Muhutano hwemagariro evanhu , nzira yakaratidzwa yekuongorora inofungidzirwa seimwe yezvinovhiringidza pakuvandudzika kwehana-pfungwa . Izwi rinoreva kushanda kwatingafungidzira kuti vamwe vanhu vanotiona sei. Muzviitiko zvakawanda, nzira yatinotenda kuti vamwe vanotiziva ndiyo nzira yatinozviona isu pachedu.
Kunyatsoongorora
Isu tose tinotonga pamusoro pevanhu, zvinhu, uye zviitiko munyika inotitenderedza.
Isuwo tinoziva kuti vamwe vanhu vanotonga pamusoro pedu . Funga nezvekupedzisira nguva yawakaenda kumutambo. Iwe zvichida wakapedza nguva yakawanda uchigadzirira, kusarudza zvipfeko zvaungapfekedza uye nezvimwe zvinhu zvekuonekwa kwako. Kana uchinge uri pamutambo, iwe unobva waziva kuti vamwe vanhu vari kutora iwe uripo uye kutonga pamusoro pekusaita iwe chete, asi kuti unozvipa sei, unhu hwako uye kunyange zvaunofarira.
Yaiva nyanzvi yezvemagariro evanhu Charles H. Cooley uyo akatanga kurondedzera kuti nzira yakaratidzwa yekuongorora yakaita sei mukufunga kwake kwekuona girazi. Cooley akaratidza kuti pfungwa yemunhu pachake inomuka kubva pakunzwisisa kwake kwekuti iye anoonekwa sei nevamwe. Maererano neiyi pfungwa, kushamwaridzana kwevanhu vanoita basa rinokosha mukukudziridza manzwiro ega. Nyanzvi yezvepfungwa Harry Stack Sullivan ndiye wokutanga kushandisa izwi racho rakaratidza kuongororwa mumabhuku ake muna 1953 The Interpersonal Theory of Psychiatry .
Maitiro Aya Maitiro Anokubata Sei
Pane zvinhu zvakasiyana-siyana zvinogona kukanganisa kuti zvakasimba izvi zvinoratidzira sei kuongorora zvinogona kuita kuti munhu azviongorore. Semuenzaniso, vanhu vanowanzotarisana nekutongwa kwakapiwa nemumwe munhu anonzi akavimbika kwazvo. Fungidzira kuti iwe unoshuva unyanzvi uye kuti iwe unenge uine yako yekutanga gallery inoratidza yunivhesiti yemo.
Mumwe wevanyori vako vanokoshesa zvikuru anotarisa basa rako uye anopa kuongorora kunopenya. Sezvo iwe uchiona munhu uyu sechinhu chakakosha zvikuru, kukurudzira kunotakura huwandu hwakawandisa kudarika kana hwakapiwa nemumwe musingazivi kunze kwemugwagwa.
Kuwana kuongororwa kwakafanana kubva kune zvakasiyana-siyana kunogonawo kutora chikamu pakunyatsosimbiswa kwemunhu wacho nekuita. Kana iwe uchigamuchira rumbidzo kubva kune anozivikanwa munharaunda yevanyori, kubva kumaprofesa ane unyanzvi hukuru kuYunivhesiti uye mutsoropodhi wemuongorori wemunharaunda, chiyero chezvinhu izvi zvose zvingangodaro zvinogona kutakura kuwedzera uye kuve nekukwanisa kukuru pane zvaunofunga.
Ukama hwemhuri hunogonawo kuita basa mukuratidzwa kwekuenzanisira kunokonzera manzwiro pamusoro pezvako. Semuenzaniso, vana vanokura nevabereki vanogara vachipa maonero akanaka uye anotsigira zvichave nyore kuti vawane pfungwa yakasimba yega pachavo uye zviri nani kuzviremekedza sezvavanokura. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, kutendeseka kunoenderera mberi kunobatsira mune maitiro aya anoongororwa anoonekwa. Kururamisira kwakanaka kubva kumubereki kunotakura kukura kupfuura kuongororwa kubva kumunun'una wechidiki.