Kunzwisisa musiyano pakati pevamwe vanovimba uye vanozvimirira
Chimiro chinotaridzika ndechokusiyanisa kuri kuyerwa mune imwe kuedza. Semuenzaniso, mune chidzidzo chekutarisa kuti kudzidzisa kunobatsira sei kuedza chikoro, shanduko yakatarisa inenge iri yevadzidzi vanoedza kuongorora, sezvo ichi ndicho chiri kuyerwa.
Mukufungidzira kwepfungwa , vatsvakurudzi vari kutarisa kuti kuchinja kwechikonzero chakasiyana-siyana chinokonzerwa chinoshandiswa sei mumutauro wakasiyana.
Imwe nzira yekubatsira kuziva kushandiswa kwakatarisana ndeyekuyeuka kuti zvinoenderana nechazvimiririra zvakasiyana. Apo vanotsvakurudza vanochinja kune vanozvimiririra vanozvimiririra, ivo vanozoyera chero kuchinja kunokonzerwa nekusiyana kwakatarisana.
Somuenzaniso, kana muongorori akanga achitarisa kuti kudzidza kunobatsira sei kuverenga zviyero, kukosha kwekudzidza kwaizova kushanduka kuzvimiririra uye chikwata chekuedza chichange chichienderana nechimiro chinoenderana. Chiyero chezvikoro zvakasiyana-siyana zvichienderana nekuwanda kwekudzidza kusati kwaedza. Mutsvakurudzi aigona kuchinja kushanduka kuzvimiririra panzvimbo pane kuongorora kuti makore kana kuti chiremera chekuedza chikwidzi chipi.
Mherechedzo
Muzvizhinji zvepfungwa dzepfungwa uye zvidzidzo, zvakasiyana-siyana zvinoenderana nechimwe chechimwe chinhu chemuitiro wemubatiro. Mukuedza kuongororwa kuti kurara kunobatsira sei kuedza kupedza, shanduko yakatarisa yaizoongorora hutano nokuti inenge yeropa rwevatori vechiito.
Iyo yakasununguka yakasiyana inonzi yakasununguka nokuti vanoedza vanogona kushandura sezvavanoda. Chirevo chekuteerera chinonzi chichivimba nekuda kwekuti chinofungidzirwa kuti chinovimba mune imwe nzira pamusiyano wezvimwe zvakasiyana zvakasiyana.
Saka vanotsvakurudza vanoziva sei kuti zvingave zvakanaka zvakasiyana-siyana zvichange zviripo?
Kugadzikana kazhinji chiratidzo chechimiro chinotaridzika. Kana kuedza kwakafanana kunodzokororwa nevatori vayo, mamiriro, uye kuedza kushandiswa, zvinokonzerwa nekusiyana kunofanirwa kunofanira kuva pedyo zvikuru nezvaimbova nguva yekutanga.
Mienzaniso yezvimwe zvinoshandiswa uye zvinodzivirira
- Mukufungidzira kwepfungwa, vatsvakurudzi vanoda kuziva kana kuteerera mimhanzi yechikoro inobatsira vadzidzi kuwana mari yepamusoro pamatambudziko ekuongorora. Mumuenzaniso uyu, zvikwata pamusoro pematambudziko ezvidzidzo ndizvo zvinotaridzika zvinoenderana uye mimhanzi yepasitori ndiyo yakasiyana yakasiyana.
- Vanotsvakurudza vanofarira kuona kuti zvinotora nguva yakareba sei vanhu kuti vaite mhinduro dzakasiyana. Mumuenzaniso uyu, urefu hwenguva inotora vatori vechikamu kuti vapindure kumutsindo ndiko kushanduka kunobva, apo mhere-mhere iyi inoshandiswa yakasiyana.
- Vatsvakurudzi vanoda kuziva kana vana vakaberekerwa kutanga vanodzidza kutaura pazera duku kudarika vana vanoberekerwa muchipiri. Mumuenzaniso uyu, kushanduka kunobva kune imwe nguva iyo mwana anodzidza kutaura uye iyo yakasununguka yakasiyana ndeyekuti mwana ndiye wekutanga-kana wechipiri akaberekwa.
- Vanotsvakurudza vanofarira kutarisa kuti kushandiswa kwezvinodhaka kunobatsira sei kupindura nguva apo uchifambisa. Muwandu wewaini iyo inopindira inopindira ndiyo yakasununguka yakazvimirira, nepo kushanda kwavo pakutevedza kwekutsvaga ndiko kushandiswa kunoenderana.
> Sources:
> Kantowitz, BH, Roediger, HL, Elmes, DG. Ongororo yeMapfungwa. Belmont, CA: Wadsworth; 2009.
> Weiten, W. Psychology: Zvinyorwa uye Kusiyana. 9th ed. Belmont, CA: Wadsworth; 2013.