Matanho gumi nemaviri eAA neAl-Anon
Vakawanda avo vane hupenyu hwehutano hwemhuri yekudhakwa vanowana tariro zvakare kana vaisa kutenda kwavo mune simba guru kune ivo. Ichi ndicho Chiito chechipiri chezviito 12:
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Akauya kutenda kuti Simba guru kune isu raigona kutidzorera kusina chakanaka.
Nhengo dzakawanda dzeAlcoholics Anonymous kana Al-Anon Mhuri dzeboka dzinouya purogiramu nekutenda kwakasimba muna Mwari, uye nekukurudzirwa kwevamwe nhengo dzekudyidzana munguva pfupi dzidza kudzidza kushandisa izvozvi kutenda kune mamiriro ezvinhu muupenyu hwavo hwakasikwa nekudhakwa.
Nehuchenjeri hwakapiwa nepurogiramu, ushamwari, uye kutsigirwa kwevamwe nhengo, kuporesa kunotanga nerubatsiro rwaMwari ane rudo, sezvavanomunzwisisa.
Agnostics neAtheists uye Step 2
Vamwe vanoziviswa kumapurogiramu gumi nematanhatu ndevamwe vanofunga kana vasingatendi, avo vanoramba pfungwa yehuMwari. Vakawanda vanobviswa kunyange nekutaura kweshoko rokuti "Mwari" uye vamwe bristle pane zvinyorwa zvese zvemweya. Asi, sezvinotaura mubhuku, "Inodhaka Anonymous," muchitsauko chakanzi We Agnostics, "tinokukumbira kuti uise parutivi rusaruro ..." uye kupa purogiramu mukana.
Zvirongwa gumi nematanhatu zvinomweya, kwete zvechitendero. Hapana zvinotaurwa nezvezvitendero, dzidziso, kana dzidziso mumisangano kana mumabhuku anogamuchirwa. Nhengo hadzidikanwi kugamuchira pfungwa yemumwe munhu pamusoro paMwari, chete kuvimba kuti kune simba "guru kupfuura ivo" zvisinei kana vachida kuzvitsanangura kana kuzvinzwisisa.
Zvinoratidzika kuva chokwadi chemweya, kuti pamberi pesimba rakakwirira risati ratanga kushanda, munhu anofanira kutanga atenda kuti rinogona. Iwe unofanirwa kuzvitenda, kuti uzvigamuchire. Mamiriyoni emapurogiramu epurogiramu mumakore, avo pakupedzisira "vakatenda" vakazviwana vachishamisika kuwana simba iro riri kushanda mumararamiro avo nenzira inoita seishamiso.
Akatendeka uye Nhanho 2
Kune avo vane simba mukutenda kwavo kwechitendero, Chikamu 2 chinogonawo kupa chinetso. Kana iwe une chivimbo pamusoro pemamiriro aMwari, zvinogona kuvhiringidza kunzwa "simba rakakwirira" riri kushandiswa pane "Mwari." Iwe unogona kuva nekutambudzika mukugamuchira chimiro chemasimba akakwirira iwayo kune dzimwe nhengo dzeboka racho. Kunzwa kuti zvakakodzera kushandiswa kwebasa rekushandira kwemasimba makuru kana ndizvo zvaunozvinzwisisa, zvingava zvakaoma kugamuchira. Iwe unogona kutozviwana uchikuvadza.
Zvisinei, kupa chirongwa chechikamu chegumi nezviviri mukana, iwe unofanira kudzivirira izvo zvinopindura uye usarega zvichidzivisa kushandisa chirwere chegumi nematanhatu. Kusarura kwechitendero kunogona kupinda munzira.
Zviitiko zveNhanho 2
Nhengo dzemapoka akasiyana-siyana gumi nemaviri akagovera ruzivo rwavo, simba, uye tariro pane imwe neimwe yezviito. Heano dzimwe dzenyaya dzavo.
- Carol anotaura nezvekurera kwake mumhuri yaive yakashanda muchechi yavo. Paakaedza kushushikana, akadzokera kuchechi yake. "Zvishoma nezvishoma, ndakaona kuti Mwari muchitendero changu ane chiso chakanaka chaangoratidzira kune vanodhakwa uye ndakamuwana mumakamuri eAlcoholics Anonymous Iye aripo, achimirira kuti tibvunze rubatsiro rwake. upenyu hwangu AA. "
- Sox yakakumbirwa kuenda kumusangano nekuverenga "Iyi AA" pamphlet. "Ndakadana rimwe remakwikwi makuru munharaunda yangu uye ndakaenda kumusangano usiku ihwohwo asi zvakajeka kwandiri kuti ndakanga ndatendeukira kune Mwari pakutanga, ndokutora Nhanho 1. Ndaiziva kuti hupenyu hwangu hwakanga hwakaipa uye ndaiziva ikoko yakanga iri simba guru kupfuura ini, asi kusvikira panguva iyoyo, ndakanga ndagara ndatsamwira Mwari nekupfeka kwaAkanga asingadikanwi.Naizvozvo ndaida Iye, uye chokwadi zvakakwana, Akanditungamirira kunzvimbo yandinofanira kuva. "
- Buddy, nhengo yeAl-Anon, anoti, "Pamusangano wangu wokutanga, mushure mokunge ndaverenga mamwe mabhuku, ndakaita kuti ndakataura kuti ndine dambudziko nemafungiro e" simba rakakwirira. "Mushure mokunge musangano uyu, akandiudza achiti, 'Handisi kureva kukanganwa zvitendero zvako, asi ingozviisa pane imwe nguva uye kupa Al Anon mukana.' Ikoko kwakanga kune huchenjeri hukuru zvaakandiudza uye dai asina kutora nguva yekundiudza izvozvo, zvimwe ndingadai ndisati ndadzoka uye ingadai iri ini ndakasuwa zvakanyanya izvo Mwari zvaakachengetera kwandiri. huchenjeri, rubatsiro, ushamwari, kukurudzirwa, uye kukura mumweya kwandakawana muAinon, ndingadai ndasuwa nekuda kwekusarura kwangu kwechitendero.Ndizvo, mazano angu kune vatsva ndizvo zvakafanana nezvandakagamuchira: kuisa zvitendero zvako, kana kusatenda pachibato uye kupa purogiramu yose mukana nokuti Al-Anon haisi purogiramu yechitendero, asi yemweya. "