Kungofanana nepo kune hupenyu hwakasiyana-siyana munharaunda yevamwe vanhu vakuru, kuwana mwana anonyara kuchikoro hakusi zvakaoma kuzviita. Kazhinji, kunyara kunongonyara uye haisi chikonzero chokufunganya, kunyanya kana mudzidzisi wechidiki anotaura maitiro akanaka mukirasi. Asi, pane zviitiko apo kunyara kunogona kuve chiratidzo chechimwe chinhu.
Zvatinofunga kuti zvingava kunyara kunyara zvingangova maitiro ekudzidzira angave ari chiratidzo chekuora mwoyo.
Muvana vane chokwadi ichi, zvakanyatsoratidzwa kuti kunyara uye mafambiro akadai, sekusununguka kwevanhu, zvakanyatsovharwa nekunze kunze kwezviito zvinokanganisa kana zvechisimba - kunyanya muzvikoro. Ikozvino, chii chiri kuitika mukati chinenge chakavharwa nezvo zvatinogona kunyatsoona. Kunyangwe mwana ane nyara, mwana akaora mwoyo angasaita nenzira iyi, kusanganiswa kunogona kuva chiratidzo chokuti pane chikonzero chekufunganya.
Kakawanda Sei Kunyara Chiratidzo Chekuora Mwoyo?
Izvozvo zvakaoma kutaura. Maererano neAmerican Academy of Pediatrics, vanenge 3% yevana vane dambudziko rekuora mwoyo. Kunyange zvazvo havasi vana vose vakaora mwoyo vanoita maitiro ekudzidzira, vazhinji vanozviratidza zvimwe zviratidzo zvekugara kwevanhu kana kudzidzira kudzidzira. Uyezve, vasikana vanonzi vanonyanya kudzidza maitiro kune vakomana.
Dr. Leslie D. Leve nevamwe vashandi, avo vakabudisa chidzidzo chechinyorwa mu Journal of Abnormal Psychology muna 2005, vakaona zvinhu zvina zvinogona kuita kuti vana vave nekuita maitiro.
Vakawana kuti vana vaiva nemadzimai akaora mwoyo, vakawana kurangwa nekutsamwa uye / kana kurwisana kwevabereki, uye avo vaiva nemanyara uye vanotya mutemo vainyanya kuratidza maitiro ekudzidzira kupfuura avo vasina.
Ichokwadi kuti izvi zvakawanikwa hazvirevi kuti mamiriro ezvinhu aya anoshanda kune vose vana vane kuora mwoyo uye / kana kudzidzira maitiro.
Dai Mwana Wangu Asingadi Kudzidzisa Chimbobuda Kana Pane Dambudziko?
Mune chikoro chakabatikana, vana vakanyarara vanowanzotaridzirwa zvakanaka-vanozvienzanisa kana vachienzaniswa nemheremhere uye vanovhiringidzidza navo vomukirasi. Pasinei nokuti mwana ari kunyarara nokuti ane hutano hwakanaka kana nokuti ane nyenyeri kana anotya kutaura chimwe chinhu chingave chinopukunyuka kukwanisa kwechimwe mudzidzisi anoshingaira anogona kuongorora.
Dhiyabhorosi Leve yakaratidza kuti vadzidzisi vakaratidza mazinga akakwirira ekuvhiringidza kana kubuda kunze kwekudzidzira mukirasi iyo vabereki vakarondedzera nezvevana vavo - saka hongu, mudzidzisi anogona kunyatsoziva dambudziko, kunyanya sezvo zvichinyatsojeka kuti maitiro ekuvhiringidza anokanganisa angave sei kuchikoro . Vana vane maitiro ekuvhiringidza vanowanzodikanwa kuranga chirango uye nokudaro vanotumirwa kune avo vadzidzisi vekuchikoro kana chiremba wepfungwa, kana kuti nekurapa kunze. Izvozvo zvakati, hapana chivimbo.
Zvakare, kunyange hurombo huri chikonzero chinokonzera kunetseka mumwana ane nyadzi, haasi mwana wose anonyara anoora mwoyo achaita nenzira iyi. Uyezve, kunyara haisi nguva dzose chiratidzo chekuora mwoyo. Vabereki vanofanira kuziva izvi, kusanganisira kukwana kwekirasi, uye kubvunza chiremba wemwana wavo uye / kana chikoro chechikoro kunze kwevadzidzisi vekudzidzira kuti vanzwisise maitiro evana vavo.
Kusanzwisiswa Kwepanyama Kusinganzwisisiki Ungava Chiratidzo Chinokosha Chiyevero
Mwana angangodaro ane zvishoma zviratidzo zvakajeka zvekuora mwoyo. Zvisinei, zviratidzo zvisingatsanangurwi zvepanyama - zvakadai sepfungwa, bellyache, kushungurudza, kurwadziwa kwose, zvinetso nehope, kushaya chido, uye kuchinja kwehutano - ndezvokunyunyuta kwevana vari kuora mwoyo vane maitiro ekudzidzira. Apo chiremba asingakwanisi kuziva chikonzero chechiremba chezvipikisa izvi, angasarudza kuti anoratidza kufunganya kwemwana kana kuora mwoyo.
Maererano naRobin Adair Shannon nevamwe vaaishanda navo, avo vakabudisa chidzidzo mu Journal of School Nursing muna 2010, vana vane zviratidzo zvisingatsanangurwi zvemuviri vanogara vachigara kuhofisi yekoti yechikoro uye nhoroondo yezvizhinji zvehutano hwechikoro.
Kutaura zvazviri, vanamukoti vekuchikoro vanogona kunge vane maonero akasiyana-siyana kumwana akaora mwoyo, asi vadzidzisi vekirasi vangasaziva.
Zvaunofanira Kuita
Zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti kunyara hakusi chiratidzo chekuora mwoyo - kana kuti chero chinhu chipi zvacho chakaipa nemwana wako, nokuda kwechinhu ichocho. Kunyara unhu hunhu. Kuora mwoyo, kune rumwe rutivi, kunowanzova episodic - chiitiko icho mwana anozviwana arimo.
Zvimwe zviratidzo zvekuora mwoyo muvana vangave vachifunga kuti havana kunzwisisa kana vane mhosva; kuratidza kukosha kwekudzidzira; kurasikirwa nehanya nezvinhu zvekare zvaifarira; unxplained crying; kunamatira kumubereki, uye kuoma kuisa pfungwa kana kuita zvisarudzo.
Kunyange kana mwana wako asingagamuchiri mishumo yakaipa, taura nezvekuita kwekorosi yemwana wako nemudzidzisi wake. Inoti mwana wako anonyara kwazvo, haatauri mukirasi kana kuti anowanzoita hofisi yamukoti inogona kunge iri zviratidzo zvinonyevera zvinofanira kuongororwa zvakare. Uye kana zvichiita sokuti kuora mwoyo hakugadziri mwana wako uye kuti anongonyara chete, zvakakosha kuva nekutaurirana pamusoro penzira dzekunyaradza mwana wako mumutambo wekudzidza zvakawanda.
Zvakakosha kutaura nemwana wevana vako chero nguva paunoona zviratidzo zvekuora mwoyo. Kuziva nekubata kuora mwoyo kunokosha, kunyanya kuvana.
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