Mikana ndeyokuti une kakombiyuta imwechete neIndaneti kuwanikwa mumba mako, izvo mwana wako anoshandisa kuti afare uye adzidze. Kunyange iwe ungave wakangwarira kuongorora kushandiswa kwemwana wako nekudzivirira kusvikiswa kwezvinhu zvisina kukodzera, iwe unogona kunge usingazivi kuti Internet inodheerera - cyberbullying - inogona kuitika kuburikidza nemamerica ari nyore, mharidzo pfupi kana kuti kutumirwa kunogadzirwa nevamwe.
Kufanana nedzimwe nzira dzokudheerera, zvinokonzera kukanganisa kwakafanana nekuora mwoyo uye kuzviuraya nemafungiro zvakange zvakabatana neukombiyuta, maererano naDean Jeff Hutchinson, nyanzvi yezvechirwere chekuyaruka muWashington, DC
Nenzira yakanaka, kuziva kwako uye kungwarira kunogona kuchengetedza mwana wako kuchengeteka kubva pahuyberbullying.
Kushungurudzika Kwakaita Sei Vana
Vanoshungurudzwa neukombiyuta vanogona kuona zviratidzo zvekuora mwoyo kusanganisira kushungurudzika, kusurukirwa, kusachengeteka, kusazviremekedza, kudzidzira kudzidza, manzwiro ekusava evanhu uye kuzviuraya nemafungiro. Nancy Willard, munyori weCyberbullying uye Cyberthreats: Kupindura Dambudziko reIndaneti Kushungurudzika Kwevanhu, Kutyisidzira, uye Kutambudzika , zvinoratidza kuti migumisiro yehuyudbullying inogona kuva yakanyanya kukuvadza kudarika kushungurudza kwekuchikoro nokuti cyberbullied vana havana mukana wekupukunyuka kunetswa . Pamusana pekusazivikanwa kwechimwe chekutambudzwa kweInternet, vashandi vangave vasingakwanisi kuziva avo vanotambudza uye vanonzwa kuti munhu wese anorwisana navo.
Kukurukurirana Kwakanyanya Sei?
Dr. Michele Ybarra uye vashandi pamwe chete vakabudisa chidzidzo chekutambudzwa kweInternet pakati pevana muPediatrics muna 2007; vanenge 9 muzana yevana mukudzidza kwavo avo vakashandisa Indaneti vakaurayiwa mune imwe nzira yekutambudzwa kweInternet.
Mukudzidza kwavo, vakatsvakurudza vakaona kuti hafu yevakashungurudzika yaiziva vaivhiringidza uye kuti vakomana nevanasikana vaibatanidzwawo zvakafanana.
Inenge 25% yevana vakanga vari cyberbullied vakanyadziswawo mune imwe nzvimbo yakasiyana. Zvinofadza kuti vakaona kuti matambudziko ekushungurudzwa paIndaneti yakawedzera zvikuru kune avo vaitambudzawo vamwe.
Kurwisa Kushandura Kwekunyunyuta
Tungamira paIndaneti kutambudzwa kunoitika apo munhu anodheerera anoratidza utsinye kune mumwe munhu zvakananga kana kuburikidza ne email, pakarepo mameseji, mharidzo dzehurukuro kana masvingo emadziro. Izvi zvinogona kubva pane kunyomba kutaura kune zvingangoita zvechisimba zvemuviri.
Cyberbullying neProxy
Kushandiswa kwepabonde neproxy kunowanikwa apo munhu anoshandisa kero yewemumwe munhu kana zita rekushandisa kana kuti akasika nhoroondo yekunyengedzera kuti atambudze munhu akabatwa. Munhu anodheerera angangosangana nemunhu wese mubhuku rake rekero uye anoparadzira nhema, mashoko anonyangadza, kana kuti kuratidza kufambidzana kana ruzivo rwemunhu oga pamusoro pemunhu akabatwa. Mune zvimwe zviitiko, mawebsite akazvitsaurira pakushungurudza uye kupisa munhu akasika. Muchiitiko chekunyorwa kwekombiyuta kuburikidza neproxy, munhu anenge atambura angave asingakwanisi kuziva uyo anotambudza.
Vabereki Vangaitei?
Taura nevana vako nezvemaitiro eIndaneti akakodzera, uye kurukurai mhinduro yekushandisa zvisina kunaka. Chengeta kushandiswa kwemwana wako uye nguva yakashandiswa paInternet. Kuchengeta kombiyuta munzvimbo imwe chete kunogona kuderedza muedzo wokuita basa risina kunaka.
Dr. Parry Aftab, gweta revana uye muchengeti wevana kuti vakwanise kushandiswa kweIndaneti, zvinokurudzira kutsvaga zita remwana wenyu paInternet kuti vaone chokwadi chisina kunaka kana chenhema chisina kutumirwa, kana kuti mwana wenyu haabatanidzwi nekutambudza zviri mukati.
Kana kushungurudza tsika, kushungurudzwa kana kushandiswa zvisina kunaka kunozivikanwa, zivisa webhusaiti kana kuburitswa kwekutsvaga pakarepo kuti uone kana vachigona kubatsira kupedza kuongorora muchiitiko chacho. Taura nemapurisa kana mwana wako ari kutaurirwa kana kunetswa nemunhu mukuru, kana zvipingamupinyi zvipi zvinopesana nemwana wako, kana kana kuedza kuvhara kushungurudzwa kwakundikana.
Kuudza chikoro chevana vako nezvekushandiswa kwepabonde kunogonawo kubudirira kana munhu anodheerera achigona kuonekwa.
Kana ukacherechedza zviratidzo zvekuora mwoyo mumwana wako, taura nachiremba wake. Chiremba anogona kugona kuti mwana wako ane kuora mwoyo uye anokurudzira kurapa kwakakodzera.
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Michele L. Ybarra, MPH, Ph.D., Marie Diener-West, Ph.D., naFirip J. Leaf, Ph.D. "Kuongorora Kubatwa KweInternet Kushorwa uye Chikoro Kudzvinyirira: Zvinoreva Chikoro Kupindira." Nyaya Yevana Vechidiki Utano 2007, 41: S42-S50.
Nancy E. Willard. "Cyberbully uye Cyberthreats: Kupindura Dambudziko reIndaneti Kushungurudzwa Kwevanhu, Kutyisidzira, uye Kutambudzika. Research Research. 2007.
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