Kuziva kusvitsa mumwe munhu mubhizinesi uye mumagariro evanhu ndiko unyanzvi hunokosha hwehutano hwausingafaniri kukanganwa. Sei zviyamuro zvichikosha? Vanokubatsira kuti usvike pakuziva vanhu uye kuisa vamwe vakasununguka .
Nenzira yakanaka, kuziva kuti kuunza vanhu kunowedzera sei nekuita. Pasi pane matanho mana akaita kuti uite zvinyorwa.
1. Kutanga, sarudza kuti ndiani anofanira kuiswa kune uyo .
Zita remunhu mukuru kana wepamusoro wepamusoro munhu anofanira kutanga ataurwa.
Semuyenzaniso:
"Dr. Jones, ndinoda kukutaurira shamwari yangu, John."
Apo zvimwe zvinhu zvose zvakaenzana, zita romunhu waunoziva zviri nani unofanira kutanga kutaurwa. Mune bhizimisi mamiriro ezvinhu, muteresi anogara achionekwa sepamusoro. Pambambo, vaenzi vanofanira kugara vachiziviswa kune muenzi wokuremekedzwa.
3. Kana usiri mumamiriro ezvinhu asina kunaka, shandisa mazita ekupedzisira uye ekupedzisira, uyewo mazita akadai se "Dr." kana zvakakodzera. Kana munhu wauri kumuudza ane ukama kwauri, igovera izvi nevamwe.
Semuyenzaniso:
"Edith Smith, ndinoda kuti unosangana naNatalie Jones." (Edith anopfuura Natalie)
"Mutungamiri Trump, ndinoda kuudza murume wangu Paul Brown."
4. Muboka rinenge rakadai sepaseka, taurira munhu kuboka kutanga. Somuenzaniso, "David, ava ndivo shamwari dzangu Steve, John, Elizabeth, naNatasha.
Munhu wose, uyu ndiye Dhavhidhi. "
Mhedziso yakafanana neizvi inofanira kuitirwa boka revanhu vatanhatu. Kana pane vanhu vanopfuura vatanhatu varipo, ingoita zvinyorwa kune avo vari pedyo kana avo avo munhu achagara naye. Iwe haufaniri kutotungamirira mumwe munhu kumativi ekamuri kuita zvinyorwa.
5. Kazhinji, kana iwe uchitaurirwa kune mumwe munhu zvinoremekedza kuti "Iwe uri sei?" Kana ari mumwe wawakamboudzwa nezvazvo, iwe unogona kugovera mazano mumigwagwa ye "Waka-uye-saka akandidzidzisa zvakawanda pamusoro pako."
Kana mumwe munhu akakanganwa kukuzivisai, taurira iwe uye tsanangura kuti unoziva sei mukuru wacho kana iwe uri pamutambo. Mune bhizimusi zvirongwa, kuwedzera ruoko rwako rwekubata ruoko kunonyanya kukodzera kana iwe uri munhu akakwirira mumamiriro maviri. Zvakanaka zvakare kumirira kusvikira mushure mokutaura kwekubatanidza maoko, kuitira kuti iwe unogona kuisa pfungwa pane zita romumwe munhu pakutanga.
Mazano:
1. Kana wakakanganwa zita romumwe munhu, zvakanyanyisa uye zvisinganzwisisiki kubvuma chokwadi kupfuura kudzivisa sumo.
2. Kana uri kutaurirwa neboka revanhu, haufaniri kutaura chimwe chinhu mushure mokutangira sumo. Zvakanaka kungogunun'una mushure mokutanga sumo kuti usazvidzokorora iwe pachako.
3. Maitiro emhando yepamutemo anoratidza kuti varume vanofanira kumira pavanenge vachitaurirwa kuvakadzi, uye vakadzi vanofanira kumira apo vachiziviswa kuvakadzi vakwegura. Zvisinei, zvakanakisisa kutonga mamiriro acho uye zviito zvevaya vanokupoteredza pavanosarudza kana kuti vamire.
4. Tora nguva yako uchitaura.
Taura zvishoma nezvishoma kuitira kuti munhu wese anzwisise mazita auri kutaura.
5. Paunenge uzvizivisa iwe, usashandise mazita akadai se "Dr." Izvozvo zvinokuita kuti uite zvakanaka.
Kutsvakurudza pamusoro peSumo uye Kushungurudzika Kwevanhu
A 2012 kuongorora kwevanhu makumi matatu nevekunyanya kushungurudzika uye vanhu makumi matatu vanozvidya mwoyo mumagariro evanhu vakaratidza kuti kana kambani pfupi yekukurukura nemunhu yakatanga kutarisana nemunhu iyeye, kushungurudzika kwevanhu kwakaderedzwa. Vanyori vekudzidza vakaronga kuti kukurukurirana kwepakombiyuta-mushonga (CMC) inogona kunge iri nzira inobatsira yekuchengetedza tsika, pakuti munhu wacho anogona kusimbisa kusatenda kwezvitendero.
Izvi zvinorevei?
Kana iwe uchitaura nemumwe munhu paIndaneti usati wasangana naye, iwe une mukana wakanaka wekutarisana nemafungiro asina kunaka anokutambudza iwe paunotanga kusangana nemumwe munhu uri munhu. Panzvimbo yekufunga, "Ndinotya, munhu uyu haadi kundida," unogona kufunga chimwe chinhu chakadai, "Ndinoyeuka kuva nehurukuro yakanaka paIndaneti, takaita seine zvimwe zvinhu zvakafanana" uye tora zvinhu kubva apo.
Shoko Rinobva
Kana iwe ukazviwana iwe nebasa rekugadzira mazwi kana kuiswa, edza kuyeuka mitemo asi usati wawanawo mazviri. Pamusoro pezvimwe zvose, shandisa kushevedzera kwakasviba uye kubata zvakasimba. Iva kugamuchira uye kuzaruka uye zvoga zvemashoko ako zvinofanira kunge zvakangoerekana zvawira munzvimbo; iwe ungatozviwana iwe pakutanga kwehukama hwakanaka .
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