Chikonzero nei zvakakosha kuva vakatendeseka munguva yekukurukurirana
Kana ukasarudza kutaura nezvekuora mwoyo nemwana wako, unogona kuva nehanya nekutaura chinhu chakanaka. Zvisinei, kungova nehurukuro yakazaruka uye yakatendeseka nemwana wako inogona kumupa rubatsiro runodikanwa. Nevamwe mazano, vabereki vane hanya nevanotarisira vanogona kutaura nechivimbo pamusoro pekuora mwoyo nevana vavo.
Chengetedza Hurukuro Yacho Yakakodzera
Iwe unoda kuve nechokwadi chokuti mwana wako anonzwisisa zvauri kutaura uye haasi kuvhiringidzika kana kuvhiringidzwa nehurukuro.
Iva nechokwadi chokuti uri kushandisa mazwi ayo mwana wako anogona kunzwisisa. Mashoko akadai sokuti "kuora mwoyo" kana kuti "kugadzikana mupfungwa" zvichida zvakanyanya kuoma kumwana muduku asi zvingave zvakakodzera mwana akwegura kana kuti wechidiki . Edza kuenzanisa kuora mwoyo kune chimwe chinhu icho mwana wako atoziva - sechimwe chirwere icho mwana wako akave nacho (semuenzaniso, chirwere, utachiona hwekunzwa, etc.)
Chengetai Mharidzo Yakanaka
Kuchengeta kuora mwoyo kwako kukurukurirana hakurevi kuti iwe unofanirwa kushuga-kupfeka. Kushungurudzika chirwere chakakomba chinokonzera kurwadziwa mupfungwa uye mumuviri , uye kunogona kuva nemigumisiro yakakomba . Zvisinei, kana ukaramba uine maonero akanaka uye ane tariro mune zvamunokurukura, iwe uchadzivisa kusingabatsiri mwana wako.
Taura chokwadi
Mukutaura nezvekuora mwoyo, usaita zvivimbiso zvausingagoni kuchengetedza kana kupinda mune tsanangudzo pamusoro pemisoro yausingazivi. Pane kudaro, udza mwana wako zvaunenge uchiziva, uye nyora mhinduro yemibvunzo yekukurukurirana nemwana wako wehutano hwepfungwa.
Iva Netsitsi
Mwana wako anoda kuziva kuti unoziva uye unoremekedza manzwiro ake. Kunyange kana iwe usinganyatsonzwisisi pfungwa dzake, usatuka, "Iwe unofanirwa kuora mwoyo nezvei?" kana kuti "Usanyengera." Mhinduro dzakadai sezvikonzero zvinokonzera mwana kuchengetedza manzwiro ake kwaari kana kudzivirira.
Iva Akateerera Zvakanaka
Rega mwana wako ataure pachena uye aratidze mafungiro ake nemafungiro ake. Usapindira, kutonga kana kumuranga pamanzwiro ake. Kuziva kuti ane mumwe munhu waanogona kutaura naye kuti abatsire kuronga manzwiro ake.
Paunenge uchitaura nemwana wako nezvekuora mwoyo kwake kunogona kuva chikamu chakakosha chekudzikinura, haisi kutora chido chekurapa . Kana mwana wako akaora mwoyo kana iwe uchifungidzira kuora mwoyo , bvunza vanachiremba kana vana vamwe vehutano hwepfungwa kuti vakwanise kuongororwa uye kurapwa.
Sources:
Manzwiro Anodiwa Tarisa Kuona Ups Too. American Academy of Pediatrics.
Kukurukura Nevana Vako. American Academy of Pediatrics. https://www.healthychildren.org/English/family-life/family-dynamics/communication-discipline/Pages/Components-of-Good-Communication.aspx
Kushungurudzika muAmerica: Kukurukura Nevana Vako Nezvekutambudzika. American Psychological Association: http://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/stress-talking.pdf