Pane zvakawanda zvekukakavadzana kana ichi chiri chimiro chakanaka kana kusava nemafungiro
Paanenge achitaura nezvenyaya yekudzungaira, vanhu vanoratidzika vane mhinduro mbiri. Vanhu vanofunga kutseuka maziso, kana kugara vachitarisa nhengo dzevasikana, ivo havafaniri kufunganya nezvavo kana kuti vanofunga kuti mufambiro unoshungurudza imba uye havaremekedzi. Mhinduro chaiyo .. ..it depends .
Nharo Dzakapota Dzakasvibira Eyes
The Pros
- Vanhu vazhinji vanotenda kuti kuva neziso rinodzungaira ndiko tsika dzakanaka.
- Kutarisa kune munhu anokwezva ndeyekuzvarwa kwemaitiro.
- Munhu ane maziso anotarisa ari munhu akarurama anowanzofarira kunaka.
- Hapana chikonzero chekufungisisa pamusoro pemeso ekudzungaira kwomurume wako kana zvose zvinosanganiswa ndezvekukurumidza kuratidzika uye kwete yese kunze, kupfeka kwechikamu makumi matatu zvichidzika pasi, kushamwaridzana nekutsamwa, kana kuratidzira kuratidzira kutamba.
The Cons
- Kutarisa kune vamwe vanhu chiratidzo chokusaremekedza mumwe wako, zvinoratidza kusava nehanya, uye kusazvibata.
- Ziso rinodzungaira rinogumbura uye rinogona kukanganisa ukama hwewanano.
- Kuva nekudzungaira maziso chiratidzo chokutanga chokubiridzira uye chiratidzo chokuti munhu ari kutsvaga hukama humwe.
Maererano nemapfungwa, Dr. Gail Saltz, "Kutanga, zvakakosha kutaura kuti vanhu vose vane chiyero che voyeurism uye kuratidzwa kwemashoko: tinoda kutarisa uye tinoda kuratidza.Asi zvakadaro, pane kutarisa uye kune CHOKUTA .
Vanhu vazhinji havasi kunyanya kunetseka nezvinoitika pane dzimwe nguva. Asi kunyatsotarisa kuongorora, kutaura pamusoro, kudzokorora nekudzokorora uye kunyatsodanana kana kugunzva kazhinji kunonzwa kunonyadzisa kune mumwe wako. Unhu hwakadaro hunoita kuti munhu anzwe asinganzwisisiki uye akatyisidzirwa muhukama. Kunze kwekuti mapato maviri aine chivimbo chevamwe rudo, kuonekwa, nekuvimbika zvinowanzoita kuti vade godo nekukuvadza. "
Zvaunofanira Kuita Kana Wawakaroorana Naye Achinge Achinge Aine Maziso
- Usaedza kupomesa meso ako omumwe wako achidzungaira.
- Gamuchira kuti pane nguva dzose pachava nevaya vanoita sexier, vakanaka, vakanaka, vaduku, nezvimwe kupfuura iwe.
- Zvibvunze kuti nei kutarisa kwomurume wako kuchikuvhundutsa. Iwe une maonero ekuzviremekedza here? Iwe une godo here kana kuti une zvinhu? Unonetseka here nemumwe wako kuti akatendeka kwauri? Iwe hauna chokwadi nezvehukama hwako here? Pane imwe nyaya yakadzika inowanikwa muwanano yenyu here?
- Yeuka kuti maziso ako akangodzungaira haafaniri kutaridzika pakukwezva kwako.
- Edza kuzvitenda pakutanga kana munhu akanaka achiuya.
- Kana mukomana wako achidzungaira achiita dambudziko mumba mako, kurukura nyaya yacho nemumwe wako. Tanga nemanzwiro ako, kwete neanopomerwa kana kutsoropodza.
"Ita kuti zvive pachena: hauna kutarisira kuti vafukidze mapofu, kana kutarisa pasi, rega urege kugona" anodaro Dr. Saltz. "Kana mudiwa wako asingazoiti chero shanduko yekuchinja uye asingaoneki kuti ane hanya nekuita kuti unzwe sei, zvichida iwe une zvimwe zvinhu zvakadai uye mazano ekuroorana anogona kunge aripo. Chinonyanya kukosha ndechekufunga uye kunonzwisisika chikumbiro chako.Kusina musoro kwegodo nekukumbira kusinganzwisisiki kunogona kuita kuti mumwe wako abudise kunze kwecheche nemvura yekushambidza uye asingakubhadhari. "
Zvinoratidzika kuti chinonyanya kukosha ndechekuti mukati memamiriro ezvinhu evanhu vakaroorana vachiri kutarisa munhu anoyemura. Hazvigamuchirwi kuti vanhu vakaroorana (kana ani zvake nokuda kwechikonzero ichocho) kutarisa kana kuvhara munhu anokwezva chero nguva. Usapopotedzana nemudzimai wako pamusoro pekuti kana kwete iwe ogled kana kutarisa. Tora shoko ravo nokuda kwaro. Icho chinonyanyisa kurara kana chiri pamberi peumwe wako! Ramba uchifunga mupfungwa dzako kuti kusazvidzora kana kushungurudza maitiro zvakapfurikidza kuchaderedza ukama hwako. Zvakanakisisa kudzidzira kuva nekuremekedza uye kuzvidzora.
* Article yakagadziridzwa naMarni Feuerman
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