Uyewo anozivikanwa se "Peter Pan," "mwana-mwana" murume anoramba kukura. Iwe zvichida unoshamisika kuti nei asingazore uye nekuwedzera, wakaguma sei uchiwa murudo nemunhu uyu. Mafungiro ake uye simba repfungwa ndeyeomusikana. Ari musikana, asina hanya uye asina kutendeka. Iwe unoshanda zvakanyanyisa, unofunga zvakanyanya uye unopedzeredza nokuda kwezvakaoma zvake.
Pakutanga, iwe wakaswededzwa kwaari achifunga kuti ainakidza, asina hanya uye akaiswa shure. Sekushushikana sezvakaitwa pakutanga, wakakura, wakava mukuru, uye haana. Iwe zvino unofanira kuita zvose zvaunogona kuti usachengetedze.
Kazhinji Man-Child Behaviors
- Ane ruzivo rwakanyanya. Anonyatsotenda kuti haana hanya nemweya kana kusagadzikana kwemhuri. Iwe ndiwe ukama hwake hwakareba. Iye zvino unoziva kuti nei asina kumbove neukama hurefu kwenguva refu iwe.
- Anofunga zvinodhaka zvinodhaka, kunyanya chirongo, zvakanaka chaizvo kushandisa. Haana kurerutsa hutano hwehutano, hunyengeri, kana kuipa kusarudzo izvo zvisarudzo zvake zvisina kunaka zvichava nevana vako vaduku. Anokutumira kuti iwe uongorore zvinotaura kuti pombi kusvuta haisi kukuvadza uye kunwa doro kunogona kuva noutano hwakanaka. Anogara achiita seanotarirwa kunze asi anouti "wakasununguka." Anokurumidzira kuratidza kuti "iwe unofambisa" sei, uye kuti unofanirwa kushandisawo.
- Haasi kushanda mu "basa." Anogona kuenda kubva kubasa kuenda kune rimwe basa kana kuedza kusashanda zvachose. Anogara aine, uye zvichida achiriko, anoponesa kubva kubatsiro rwemari yevabereki vake vanogonesa. Kana iye ari kushanda, ndiye anopfuura mhosva, achinyunyuti pamusoro pemitemo yose, kutora utsi hurefu hurefu kana kuvanza kunze muimba yekutamba achitamba nefoni yake.
- Zvaanoita zvikuru zvinosanganisira magetsi. Anogona kunge akapindwa muropa nemitambo yemavhidhiyo uye / kana mitambo yemafungiro aanotamba kwemaawa. Iye anoregic to exercise.
- Haana kugovera mutoro kumba. Haaiti KUTI kubika, kuchenesa, kana kuchenesa. Kana iwe ukamukumbira kuti abatsire, anoita sezvinoita basa guru. Iwe unofanirwa kumubatsira kumupfekedza chero chimwe chiitiko chakanaka nokuti sneakers uye T-shirts ndezvipfeko zvepfumbamwe zvepfumbamwe.
- Haakwanise kuzviratidza zvakajeka. Hapana "manning up" kana zvichidiwa. Hapana nhaurirano yepamusoro uye iyo inotungamirira kukugadzirisa matambudziko. Anonyunyutira, anyerera uye anofunga kuti zvose hazvina kururama. Anononoka uye anochengeta mapepa. Anogona kunyange kukanda-hasha dzose. Iwe unogara uine iye wokurera nyaya dzinokosha dzekukurukurirana. Akanaka pakufungidzira kuti hapana chakaipa.
- Vose shamwari dzake vanoita saizvozvo. Iwe unogona kunge wakasangana nevamwe munguva yakapfuura yakaita seyakakura uye ine mutoro, asi haasisiri kuzouya zvakare. Paunenge uchienda kune vamwe vakaroorana, unonzwa uchinyara pamusoro pemafambiro ake kana kusava nezvakaitwa.
Iwe unoziva nyaya: shure kwezvose Peter Pan ndiWendy. Murume-mwana pakutanga pakutanga aiita sedambudziko. Vabereki vako vomunharaunda vakagadzirira kuti vashandise. Iwe wakakurumidza kumutora pasi pepiko rako uye kumubatsira kumutungamirira. Iwe zvino hauna kugumburwa nehutano hwehutano hwako. Chido chako chepabonde kwaari chaenda zvachose. Unoitei zvino? Munhu uyu angakurira here?
Chii Unofanira Kuita?
Iwe unofanirwa kumira unhu hwako hwekugonesa uye husina maturo kuti ubudise pane izvi zvakaoma. Iwe unofanira kuziva kuti uri chikamu chechikonzero icho wako wako anoramba achiita nenzira yaanoita.
Funga nezvehuduku hwako. Wakave wakagadzirwa kukura zvakanyanya here kana kuve wakanyanyisa kutarisirwa? Zvichida waifanira kutarisira mudhakwa kana mubereki asina hanya. Wakanga uri mutariri wevanin'ina vako vaduku here? Iwe unogona kunge wakapindira mubasa rakadaro, zvino wakaunza mufambiro wako wekutarisira huri muhukuru, kusanganisira hukama hwako hwepanguva ino.
Imba Yenyu Kumurume-Mwana
Kupona kwehutano hwemhuri iyi yaPetro Pan / Wendy yehutano hahukuru. Inguva yekurega kutora slack kumunhu uyu. Zvichave zvakakosha kuti iwe ugadzire miganhu ine utano. Kana ukangoita, hazvivimbiswi kuti achazopedzisira akura.
Kana asingaiti, rubatsiro rwemhizha runokosha. Anofanira kunzwisisa kuti kubudirira kwemuchato kunobva pane iwe zvose zviri zviviri kuchinja simba iro iwe wakasika. Kana iwe mose muri vaviri muchida kuita zvigadziriswa zvinodiwa kumubvumira kuti akure, chete ipapo iwe ungawana hufaro hwave huchikusiya iwe.