Kunyange kana miviri yako isingatambudzi, unogona kukuvadza ukama hwako
Nguva yaive, kusavimbika kwaiva nyaya yemisangano yekunze, inhema pamusoro pe "bhizinesi rekushanda," zvisinganzwisisiki pamusoro pekunhuhwirira kwezvinonhuwira pamashati ejasi. Zvino zvinoita kuti iwe ugobatana nemumwe munhu kunze kwewakaroorana naye kana waunofambidzana nekutamba paIndaneti. Asi kunyange zvazvo zvingaita seisina mhosva-shure kwezvose, iwe hausi mukubatana-ku-cheating online kunonyanya kungo: kubiridzira.
Kana iwe wakanga uchitarisana nemubvunzo uyu nechikonzero chero chipi zvacho (waive uchi "ona" mumwe munhu paIndaneti kana uri kutsvaga chikwata chepabonde uye uri kufunga nezvekufambisa paIndaneti nokuda kwayo), pano chikonzero nei uchifanira kufunga kaviri iwe unyoresa kana iwe wakaroorwa kana mune ukama hwakazvipira.
Kunyengedza Kubiridzira, Hapana Chakaita Zvazvakaita
Kutendeseka kwepaIndaneti nderimwe rudzi rwehukama hwepfungwa umo vanhu vanobatanidzwa vanokudziridza ukama hwepedyo hwepabonde pasina kuungana-izvo zvinonzi se- cybersex . Ichokwadi, vangave vasati vaone chiso chavo kana kuti vanonzwa inzwi romumwe nomumwe. Pasina hukama hwepanyama, saka, ushamwari hwepedyo kubva paIndaneti hungaita sechinhu chaicho.
Zvisinei, nhau yeIndaneti yakanyanya kufanana nekukanda kwenyama, imwe inogona kukuvadza nekusingaperi kune ukama kana kunyange mhuri yose. Inogona kuvhiringidza kusatendeka komukomana wake kubva kumunhu wake chaiye-hupenyu pamwe nevana, achivatorera nguva inokosha uye kutarisa nekuita kuti vanzwe varegererwa uye vasatorwa.
Uye semitambo yemadzitateguru, izvo zvinowanikwa pamusoro peInternet zvinosanganisira kusavanzika uye nhema dzinogona kuparadza kuvimba kunokosha kuti uite ukama pamwe chete. Kunyange kana munhu ari kunyengerwa asati aona zvave zvichiitika shure kwekudzokera kwake, hutano hwekuvimba hunovhuniwa kana mumwe wako kana shamwari yake asina kutendeka.
Vanhu vane hurumende vanoitawo kutsamwa nehupenyu hwavo chaihwo, izvo zvinogona kutungamirira kuti vawedzere kukuvadzwa.
Ngozi yekuenda kure
Kana kamwe vanhu vaviri vatanga kuve ne-cybersex, vanogona kukurumidza kutora. Vamwe vanhu vanototengesa zvepabonde paIndaneti , izvo zvinowedzera chimwe chimiro chekuoma kumamiriro acho ezvinhu. Kana munhu akadhakwa neIndaneti, nguva inoshandiswa pamberi pe kombiyuta kana skrini zvingangodaro inotora nguva yakawanda yekusununguka, ichisiya nguva shomanana uye kutarisirwa kumudzimai kana shamwari, nemhuri.
Imwe njodzi yepaIndaneti ndeyekuti vanhu vaviri vanoita munyaya yacho vanosarudza kusangana mumunhu. Panguva iyoyo, chokwadi, kutendeseka kwepakombiyuta kunogona kuva kusatendeseka mumuviri, kunotora kubiridzira kune imwe nzvimbo.
Zvakakosha kuchengeta mupfungwa kuti kusatendeseka kwepakombiyuta, kufanana nekusatendeka kwehupenyu, kazhinji chiratidzo chokuti pane matambudziko muhukama uye naizvozvo kugumisa nyaya yepaIndaneti hakusi kukwana kuisa chiitiko ichi kuti chidzike kana kuti chidzivirire kuti chirege kuitika zvakare. Saka panzvimbo yekutendeukira kuInternet kuedza kuwana mufaro kana chipi zvacho chaunofunga kuti chinenge chisipo kubva paukama hwako huripo, taura nemumwe wako kana shamwari yako. Funga nezvekupa mazano ekuroorana kana kurapwa iwe pachako kana iwe usingagoni kumira kurega kuita unhu hwepabonde.
Iwe uchaponesa vadiwa vako kubva pakurwadziwa zvakanyanya uye iwe pachako kurarama nemhosva kana kunyadziswa.
Sources:
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