Nhoroondo uye Uzivi hweMhuri Kubatsira Fellowship
Al-Anon neAlateen mapurogiramu maviri ari chikamu chekudyidzana kwenyika yose kunopa rubatsiro kumhuri dzevanodhakwa. Al-Anon yakagadzirirwa kubatsira vakaroorana, vabereki, vanun'una, uye dzimwe nhengo dzemhuri, nepo Alateen inotarirwa kunyanya kune vechiduku vanogara newaini.
Mapoka maviri acho akavakirwa pane zvekunamata, zvisingavi zvechitendero izvo nhengo dzinowana ruzivo kubva pakuva chikamu chevanhu vose (kunze kwekuita mune rimwechete-kune-rimwe rutsigiro).
Apo vanhu vazhinji vanotendeukira kune Al-Anon uye Alateen kuti vabatsirwe nematambudziko ekunwa kwewaidiwa, uyewo mapurogiramu ekupindira . Pane kudaro, vanoziva kuti vanhu vanorarama newaini vanogona kunetseka uye vanoisa pfungwa dzavo pakuchengeta izvo zvavanoda.
Sezvakaita neAlcoholics Anonymous (AA) , Al-Anon neAlateen zvakanyatsotarisana nemuenzaniso wechigumi nematanhatu (unozivikanwa, zvakajeka, seMatanho gumi nemaviri ) akagadzirirwa se "chigadzirwa chekukura mumweya."
Nhoroondo yeAl-Anon neAlateen
Pakazosvika 1939, mhuri dzakatanga kupinda misangano yeAA pamwe chete nevakasviba vemhuri yavo. Nokushingairira kubatanidzwa muGumi neVaviri Matanho, vazhinji vevanhu ava vakatanga kutarisa kubatsirwa kwekuisa mazano mumhuri yavo uye mhuri dzemasimba. Nokufamba kwemazuva, mamwe emapoka emhuri aya akaumba misangano yavo yakazvimirira .
Muna 1948, maverengi emapoka aya akashandiswa kuAA General General Office kuti ive yakarongwa mumutauro wenyaya.
Mushure mekunge varambwa, Lois W. (mudzimai weAA co-founder Bill W.) uye Anne B., shamwari yepedyo yemhuri, vakasarudza kugadzira komiti kuti ibatsire kuronga uye kushanda aya mapoka akazvimiririra.
Muna 1951, Al-Anon yakagadzwa nemasangano makumi mashanu nemapoka evanhu kumativi ose kondinendi United States. Vakasarudza zita kubva kumazana ekutanga e " Al coholics Anon ymous" uye, maererano neheyo yekutanga, vakagamuchira Matanho Egumi nemaviri (uye gare gare Tsika gumi nemaviri ) mune fomu isina kuchinjwa.
Misangano yekutanga yeAlateen, panguva iyo, yakasimbiswa muna 1957 kunyanya kune nhengo pakati pemakore gumi nemaviri ne19. Vachiita vari voga, mapoka aya anotungamirirwa nemunhu mukuru weAl-Anon, anonzi anotsigira.
Al-Anon neAlateen Gumi nemaviri Matanho
Iyo Al-Anon neAlateen Gumi nemaviri Matanho zvakanyatsoenderana neaAA. Nheyo inokosha yemuenzaniso ndeyekuti vanhu vanogona kubatsira kuporesa mumwe nomumwe asi kana bedzi kana vachizvipira kune simba rakakwirira.
Kunyange zvazvo Matanho gumi nemaviri anogona kuva simba rekuita zvakanaka mumhuri dziri kutambura, kune avo vanorwisana nemweya, zvese-zvechitendero, chinangwa chevarume-chechi purogiramu. Kune vanhu ava, kune dzimwe nzira dzakasiyana-siyana kumatanho gumi nematanhatu-asingatenderi pfungwa ye "simba rakakwirira."
Kune avo vanogamuchira Al-Anon uye nzira yeAlateen, matanho gumi nemaviri anotsemuka sezvinotevera:
- Kubvuma kuti hauna simba pamusoro pewaini uye kuti hupenyu hwako hwave husingaregi
- Kutenda kuti simba guru pane iwe pachako rinogona kukudzosa iwe kuhutano
- Kuita sarudzo yekushandura kuda kwako noupenyu pamusoro pekutarisira kwaMwari mune chero chipi zvacho chinogona kuva
- Kutora tsika dzisingatyi dzokuzviongorora iwe pachako
- Kuzviisa kuna Mwari, iwe pachako, uye kune imwe chaiyo chaiyo yezvakaipa zvako
- Kuva wakagadzirira kuti Mwari abvise uku kukanganisa kubva pamunhu wako
- Kumukumbira Mwari kubvisa zvikanganiso izvi
- Kuita urongwa hwevaya vamakakuvadza uye vanoda kugadzirisa
- Kuita kugadzirisa chero pazvinenge zvichiita (kunze kwekuti kana kuita kudaro kungaita kuti zvikuvadze)
- Kuenderera mberi kutora maitiro ekuzvibata iwe pachako nekubvuma kana iwe uri kukanganisa
- Kutsvaka kuvandudza ukama hwako naMwari uye kunyengeterera zivo uye simba rekuita kuda kwaMwari
- Kutakura aya mharidzo kune vamwe nekuita mazano aya muupenyu hwako hwezuva nezuva
> Kwakabva:
> Timco, C .; Cronkite, R .; Kaskuta, A. et al. "Al-Anon Mapoka Emhuri: Vatsva uye Nhengo." J Mudziro Doro Zvinodhaka. 2013; 74 (6): 965-76. PMCID: PMC3817053.