Chii Chinonzi Kuparara Kwepabonde uye Nei Vanhu Vasingazvitauri?
Kubva pakuwa kwegore ra2016, United States Bureau of Justice Statistics (BJS) inotsanangura kurwisa kwepabonde se:
Izvo zvakasiyana-siyana zvekushungurudzwa, zvakaparadzana nekubata kana kuedza kubatwa. Iyi mhaka inosanganisira kurwiswa kana kuedza kurwisana kunowanzobatanidza kusabatwa kwepabonde kusingadikanwi pakati pomunhu anenge apomerwa uye mutadzi. Kushungurudzwa kwepabonde kungave kana kusanganisa kushanda uye kunosanganisira zvinhu zvakadai sokubata kana kufambisa. Kurwisa zvepabonde kunosanganisira kutyisidzira mazwi.
Kubata, iyo inotsanangurwa sekumanikidzirwa mumuromo, kumudzimai, kana kupinda mukati, inorongwa sehupombwe hwakasiyana nekuda kwezvikonzero zvepamutemo uye zvinyorwa. Saka vanoedza kubata chibharo. Zvisinei, munhaurirano dzakawanda dzakakurumbira, kubata chibharo uye kuedza kubata chibharo kunofungidzirwa sechikamu chekushungurudzwa kwepabonde. Zvose zvinosanganisira kugonana pasina kubvumirwa.
Muna 2014, gore rapfuura iyo US inounganidza nhamba dzehupfumi, vanhu 284.350 vakataura kubatwa kana kurwisa zvepabonde kumapurisa. Anopfuura mamiriyoni mamwe akaparidzira chiitiko chechisimba chemuzinda kana hukama hwepedyo hwemhirizhonga. Nhamba idzodzo dzisinganzwisisiki shoma kudarika nhamba chaiyo yekurwisa. Muna 2014, BJS inofungidzira kuti chete chikamu chimwe chete pazvikamu zvitatu zvekubata nekupambwa kwepabonde zvakapiwa mapurisa.
Kunyange zvazvo vazhinji vanopunyuka zvepabonde vari vakadzi, varume vari pangozi yekurwiswa zvepabonde. BJS inofungidzira kuti pakati pe 1992-2000, 11 muzana yekushungurudzwa kwepabonde kwakawanikwa nevarume, pamwe ne 9 muzana yekuedza uye 6 muzana yekubata chibharo.
Munyika yose, vatsvakurudzi vanofungidzira kuti 20 kubva muzana yevakadzi uye 4 muzana yevarume vachave vakaurayiwa kana vakaedza kubatwa chibharo.
Nei Vanhu Vasingatauri Maitiro
Kutsvakurudza kunoratidza kuti huwandu hwevanhu vanoona kurwisana kwepabonde havazombotauri kune imwe nhengo yepamutemo. Sei? Kune zvikonzero zvakawanda zvinoita kuti vanhu vasapindura.
Izvi zvinosanganisira:
- Stigma uye Mhosva. Vamwe vakapukunyuka vanotya kuti vachatongwa mhosva yavo pachavo. ("Iwe haufaniri kunge uchinwa." "Sei waifunga kubuda woga kwaiva pfungwa yakanaka?") Aya mashoko anogona kubva kune shamwari dzinofanirwa kushamwaridzana nemhuri. Inogonawo kubva kune vashandi vehutano, vashandi vomutemo, kana kururamisira.
Stigma inonyanya kukoshesa varume vanopona kurwisa. Vangave vachitya kuonekwa sevasina simba kana kuti ivo vanoita zvepabonde vanobvunzwa. Iko kufungidzira kwekuita chibharo kunorayira kuti varume vanofanira kuda zvepabonde nguva dzose. Somunhu akadaro, murume akave akarwiswa zvikwereti kunzi "kwete munhu zvakakwana." Izvozvo zvinogona kunzwa sechirwere chepiri, shure kwekurwa. - Kwete Kuona Nyaya. Vakawanda vanopona havaoni chinangwa chokupa. Ruramisiro haina hurumende yakasimba yekuranga zvakajeka vanoparadza zvepabonde. Sezvo zvakadaro, vakapukunyuka vanogona kuona kubudiswa sechimwe chinhu chinokanganisa kuvaisa kukutonga pasina zvakawanda. Vangave vasingadi kuvanza ruzivo rwavo kakawanda, kunyanya kana vachikahadzika mukana wekururamisira.
- Shame. Dzimwe nguva vanopona vanonyara kana kunyara pamusoro pezvakaitika kwavari. Vanotya kutaura nezvechiitiko, kunyange neshamwari dzepedyo. Zvinogona kutora nguva yekupfuura, uye vamwe vanhu havaiti. Vakapukunyuka vanogonawo kunge vaine hanya kuti ruramisiro inogona kuongorora zvakaitika kwavari kuti "hazvina basa guru." Izvozvo zvinogona kutungamirira kuzvimhosva uye kuzvivanza.
- Kunetseka Pamusoro Pekuda. Vakapukunyuka vangave vakanyanya kufunganya nezvekuchengetedza hupombwe hwavo pane kuona kupindira kwepamutemo. Kuzivikanwa seumwe munhu akambosangana nekurwa kunogona kushungurudza mukati uye pachako. Kuzvimiririra kunogona kuva kunyanya kunetseka kune vanoita gay, lesbian, bisexual, uye vanopukunyuka. Vanhu veTransgender vanewo maitiro akawandisa ekurwisana kwepabonde kana vachienzanisa nevanosangana navo neCisgender.
Kune vaviri vanotora misha kubva kumusha kubva kune ino. Chokutanga ndechekuti Bureau yeBurumende Inoshushikanwa pamusoro pehuwandu hwekushungurudzwa kwepabonde gore roga roga inenge yakaderera zvakanyanya kudarika nhamba chaiyo yekurwa.
Chechipiri ndechokuti kunyorera kwakaoma zvikuru.
Kana mumwe munhu akauya kuzotaura newe pamusoro pekurwisana kwepabonde, teerera, uve nemutsa, uye kupa rubatsiro rwemweya. Usavaudza kuti vanofanira kuenda kumapurisa kana kuchipatara, asi vatsigire ivo kana vachida. Usaita hurukuro pamusoro pako kana kutarisa zvikonzero izvo kuitika kwaitika. Rega mupukunyutsi atungamirire hurukuro uye agadzire zvirongwa. Hapana imwe nzira yakarurama yekuita nechisimba.
Mafungiro ezvepfungwa zvekuita zvepabonde
Kushungurudzwa kwepabonde kwakaratidzwa kuva nemigumisiro yakareba kwenguva refu pamutano wehupenyu uye hupenyu. Havasi vose vanopona vachava nemigumisiro yakaipa, asi zvinetso zvinowanzoonekwa mushure mekurwa kwepabonde zvinosanganisira:
- Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder , kana PTSD
- Kushungurudzwa Kwemishonga, kazhinji sekuguma kwePTSD kana nzira yekugadzirisa zviratidzo.
- Kuzvidya mwoyo Kwechizvarwa
- Phobias
- Kuora mwoyo
- Matambudziko ane kubata zvepabonde, kusanganisira kurega zvepabonde kwenguva pfupi kana kwenguva refu
- Kushungurudzika Kwemagariro evanhu uye mamwe matambudziko nemagariro evanhu
- Somatic, kana hutano hwepanyama, zvinetso zvakadai semusoro, zvinetso zvemudumbu, uye kukanganiswa kwemisimba
Zvakawanda zvezviratidzo izvi zvinogona kugadziriswa kuburikidza nedambudziko rekutsvaga. Kune vamwe vanhu, mishonga inogonawo kukosha.
Izwi Rinobva: Basa rekusimbiswa kwemvumo
Munguva dzemusarudzo dzemutungamiri we 2016, Rush Limbaugh akataura paredhiyo yake:
Unoziva kuti shoko remashoko chii, chinhu chimwe chete chinonyanya kukosha muAmerica manzwiro epabonde nhasi? Chinhu chimwe. Iwe unogona kuita chero chinhu, kuruboshwe ruchasimudzira uye kunzwisisa uye kushivirira chero chinhu, chero bedzi pane imwe chinhu. Unoziva here kuti chii? Mvumo. Kana pane chibvumirano pane zvose zviri zviviri kana zvitatu kana zvina, kunyange zvakadaro vazhinji vanobatanidzwa mukuita zvepabonde, zvakanyatsonaka. Chero zvazviri. Asi kana kuruboshwe ruchinge ruchinzwa uye runofuta kuti hapana mubvumirano mune chikamu chekuenzanisa ipapo pano pano kuuya mapurisa ekubata. Asi kubvumirana ndiko kemashiripiti kuruboshwe. - Rush Limbaugh Show, Gumiguru 12, 2016 .
Akarurama. Kune vanhu vazhinji kuruboshwe, kubvumirana ndiyo inotsanangura mutemo wehutano hwakanaka. Pane chikonzero chakanaka cheizvozvo. Chero humwe humwe hutano hwepabonde, uye hunofanira kuva, mhosva. Rutivi rworuboshwe harufariri zvishoma pamusoro pevarume vevanhu vanoita zvepabonde kunze kwekuti munhu wose anobatanidza zvose anoda kuvapo uye ane simba rekuita chisarudzo. Zvakaoma kunzwisisa kuti nei munhu angafunga kuti icho chinhu chakaipa.
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