Iko 12 Tsika dzeAA neAl-Anon
Chiratidzo chezvikamu gumi nematanhatu zvekudzorera mapurogiramu chipo chekusaziviswa kune vatori vechikamu, asi mutemo unoenda zvakadzika kupfuura kungozarura mazita ekupedzisira. Iyi ndiyo tsika 12, " Kusingazivikanwi ndiyo nheyo yezvokunamata yeTsika dzedu dzose, iyo inogara ichiyeuchidza isu kuisa mitemo pamusoro pehupenyu hwevanhu."
Kuti urambe uchitarisa pamitemo panzvimbo pehupenyu hwako, kusazikanwa kwako pachako kunofanira kuchengetedzwa pamatunhu ose ekubatanidzwa mu 12-chiito chekudyidzana-mumisangano, mubasa rechigumi nematanhatu, uye kunyange mukusimbisa.
Kuzivikanwa hakuchengetedzi kwete kunyanya kuchengetedzwa kwemunhu seyekudzivirirwa kwegurogiramu. Kufungidzirwa kune avo vari purogiramu yemakambani gumi nemaviri kunopa maonero echinhu chinokosha chetsika iyi.
Kwete Simba revanhu
Maryann anounganidza Tsika yechigumi nemashoko aya, "Hapana simba revanhu raigona kutisunungura kubva kune doro redu." Anoti hakuna guru guru rinogona kukudzivisa kutora doro rekutanga. Vanhu muAncolics Anonymous vanofanira kuisa kuisa vatsigiri vavo kana kuti mazano kumhanho, kuti vaone kuregerera kusingadzivisiki. "Purogiramu iyi ndeye 'isu' pane zvikonzero zvakawanda. Kuremekedza munhu hakungotambudzi vateveri asi kunotevera."
A Kuzvininipisa Kwechokwadi
Chuck anocherechedza kuti iyo yakareba iyo yeTsika yegumi nembiri inotaura kuti kusingazivikanwe kunyeuchidza nhengo kuti iite tsika yekuzvininipisa zvechokwadi. Paunopinda mumusangano , unobva "zvaunenge uri" pamukova uye unofamba iwe "iwe ndiwe ani." Izvi zvinoshandura mumitambo yekusashandisa honifics.
Mutongi haasi "Ishe wako" pamusangano. Muprista haasi "Baba." Zvose zvakaenzana, uye zvose zvinongova kunwa kumwe chete nekudhakwa.
"Tinoshandisa tsika iyi nekuda kwezvikonzero zvitatu: saka tinogona kunyatsotevedzera kuzvininipisa kwechokwadi, saka hatizvikwanisi isu (takaparadzwa), kuitira kuti tigone kugara tichionga mupfungwa," Chuck anoti.
Hapana mumwe mupfumi kana murume murombo, vose vakaenzana. Iwe uri kure zvakadini nedzidzo yako, kana kubudirira kwako uri muhupenyu hakubatsiri pane zvaunogona kuwana kubva kune zvaunokwanisa kuita muchirongwa. Mary anoti, "Isu tose tinoremekedzwa vadzidzi veYunivhesiti yeHud Knocks, vakagara pamapfudzi."
Nheyo dzekutanga
Tsika 12 inoreva kuti mazano epurogiramu gumi nemaviri inofanira kuiswa pakutanga, kwete maonero evanhu. Althea anotaura kuti iri kuedza kutsauka kubva pamitemo kana mumwe munhu waunofarira uye achiremekedza ari kukuvadza. Asi pakuita kudaro, iwe unorega zvishoma zvedzidziso dzako zvipere, uye purogiramu yacho inorasikirwa zvishoma zvayo nheyo yayo. "Ndicho chikonzero nei tichifanira kuva nerudo rusingaverengeki pamitemo-saka tinogona kudanana tisingadikanwi.Rudo irworwo runobva pakutora matambudziko ekuzorora pamitemo panzvimbo pokupa uye kutamba Mwari. kuti ikure muchokwadi cheAA huchenjeri tinovabvumira kuti vateerere ivo pachavo.Iyo inogona kuonekwa seinobatsira, asi inongova yakanganisa uye isina rudo kune mumwe munhu sezvazviri kuAA pane yose. "
Kutakura Mharidzo
Nokusava kushandisa zita rako rekupedzisira, Lyn anotaura kuti purogiramu yacho haisi yevanhu vasingazivikanwe purogiramu, asi iyi ndiyo "isu" purogiramu.
Panzvimbo pokuva mharidzo, iwe uri kutakura shoko racho . Kana zvisina kudaro, kushushikana kwako kune pangozi, uye ndizvo zvakaita AA seyakazara.