Kuvhiringidzika uye kutsamwa zvinoputira mitsvuku
Tichifunga kuti kuora mwoyo kunogona kutanga muhuduku, vabereki vane hanya vanowanzobvunza kana kune nyevero zviratidzo zvekuora mwoyo kutarisa muvana vavo vaduku.
Maererano nekuongorora mu Journal of Clinical Child uye Adolescent Psychology , kusiyana kwakasiyana kwepfungwa kwakaratidzwa muzvidzidzo zvekare vana vakanga vakaora mwoyo kana kuti pangozi yekudzidzira zviratidzo, uye vana vakanga vasina.
Kupindira zviratidzo, zvakadai sekunyara kwakanyanya uye kunyunyuta kusinganzwisisiki, kunobatanidza nekunetseka kwezviratidzo kune vamwe vana.
Mukudzidza kwavo vane makore matatu kusvika kune mashanu, vakaona kuti vakadzvinyirirwa uye vari pangozi vakomana vakaratidza kutsamwa kupfuura rimwe boka rimwe rekudzidza uye avo vakaora mwoyo uye vari pangozi vasikana vakaratidza kusuruvara kukuru.
Izvi zvinokurudzira kuti zviratidzo zvekutanga zvekunyevera zvinogona kunge zviripo munguva yekushungurudzika kwevana. Uyezve, zvinoratidza kuti izvi zvinopesana nemasikana nevasikana.
Zvimwe Zvokuratidza Zviratidzo Zvokuora Mwoyo
Vabereki vanofanira kuziva zvimwe zviratidzo zvekuora mwoyo zvinogona kuonekwa muvana vaduku. Vana vaduku havakwanisi kutaura zvavanonzwa kunze kwevana vakuru kana vakuru. Panzvimbo pezvo, vanogona kunamatira kumubereki uye vanoramba kuparadzana nokuda kwekutya chimwe chinhu chakaipa chinoitika, nguva dzose vachigunun'una zvirwere zvisinganzwisisiki zvisingabatsiri, kana kuramba kuenda kuchikoro kana kubva kumba.
Vabereki, vadzidzisi kana vatarisi vanogona kumhan'udza kuti mwana "haazviratidzi saiye."
Kusiyana nevanhu vakuru, uko kunetseka kwepfungwa uye anhedonia ndiyo inonyanya kukonzera kufungidzirwa kwekuora mwoyo, kusagadzikana chiratidzo chinokosha chekuora mwoyo kwevana uye chaizvoizvo chinokonzera kuongororwa kwehutano hwevana, maererano neDMM-IV .
Kukanganisika kunogona kuuya nenzira yekutsamwa, kutsamwa kusina kunaka, kana kungoita mafungiro asina kunaka.
Anhedonia, kana kusakwanisa kuwana rufaro, inonyanya kuwirirana nokuora mwoyo uye inogona kujekeswa zvakajeka nezera 3. Kuvana, anhedonia inoratidzirwa nekushaya kukwanisa kufara nemakore ekufananidzira.
Zvaungaita Kana Iwe Waine Hanya
Kana iwe uchifunga kuti mwana wako muduku ane zviratidzo zvekuora mwoyo, enda kumwana wake wevana pakutanga. Chiremba anokwanisa kutonga kunze kwehupi hutano hwepanyama hunogona kuisa zviratidzo zvake.
Kana chirwere chepanyama chave chichidzingwa, ita kuti mwana wako aongororwe nenyanzvi yehutano hwepfungwa uyo akadzidziswa kushanda nevana uye kubata zvirwere zvepfungwa. Nyanzvi ichaongorora mwana wako uye ichatsvaga kuongororwa kwakakodzera uye, kana zvichidiwa, kurapwa .
Kuzivikanwa kwokutanga kwekuora mwoyo kunonyanya kukosha, kunyanya kuvana. Kurapa kunobudirira kunogona kuderedza kuoma kwemwana wenguva yekuora mwoyo.
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