Dzidza pamusoro peCentvert's Personality Traits
Introversion ndeimwe yehutsika hunhu hunoonekwa muhutano hwakawanda hweunhu. Vanhu vanopindira vanoita sevari kutendeka mukati , kana kunyanya kufunga nezvepfungwa dzomukati, manzwiro nemanzwiro panzvimbo pokutsvaga kukurudzira kunze. Introversion inowanzoonekwa seiripo sechikamu chekuenderera mberi pamwe nekuwedzera . Introversion inoratidza kuguma kumwe kwechiyero, asi kuwedzera kunomiririra mumwe mugumo.
Chirongwa cheSpychology of Introversion
Izwi rokuti introversion uye kuwedzererwa kwakaparidzirwa kuburikidza nebasa raCarl Jung uye gare gare rikava mativi makuru emamwe maitiro akakurumbira kusanganisira huru huru 5 yeunhu. Chirevo chekutsvaga-chikwata chekuwedzera kune chimwe chezvikamu zvina zvakanzwisiswa ne Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). Maererano nezvinyorwa zvakawanda zvehutano, munhu wose ane imwe yehutano hwekuvhura uye kuwedzera. Zvisinei, vanhu vanowanzotamira kune imwe nzira kana imwe.
Zvinyorwa zvinowanzove zvakanyanya kunyarara, zvakachengetedzwa, uye zvichitarisira. Kusiyana nevanokurudzira vanowana simba kubva pakubatanidzwa kwevanhu, vauriri vanofanira kushandisa simba mumagariro evanhu. Mushure mokunge muchipinda mutambo kana kupedza nguva muboka guru revanhu, vatsva vanowanzonzwa vachida "kudzorera" nekushandisa nguva yega voga.
Common Introversion Traits
Introversion inoratidzirwa nehuwandu humwe maitiro:
- Kunyatsozviziva
- Kufunga
- Anonakidzwa nemashoko ekunzwisisa
- Kufarira kuzviziva-uye ruzivo-kunzwisisa
- Anowanzochengetedza manzwiro ari oga
- Zvinyararire uye zvakachengetwa mumapoka makuru kana kune vanhu vasingazivikanwi
- Kunyanya kufambidzana uye kufanana kune vanhu vanoziva zvakanaka
- Kudzidza zvakanaka kuburikidza nokucherechedza
Kujekesa Kunobatsira Sei?
Nzira yekutangisa inochinja sei maitiro?
Chimwe chinhu chinokosha chokuyeuka ndechekuti havasi vese vatsva vanofanana. Vamwe vanhu vangave vatsva, vamwe zvishoma, kana pane imwe nzvimbo pakati.
Zvimwe nzira iyo mavambo anogona kuchinja maitiro anosanganisira zvinotevera:
Zvinyorwa zvinogona kunge zvine shamwari shoma, dzepedyo . Vatsvakurudzi vakaona kuti vanhu vakakurumbira muhutano uhwu vanowanzova neboka duku rehama. Kunyange zvazvo extroverts inowanzove neshamwari yakawanda yehama neshamwari, vatsva vanowanzosarudza shamwari dzavo zvakanyanyisa. Ukama hwavo hwepedyo hunowanzove hwakakosha uye hunokosha. Vanosarudza kuyanana nevanhu pane imwechete-pane-imwechete pane pane boka guru rekuisa.
Zvinyorwa zvinogona kuchengetwa, asi hazvirevi kuti ivo vanonyara kana kushungurudzika munzanga. Zvakakosha kucherechedza kuti introversion hazvirevi kufanana nekunyara. Mubhuku ravo, The Development of Shyness uye Social Retard , vanyori Schmidt naBuss vanyorera, "Kushamwaridzana kunoreva chinangwa, chakasimba kana kuti chisina simba, chekuda kuva nevamwe, asi kunyara kunoreva maitiro apo kune vamwe, vakadzivirirwa kana vasina kudzivirirwa, pamwe nemanzwiro ekutsungirira uye kusagadzikana. "
Kunyara kunoratidza kutya kwevanhu kana zvemagariro evanhu.
Introverts, kune rumwe rutivi, kazhinji vanowana kuyanana nevamwe vanhu vachidhonza. Zvisinei, vanokoshesa kuva kune vanhu vari pedyo navo. Vanowana kuita "kutaura zviduku" kunotyisa, asi kunakidzwa nokukurukurirana kwakadzama, kunobatsira.
Zvinyorwa zvinowanzofunga nezvezvinhu zvisati zvataura. Vanoda kuva nekunzwisisa kwakakwana kwechirevo vasati vataura pfungwa kana kuedza kupa tsanangudzo. Nepo extroverts inowanzo dzidza kuburikidza nemuedzo uye kukanganisa, zvinyorwa zvinodzidza zvakanakisisa kuburikidza nekucherechedza.
Nhema uye Manyepo Zvisiri Nezve Introversion
Mune imwe nyaya yakanakisisa muAtlantic Monthly , munyori Jonathan Rauch akatora dzimwe dzenhema dzakawanda uye maonero asina kunaka pamusoro pevatenzi.
Kunyange zvazvo mazwi ezvinyorwa anowanzonyorwa seanonyara, asina hanya, uye ane manyawi, Rauch anotsanangura kuti maonero aya anokonzerwa nokukundikana kwemashoko ekutsvaga kuti anzwisise kuti vashandisi vanoshanda sei. "Kuwedzera maitiro kunobata zvishomanana kana kusanzwisisika kwekutaura," Rauch anoratidza. "Vanofunga kuti kambani, kunyanya yavo, inogamuchirwa nguva dzose.Ivo havagoni kufungidzira kuti nei mumwe munhu achida kuva oga, hongu, ivo vanowanzotora mazano pane zvataurwa .. Nenguva dzose sezvandakaedza kutsanangurira nyaya yacho kuti ndive ndoga, verts, handina kumbobvira ndaona kuti mumwe wavo ainyatsonzwisisa. "
Maererano nekufungidzira, kuwedzera kunopfuura mavhenekeri anenge anenge matatu kusvika kune rimwe. Zvinyorwa zvinowanzowana kuti vamwe vanhu vanoedza kuzvishandura kana kunyange kuratidza kuti pane chimwe chinhu "chakaipa" navo. Hapana chingave chiri mberi kubva kuchokwadi. Kunyange zvazvo mavhisi anokonzera chikamu chiduku chevanhu, hapana chakanaka kana chakashata unhu hwemunhu. Panzvimbo pezvo, zvose zvinyorwa uye zvinokwidziridzwa zvinofanira kuedza kunzwisisa mutsauko nekusiyana.
Sezvaunogona kufungidzira, mabasa anoda kushamwaridzana kukuru kwevanhu vanogara asingafariri vanhu vakakwirira mukutaura. Kune rumwe rutivi, mabasa anosanganisira kushanda zvakazvimiririra kazhinji kacho chisarudzo chikuru kune vatsindi. Somuenzaniso, mutauriri angangonakidzwa kushanda semunyori, mumiririri, munyori wepakombiyuta, chigadziri chinyorwa, mishonga, kana mhizha.
References
Rauch, J. (2003). Kuchengetedza mutenzi wako. Atlantic Monthly . Kudzorerwa kubva ku http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2003/03/caring-for-your-introvert/2696/#
Sword, L. (2002). The Gifted Introvert. Kudzorerwa kubva ku http://talentdevelop.com/articles/GiftIntrov.html