Nzira Yekurega Kutenda Kuti Kuva Wakakwana Kuchaita Kuti Ufare
Munhu wose anoziva kuti lottery ibheja. Iwe unotamba nhamba yako vhiki imwe neimwe uye unotarisira kuva mukuru mukukunda. Zvinosuruvarisa, kune vanhu vazhinji, iyo gamba hairi kumbobhadhara.
Kuzvidzivirira sechimwe chinhu chekushungurudzika kwevanhu munzanga (SAD) kunoreva zvinhu zvaunoita kuti uzvidzivirire kubva pakuzvidya mwoyo. Kazhinji, izvi zvinoreva kurega kushamwaridzana nekushanda kwemamiriro ezvinhu zvachose, kana kutarisana navo ne "kuchengetedza maitiro" akadai sokuvanza maoko ako, chiso chako, achitaura nenzwi rakanyarara, nezvimwe.
Muchirevo chekushungurudzika kwevanhu munzanga, kudzivisa kunogona kufungidzirwa semutambo. Ndezvipi zvinodiwa uye chii chiripo?
Kune vanhu vakawanda, uri kubhejera netariro kuti kana iwe unogona kungochengetedza, ipapo hapana munhu achakuona uchiita benzi, kukanganisa, kana kuzvinyadzisa iwe pachako. Iwe haumbofi wakapa hurukuro na flub mazwi ako.
Iwe hauzombofi uri pamutambo uye usina munhu unotaura naye. Iwe haungatongomutswi kumwa kwako nokuti ruoko rwako rwakanga ruchizununguka zvakanyanya. Iwe uchava wakakwana .
Fadza, iwe wakunda. Asi fungidzira chii? Mubayiro hausi iwe waifunga kuti waizove. Kukwana kuchava jeri rako. Iyo mitambo yaunogona kungogara yakakwana kana iwe usati udzivirire chero rudzi rwekubatana huchaparadza hupenyu hwako. Uye hupenyu hwako huchapenya.
Chii chinoshandiswa? Heano nhatu nzira dzekumisa kubhejera pane ramangwana rekukwana.
1. Ziva Kuti Hapana Munhu Akakwana
Ziva kuti kukwana ndeyekufungidzira. Vanhu vane kushungurudzika kwepakati pevanhu vanofukidzwa nepfungwa yokuti kune "nzira yakarurama" uye "nenzira isina kururama" yekuita zvose.
Munhu wese waunoziva anoita nenzira imwechete. Vose vanopindura foni nenzira imwecheteyo here?
Taurai mubhuku rimwe chete? Anoseka kuchidimbu chakafanana? Nyika inzvimbo yakanyanya kukanganwira yehutano pane iwe unopa chikwereti. Kune hutano hwakasiyana-siyana hunoonekwa sehuwandu hunogamuchirwa. Chero bedzi usiri kuva nehasha, kupikisana, kusazvidza, kukuvadza, kana chero humwe humwe unhu hunoita kuti hukuvadze kune vamwe, vanhu vakawanda vachakucheka.
Zvipe iwe pachako nenzira yakadaro kuti uende-kilter. Ona kuzvidya mwoyo kwako sekunakidza uye chikamu chakasiyana chauri iwe. Gara uchinakidza iwe pachako. Iva wechokwadi uye usina kukwana. Unogona kushamiswa nemhinduro yaunowana.
2. Tarisa Mamiriro Matsva seZviitiko Zvokudzidza
Fungidzira kana iwe wakatora makobiri ose awakambotora pane lotto uiise mubhangi rebhangi pane. Zvino, fungidzira kuti bhadha yebhangi yaibhadhara chikwereti chekuda, uye nekufamba kwenguva iyo yakawanda yakawedzera kuva yakawanda yekuchengetedza. Pakupedzisira, iwe ungasave wakakunda lottery, asi iwe ungadai wakachengetedza zvakachengeteka uye une chimwe chinhu chokuratidza.
Izvo zvinogona kutaurwa pamusoro pokudzivisa. Panzvimbo yekubhejera pane imwe neimwe inogona kusangana nevanhu kana kushanda semukana we "kuramba wakakwana" uye "usingaiti kukanganisa," zvakadini kana iwe ukaunganidza imwe neimwe yemamiriro ezvinhu aya munguva yakareba semikana yekudzidza? Ungadai wakakura zvakadini pane imwe nguva?
3. Ziva Kuti Kuva Shamwari Inonyaradza Inotora Nguva
Iwe unogona kubhadhara kune pfungwa yokuti kana iwe uchitambura nekushungurudzika kwevanhu, ganda rako harina kufanana nevamwe vanhu-kuti kuzviratidza kune mamiriro ezvinhu kunokonzera kushungurudzika kukuru, kushungurudzika, kurwadziwa, uye kutambura. Rega kufunga kusvika mberi.
Somunhu wokutanga mumhanyi, iwe unganyoresa marathon? Kunyarara hazvirevi kutambaira mumvura yakadzika yegungwa. Ita kuti ugare wakasimba zvishoma nezvishoma. Tora rimwe danho duku pane imwe nguva kuti uwedzere kugadzikana.