Kunyengera kunogona kuparadza hukama, huri pakati pemwana nemubereki kana pakati pemudzimai nemurume. Inogona kuparadza kuvimba uye kushamwaridzana uye kukurudzira kutsamwa. Kazhinji, vanhu vanonzwa vanonyengerwa vachabvisa zvisungo zvachose nemunhu wavanotenda nhema.
Borderline Personality Disorder and Lying
Zvinosuruvarisa, muganhu wepamiganhu wehutano (BPD) haisi chirwere chinonyatsozivikanwa kana chinonzwisisika.
Kunyangwe zvakadaro, vanhu vakawanda vanotenda kuti kureva nhema chikamu chechirwere. Zvisinei, unogona kushamiswa kuziva kuti kubatana pakati peBPD nekunyengedza hakuzi pachena zvakajeka.
Zvechokwadi, kana iwe ukaongorora zviratidzo zve borderline personality disorder (BPD), kureva nhema hakuna nzvimbo inowanikwa. MuChirwere chekuongorora uye Statistical Manual yeMental Illnesses-5th edition , iyo ndiyo inowanzogovera vashandi vehutano inoshandiswa pakuita zvirwere zvakakodzera, kunyengedza hakusi chikamu chekutaridzika kweBPD.
Zvisinei, izvozvo hazvireve kuti avo vane BPD havanyerevi kana kuti havazorevi nhema. Ichokwadi, nhengo dzakawanda dzemhuri neshamwari dzevaya vane BPD dzinotaura kureva nhema sezvinonyanya kunetseka muukama hwavo neBPD yavo yavanoda.
Chikonzero nei kunyengera kuchiitika muBPD
Pane zvikonzero zvishomanana zvinokonzera kuti nei nhema dzichiitika kune vanhu vane BPD.
Manzwiro Akanyanya
Vanhu vane BPD vanonzwa zvakanyanyisa . Manzwiro aya anogona kunge akaoma zvokuti anokonzera kufunga kwevanhu, achiita kuti vaone zvinhu kuburikidza nemanzwiro ekunetseka angave akasiyana nezvinoitwa nevamwe vanhu.
Vanotsvaka tsanangudzo dzinosimbisa izvo zvavanonzwa uye dzisingateereri zvinhu zvichange zvichitopesana nazvo, uye izvi zvinogona kunge zvinokanganisa zvikuru shamwari neshamwari dzemhuri. Zvakakosha kunzwisisa kuti munhu ane BPD haasi kureva nhema-anonyatsotenda kuti maonero ake akarurama kunyange kana zvisiri pachena nhema.
Kushushikana
BPD inobatanidzawo nekusava nehanya, tsika yekuita zvinhu pasina kufunga nezvemigumisiro-saka dzimwe manyepo ekureva nhema dzinogona kuva mugumisiro wemunhu ane BPD pasina kungofunga asati apindura mhinduro.
Shame
Mukuwedzera, vanhu vane BPD vanowanzova nekunyadziswa kwakadzika uye kwakadzika, naizvozvo kureva nhema kungava imwe nzira yekuvanza zvikanganiso kana kushaya simba zvinowedzera manzwiro anonyadzisa. Vanhu vane BPD vanowanzova nehanya zvikuru nekurambwa, saka rimwe basa rereve rinogona kunge riri "kuvhara" kukanganisa kuitira kuti vamwe vasavaramba.
Biology yekureva nhema
Kubva pane unyanzvi hwekufananidzira hwemifananidzo inonzi functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI), vatsvakurudzi vakaona kuti unyengeri hunobatanidza kushandiswa kwe prefrontal cortex, iri pamberi pepfungwa. Chigaro chekorinisi chinotora chikamu chinokosha mukugadzirisa unhu hwomunhu, kuronga kugadzirisa mabasa, nekugadzirisa hutano hwevanhu uye hwepfungwa.
Zvinofadza kuti kushandiswa kweiyo ye prefrontal cortex kwave kuwanikwa kuitika kana kunyengedzwa kwakabatana nekunyengedzera kwepfungwa kana kwematongerwe enyika (somuenzaniso, kureva nhema pamusoro pechinhu kuti urege kuita zvakaipa kana pasina kutya nekureva nhema pamusoro pezvamadya kudya kwekudya kwekudya).
Zvisinei, nheyo dzenhema, sokunge kuti nhema dzakatarisirwa kubatsira kana kukuvadza munhu anoreva nhema, dzinogona kuchinja kana dzimwe nzvimbo dzeuropi dzichibatwa.
Kunyengedza uye Izvozvo Zvaitika pahukama
Hazvina mhosva kuti nei munhu ane BPD achinyengera, zvingave nokuti ndeyekuti anofunga zvechokwadi kuti nyika yake yakajeka ndeyechokwadi kana kuti ari kunyara, kukanganiswa kwehukama kunogona kukuvadza zvikuru. Shamwari uye nhengo dzemhuri dzingave dzisingachagoni kuvimba nomunhu wacho, achizviparadzanisa navo kubva kune vaanoda.
Pakupedzisira, nhema dzinogona kuparadza ukama hwakakwana. Kunyange nhengo dzemhuri dzorudo uye dzakazvipira dzingafunga kuti dzinofanira kuparadzana kubva kune wavanoda kana nhema dzave dzakawanda.
Izvi zvinogona kubvisa kubatsirana kwakakosha uye kurwisa vanhu vose.
Shoko Rinobva
Mukuguma, zvinogona kuva zvakaoma kuchengetedza ukama neshamwari kana nhengo yemhuri neBPD. Zvisinei, zvakakosha kunzwisisa kuti vanhu vane BPD vanowanzoita muzviito zvinokuvadza kwete nokuti vanofunga kukukuvadzai asi nokuti kutambura kwavo kwakanyanyisa vanofunga kuti havana imwe nzira yokurarama nayo.
Kunyengera kunogona kuva muenzaniso mumwe weizvi. Kunyange zvazvo izvo zvisingarevi kukanganisa maitiro, kana iwe uchinzwisisa chikonzero, unogona kubatsira mudiwa wako kuwana rubatsiro rwakakodzera kuti abatsire kutarisa zviratidzo zveBPD.
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