Zvikonzero zvepamusoro zvekutora kurapwa kwevana vako vakaora mwoyo
Kana iwe uri mubereki wemwana ane kuora mwoyo, ungashamisika kuti zvinokonzerwa sei nekuora mwoyo uye kana kurapwa kwakakosha. Ichokwadi ndechokuti kuora mwoyo kunogona kukanganisa migumisiro yakaipa kune vechidiki, kunyanya kana yakasara isina kutorwa .
Mwana Wose Akasiyana
Zvakakosha kuziva izvi, kunyange zvazvo vana vose vane dambudziko rekurwadziwa vanotambura nemarwadzo ekurwadziwa kwechiitiko chacho, havasi vana vose vane kuora mwoyo vanozoona zvose zvingangova nemigumisiro yakaipa.
Hapana nzira yakarurama yekuziva kuti vana vachaenda kupi kuti vazviwane uye izvo zvisingakwanisi. Sezvo zvakadaro, zvakakosha kuziva nekubata chero zviratidzo zvekuora mwoyo kwevana nekukurumidza.
Migumisiro Yokudengenyeka?
Migumisiro yekuora mwoyo inobva pakuderera kusvika kune yakaoma uye inogona kuonekwa makore mushure mekunetseka kwechiitiko, kunyanya kana kusiyiwa kusati kwaitwa.
- Ukama Matambudziko: Vana vane kuora mwoyo vanogona kutanga kurega neshamwari kana mhuri. Vangaita sevasina hanya kune vamwe kana kuvatsamwisa. Zvinosuruvarisa, izvi zvinogona kutungamirira pakurasikirwa kwehukama, kuoma kuumba nekuchengetedza hukama hutsva uye kukwanisa kubatanidzwa muhukama husina kunaka kana hutsinye.
- Kudzokorora Kuora Mwoyo: Vana vane chirwere chekuora mwoyo, kunyanya avo vane kusaora mwoyo kusina kutendeuka, vanowanzoona zviitiko zvekuora mwoyo zvinowanzoitika kana kuti kuwedzera humwe hutano hwepfungwa.
- Dambudziko-Kutora uye Kusakanganiswa Maitiro : Vana vakaora mwoyo vanogona kuita mitezo yavanenge vachidzivisa nokuti inengozi. Izvi zvinogona kusanganisira kutyaira kusina maturo, kuparadza, kuputsa mitemo kuchikoro kana kuti kupinda mune dambudziko nemutemo.
- Kudhakwa Kwemishonga: Kune vamwe, kushandisa zvinodhaka kunogona kuva nzira yekuzvidzivirira nayo kuti unzwe zviri nani kana "zvakajairika." Kushandisa zvinodhaka nekuda kwekushungurudzika kwevana zvinowanzotanga mukuyaruka asi kunotanga kusvitsa makore gumi.
- Kudzidza Kusarura uye Kukundikana: Chiratidzo chinowanzoitwa nehutano hwehuduku ndechekudzikira. Kana izvi zviripo uye kuora mwoyo kwomwana kunoramba kusingateereri, dambudziko rinowedzera kuwedzera uye kuva rakaoma kupora kubva.
- Kuzviuraya Mafungiro Uye Maitiro Anonyanya Kuita * : Ngozi yakakomba yekuora mwoyo ndeyokuzviuraya. Manzwiro ekusava netariro, kusurukirwa uye kusakosha zvinogona kutungamirira kufunga kwekuzviuraya.
Nzira Yokubatsira Mwana Akaora Mwoyo
Zvose izvi zvinotyisa uye kuverenga pamusoro pavo pamwe chete zvinogona kunge zvichinyanyisa kuvabereki vemwana akaora mwoyo. Asi yeuka kuti haasi mwana wose achaona zvakasarudzwa pamusoro apa nekudzivirira mwana wako nekukurumidza kunogona kuderedza dambudziko rake. Pane zvakawanda zvinoshandiswa pakurapa izvo zvinoratidzirwa zvakachengeteka uye zvinobudirira pakuderedza uye kubvisa kuora mwoyo kwevana.
Taura nemwana wevana vako kana vamwe vanopa utano hwepfungwa pamusoro pekugona kurapa mwana wenyu. Kana usina chokwadi kana mwana wako akaora mwoyo asi ane zvinetso, zvakanakisisa kutaurirana nevana vake. Zvinogona kuva zvakaoma kuziva zvakajeka mwana wako ari kufunga kana kunzwa, asi nguva dzose zviri nani kuva wakachengeteka kana zvasvika pakurarama kwemwana wako.
* Kana mwana wako kana mumwe munhu waunoziva ari kufunga kuzviuraya, taura ne National Suicide Prevention Lifeline pa1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255).
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