smartphone yavo inoita kuti vazive. Kana ivo "vachida" munhu iyeye shure, vatori vechikamu vaviri vanogona kushamwaridzana kuburikidza nemafoni avo, izvo zvinogona kutungamirira pakukurukurirana, uye zvichida, musangano chaiwo weupenyu hunosanganisira kufambidzana uye / kana zvepabonde.
Compulsive Swiping
Inotsanangudzo yepaIndaneti pamusoro pekugadzirisa yakaratidza kuti vashandi vazhinji veiyo app vanoiwana vachirwisa, vachitsanangurira kumanikidzirwa kushandisa maawa zuva rega rega zuva vachifambisa nemifananidzo, uye zvechokwadi, kuwana kugutsikana kwechinguva kubva "kuda" kwavanogamuchira. Kunyange zvazvo pasina hutsvakurudzo hunoti kana kuvhara kunokanganisa kunogona kukura kuva chirwere chakazivikanwa, kunowirirana zvakanyanya pamwe chete nehutano hwepabonde uye yevhidhiyo mitambo yekudhakwa. Kubatanidzwa kwezvinhu zviviri izvi zvinokonzera kukanganisa mune imwe zvinopa iyo inogona kuva yakadhevedza zvikuru, kunyange zvisingazivikanwe kana iri chaizvo inokuvadza mukati meyo pachayo.
Kuwirirana Nepabonde Kuwedzerwa
Kufananirana kunoenderana nekurara kwepabonde kunobatanidza nekudzokorora kwerudzi rwekutsvaga kune zvakagadzirisa zvepabonde.
Kunyange zvazvo chiso chichidanidzira kuti vanhu vanozviisa ivo pachavo, izvo zvinoumba chikonzero chekutonga kwekutanga kune vamwe "kufanana" kana kwete, hazvisi zvepabonde, zvinyorwa zvinyorwa mune zvisiri zvesayenzi zvinyorwa zvakabudiswa muna Marie Claire naVanity Fair, zvinoratidza kuti kutumira sexting pakati pevatori vechikamu vanojairika, zvose maererano nemashoko ekukoka kusangana kwepabonde, uye mifananidzo inoratidzira zvepabonde.
Kuve nekutarisana nemifananidzo yakawanda yekuita zvepabonde kunounza kushivirira - chiitiko chekare chekudhakwa , uko zvakanyanya zvekutanga zvaifadza uye zvinofadza zvinodiwa kuti zvive nemigumisiro yakafanana.
Vatori vechikamu vanotaurawo kuti vane huwandu huzhinji hwevakabatana nehupombwe kuburikidza nekutengesa Kunyangwe zvisinganzwisisike kana nhau dziri kuitika dzichinyatsoratidza chokwadi, kana kuti nhamba yevashandisi vakawanda vanonyanya kushandiswa nevashandisi vanobatana neyekuwedzeredza, hazvizivikanwe. Zvimwe kunze kwekusimbiswa kwakasimba kwekusimbiswa kwe "kudiwa," zvakaoma kutenda kuti pane zvakawanda zvinokurudzira kuti vakadzi varambe vachishandisa tinder senzira yekusangana nevanobatsirana, zvichipa zviitiko zvisingaremekedzi uye zvisingagutsikani zvinoshushwa, kunze kwekuti zviri kushandisa nzira yacho sechimiro chebasa repabonde. Zvisinei, kutsvaka kumanikidzika kwezvizhinji zvevanhu vanoita zvepabonde, kunyange pavanotarisana nezvisingagutsikani uye zviitiko zvinotambudza, chiratidzo chemamwe marudzi e-cybersex user user .
Connections kuVideo Game Addiction
Vamwe vakafungidzira kuti chikwata chekudzivirira chinowirirana zvakanyanya nemitambo yemavhidhiyo ekudhakwa uye kuti kushandiswa kwekutengesa tinder ndiko, chaizvoizvo, kungoita imwe mhando yemavhidhiyo emidziyo yekudhakwa. Taryn Hilin, somuenzaniso, anotaura kuti kuvhiringidza kunokanganisa kunongobatwa nemutambo-kufanana nekusimbiswa, uye kunopa nyaya inonakidza, inotsigirwa nehurukuro nevanyanzvi.
Jury's Out
Zvisinei, nokuda kwekuita kuti munhu ave nemishonga, haisi kungofanirwa kumanikidzira , kusvika apo vanoshandiswa vanonzwa vasingagoni kudzora mararamiro, asi inofanirawo kuenderera mberi pakatarisana nemigumisiro yakaipa. Pasina tsvakurudzo dzechokwadi kuti apindure mubvunzo uyu, hazvisi pachena kana vanhu vachiramba vachishandisa purogiramu yacho kana yave yakakuvadza ivo pachavo. Hazvinyatsozivikanwe kana tinder inowedzera kukuvadza kupfuura dzimwe nzira dzekuita zvepabonde zvisiri zvepabonde.