Nhamba uye maonero ekuita bonhora mumba
Pane jekwe rekare rinoti 98 muzana yevanhu vose vanoita bonhora - uye 2 muzana vanotaura zvisina kudaro vari kureva nhema. Asi maererano nekuongorora kwakaitwa 2009 neYunivhesiti yeCichicago, iyo nhamba inenge iri kure-pamwe kana ivo vakapindura vari kutaura chokwadi. Nhamba yacho yaiva 61 muzana yevarume uye 38 muzana yevakadzi mune iyo tsvakurudzo. Zvechokwadi, yakaitwa mukati-munhu uye hapana ruzivo rwakapiwa kuti kana vakapindura vakaroorana, mune hukama hwakagadzikana kana vasina kuroorwa.
Saka Vakawanda Vakaroorana Vanhu Vanoita Masturbate?
Nzvimbo yeWebmarriageBwebhu yepaIndaneti yakatora sarudzo isina kurongwa muna 2013, ichibvunza kuti kazhinji vapinduri vakange vaita sei "kuzvidzora kumeso kana kuti kwete nemumwe wako." Vanenge 85 kubva muzana yevarume vakapindura vakati vakange vaine masturbated pasi pemashoko aya mukati memwedzi mitatu yapfuura. Vese vanenge 15 kubva muzana vaifunga kuti madzimai avo aiziva nezvazvo, asi 17 muzana kana zvakadaro vakange vakanyatsoziva kuti madzimai avo akanga asina clueless.
Chii Chinokuvadza?
Basa iri rinokuvadza kumubatanidzwa wewanano here? Psychology Nhasi yakatarisa mukati maro uye yakawana muchidimbu kuti kuita bonhora kunogutsa pasina kana mumwe wako kana mumwe wacho asingadi kana asingakwanisi kuita zvepabonde. Asi vakaroorana vasingabatanidzi nenyaya yekuita bonhora zvisinei nhoroondo isingafadzi kana vakawana zvavanenge vaita. Vanowanzozvipa mhosva, kunyange zvazvo kwete nenzira yaungatarisira. Panzvimbo pokureva kuti mhirizhonga yavo kune ivo pachavo isingadi kana kuti havagoni kuita zvepabonde, vanowanzofungidzira kuti mumwe wavo kana mudzimai wake anonhuwa kana kuti asina kufara nazvo.
Kunyange zvakadaro Psychology Nhasi zvisingarevi kutsvaga tsvakurudzo inoratidza kuti bonhora muhukama hwakanaka . Haisi "mumiririri anoshayiwa simba," asi pane kukurumidza kuita zvimwe zvepabonde zvepabonde, kunyanya mumichato umo mumwe mukadzi asingagadziri pane chimwe chikonzero kana chimwe. WebMD inotsanangura David Schnarch, Ph.D., mutungamiri weMuchato uye Family Health Centre muYevergreen, Colorado, sekutsanangura.
"Kune vamwe vakaroorana, kupesana. Kune vamwe, hazvisi."
Chii Chakanaka Pamusoro Pacho?
Kudzivirira Magazini inoti kuita bonhora kunoderedza kushungurudzika uye kunokurudzira kuzvigutsikana, uye zvose zviri zviviri zvinogona kuita kuti pave nomufaro mukuru uye unogutsikana muchato . Iyo magazini inotsigira zvakakwana tsika yacho, zvichiratidza kuti haibatsiri zvakanyanya libido asi zvinokurudzira. Inogonawo kutungamirira kune kuzvitsvaga-chimwe chinhu, chinogona kupararira muhutano hwepabonde.
Saka zvakadini nevaya vakaroorana vasingati vari papeji imwe chete kana zvichiuya pakutsvaga nguva yakafanana yepabonde? Chii chinoitika kana iwe uchitora pfungwa yekutengesa kunze kwaro? Kudzivirira Magazini inotaura kuti kuita bonhora kunogona kunge iri mhinduro yakakwana kune dambudziko iroro nokuti mhandara inenge isina kunyengera. Iye ari kuichengeta pamba, uye icho chinhu chakanaka.
Uye ngatitarisei, ndiani asinganzwi zviri nani pashure pokugutsikana zvepabonde, kana iri solo kana mutendi? Kana ichibvisa nyaya dzepabonde nematambudziko kubva mumuchato, izvo zvinogona kuva chinhu chakanaka. Zvichipa pfungwa idzi dzinopesana uye kutsvakurudza, zvingangove kuti zvose zvinosvika pakuona iwe pachako.