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Kucheka chiratidzo chekuzvikuvadza umo vechidiki vanocheka nemaune kana kuzvizvidza nemapanga, razor blades, kana zvimwe zvinhu zvakakosha, asi kwete nechinangwa chekuedza kuzviuraya.
Zvimwe zvinokuvadza kuzvibata zvinogona kusanganisira musoro-kunyorera, kuisa marashi kana kupisa ganda ravo, kunyanya kushandiswa pamishonga, uye kupenga.
Maitiro aya akawandisa kupfuura zvaunofunga uye anoparadza kusvika 16 muzana yevechiri kuyaruka uye vechidiki vakuru.
Nei Vechiduku Vanozvicheka
Vabereki uye vanachiremba vana vanowanzoomerwa kunzwisisa kuti sei vechidiki vangacheka kana kuita zvimwe zvinhu kuti vazvikuvadze ivo pachavo. Hazvishamisi kuti kucheka idambudziko rakaoma rehutano uye rinowanzobatanidzwa nezvinetso zvakasiyana-siyana zvepfungwa, kusanganisira kuora mwoyo, kuzvidya mwoyo , uye zvinetso zvekudya. Vechiduku vanozvicheka ndivo vanogona kuva neshamwari dzinozvicheka, dzikazviremekedza, nhoroondo yekushungurudzwa , uye / kana pfungwa dzekuzviuraya.
Kunyange zvazvo dzimwe nguva ichionekwa sekutsvaga kutsvaga, kutema inzira yevana kusunungura dambudziko, kubvisa manzwiro ekusuwa kana kutsamwa, kana kuti kuzvisiyanisa pazvinetso zvavo. Ichokwadi, chero zororo rega kwechinguva chete.
Apo vamwe vechidiki vanocheka vangave neshamwari inodzvora kana kuti ingave yakaverenga pamusoro payo kana kuiona iyo paTV, vazhinji vana vanotanga kudzvora vanoti havasi kutungamirirwa nemunhu chero upi zvake kana chimwe chinhu uye vakauya nechinangwa ivo pachavo.
Zviratidzo zvekucheka
Kucheka kunowanzosvika kune vechidiki uye vechidiki-kunyanya pakati pevasikana vechidiki-uye vanowanzotanga kusvika makore gumi nemaviri kana gumi nemashanu, munguva yekutanga kuchikoro chesekondari.
Vechiduku vanozvicheka vanowanzotsanangurwa sevasingafungi. Vamwe vanotsanangurwawo sevanopfuura.
Mukutaura kwemashoko ekunyevera uye mapuranga matsvuku, mwana wenyu ari kuyaruka angave achicheka kana iye:
- anogara akapfeka shati refu-sleeve kana shangu refu (kunyange kana mamiriro okunze achidziya) kuvhara mavara matsva kana zvikanda zvekare pamaoko ake, mazondo, kana mahudyu (iyo inowanzo nzvimbo dzomuviri umo kunotemwa kunoitika)
- kazhinji kacho kunokonzera kushungurudza, kukwaya, kana kupisa padumbu rake, makumbo, maziso, kana maoko
- iri kuwedzera zviratidzo zvekuora mwoyo, kuzvidya mwoyo, kana chirwere chokudya
- ane dambudziko rokudzora manzwiro ake (sekunge mwana wako achiri kuyaruka asingazivi kuti angagadzirisa sei iye paanoshungurudzika kana kutsamwa)
Kana iwe uchifunga kuti mwana wako ari kutema, kumubvunza pamusoro pazvo zvinyoro. Kana mhinduro yacho ihwo hungu, zvinokosha kuti usashamisika kana kupesana. Iwe hausi kuda kumuita kuti azvinzwe nekuita. Ramba uchifunga kuti kudzvora kunowanzova chiratidzo chechinetso chakakura, uye iwe, semubereki, unogona kubatsira mwana wako kuziva chikonzero chinokonzera kuburikidza nekutsvaga rubatsiro rwezvenyanzvi (zvakawanda pane izvo zviri pasi).
Mishonga yekucheka
Zvakakosha kutsvaga kurapwa kwevana vako pakarepo kana achicheka, zvose kuti vabatsire kubata chero dambudziko repfungwa dzepfungwa, sekuora mwoyo kana kufunganya, uye kudzivirira kudzika kubva pakuva tsika yakaipa. Kana mwana achiri kuyaruka akazvicheka, zvakaoma kuti aputse tsika yacho.
Uye kucheka kunogona kutungamirira kune mamwe matambudziko gare gare muupenyu.
Ichokwadi, iyo SAFE Alternatives (chirwere chekupedzisira nekuguma) chirongwa chekurapa chinorondedzera kuchema se "pakupedzisira kune ngozi uye isina maturo kugadzirisa nzira inopesana nehukama hwepedyo, zvibereko uye mufaro."
Aya ndiwo mamwe maitiro ekurapwa anogona kubatsira mwana wako kuyaruka kusiya kudzika uye kudzidza nzira dzakanakisisa dzokugadzirisa.
- Nyanzvi yezvepfungwa: Vechidiki vanocheka vanofanira kuongororwa uye kurapwa nevanopa mazano kana masayendisiti avo vane ruzivo mukurapa vechidiki nemamiriro ezvinhu aya. Aya marudzi ehutano ane unyanzvi pakutaura remishonga uye anogona kupa nzvimbo yakachengeteka, isina kutonga iyo mwana wako anogona kutaura pachena pachena nezvezvinetso zvaanotarisana nazvo. Yeuka, dzimwe nguva zvinogona kuva zvakaoma kuti wechidiki ave akazarurirwa kumubereki, saka kutaura kune mumwe munhu anenge ari mutorwa angave ari nyore kumwana wako.
- Psychiatrist: Kuongororwa nemwana wechiremba wepfungwa (chiremba anokwanisa kupa mishonga) zvinogona kuvawo pfungwa yakanaka yekutarisa dzimwe pfungwa dzemishonga, izvo zvinogona kusanganisira antidepressant kana zvichidiwa.
- Treatment Center: Unogona kutsvaga nzvimbo yekurapa munharaunda yako inonyanya kugadzirwa. Zita renzvimbo yekurapa rinogona kusanganisira mazwi okuti "kuzvidzora," "kuzvikuvadza," kana "kuzvidzora."
- Gutsiro Rokutsigira: Mwana wako ari kuyaruka anogonawo kuwana rubatsiro kuburikidza nekubatana neboka rinotsigira rutsigiro. Kusangana nevamwe vanocheka kunogona kumubatsira kunzwa sega uye kungamubatsira kuona kuti vamwe vakabudirira sei kudzika ivo pachavo.
Kurapa kwekucheka kunogona kuisa pfungwa pakubatsira wechiduku kukura kuhutano nekugadzirisa matambudziko apo anotarisana nekunzwa kutsamwa, kushushikana, kana kusuruvara. Ichabatsirawo kukurudzira kuzvidzora kwevechiri kuyaruka, kubatsira kubata chero dambudziko repfungwa dzepfungwa, uye kubatsira kubatsira kuti mwana wechidiki ave asina kufunga kwekuzviuraya .
Sources:
American Academy of Child uye Vachiri kuyaruka Psychiatry. Chokwadi kumhuri. Kuzviuraya-Kukuvadza Muvana Vachiri Kuyaruka.
Nonsuicidal kuzvidzora muhuduku: kuongorora kwevanhu. Nixon MK - CMAJ - 29-JAN-2008; 178 (3): 306-12