Usati Watsvaga Tsanangudzo pamusoro peODD

Zvidzidzo zvekudzidza zvakawanda pamusoro pekupikisa kusagadzirisa chirwere

Kana mwana wako akaonekwa kuti ane chirwere chinopesana nedambudziko (ODD) iwe unogona kunge uri kurasikirwa sekuti unotangira kupi. Zvinogona kunge zvinotyisa kupfuurira kuburikidza nemashoko kuti uwane zvakakosha kuverenga uye chii chinoshatisa nguva yako.

Ngatitange nedzimwe ruzivo rwekutanga pamwe nemari yekudzidza zvakawanda, kutarisana nemitemo yakadaro, uye kuwana rubatsiro kuitira kuti ugone kubatsira mwana wako neODD.

Kupikisa Kunetseka Kunetseka (ODD): the Basics

Kupesana nenyaya yekusagadzikana kwehutano (ODD) chirwere chepfungwa chinokonzerwa nehutano umo mwana anoratidza kushungurudzwa uye chinangwa chisina kunaka. Unofunga kuchinja zvinenge 10 kusvika ku20 muzana yevana vechikoro-yezera, zvinowanzoonekwa kune vakomana kupfuura vasikana. Paunofunga pamusoro pemafambiro aya, zvakakosha kuona kuti vana vakawanda vasina ODD vanoratidzira zvimwe zvezviito izvi nguva nenguva. Saka ndezvipi zvinetso zvehutano zvekare uye zvisiri izvo?

ODD ndiyo muenzaniso wekuzvidza, kusagutsikana, uye kuvenga izvo zvinowanzoitika. Kuongororwa hakuwanzoitwa kusvikira maitiro aya aenderera mberi kwemwedzi mitanhatu. Zviratidzo zveODD zvakasiyana nemafambiro evana vanogona kuisa:

• Kuramba uchida kutsamwa
• Kunyengera nekupa mhosva vamwe nekuda kwezvikanganiso
• Kuramba kutevera mitemo
• Mubvunzo wokubvunza
• Kunyanya kukakavadzana nevabereki uye mamwe masimba mashoma

• Kunyatsotsamwirwa kana kutsamwa
• Chinangwa chinogumbura uye chinogumbura vamwe uye chinokanganisa chinangwa
• Kutsigira, kupesana nevamwe
• Kuita sokuti hauna hana
• Kushungurudzika nekushayikwa kwekufungidzirwa kumwana, pamwe nekuzvidzivirira kwakaderera uye kuoma kuumba uye kuchengeta ushamwari

Zviratidzo izvi zvinogona kusiyana kubva kune unyoro kusvika kune zvakanyanya, asi kazhinji, simuka panguva yezvidzidzo zvekare uye nguva dzose nguva isati yasvika. Maitiro anowanzowedzera kukanganisa kwakanyanya pamisha uye mumamiriro ekuchikoro. Nenzira inofadza, kunyange zvazvo zviito izvi zvingakonzera kukanganisa vabereki nevadzidzisi, zvinenge zvikamu zviviri kubva muzvitatu zvevana vari kunze-zvinokura chirwere chavo mumakore avo ekupedzisira.

Hazvizivikanwi izvo zvinokonzera ODD asi zvinogona kunge zvakakonzerwa nezvinhu. Genetics inogona kuita basa uye inogona kuwedzera kukurudzira kune chirwere. Maitiro mashoma eurotransmitter muuropi anogona kutamba nhengo yehupenyu. Kunyange zvazvo ODD inogona kukura muvana kubva kumhuri ine rudo uye yakagadzikana, hazvisi zvisinganzwisisiki kuti vana ava vave nehupenyu hwemusha husina maturo uye / kana kuratidzwa zvechisimba.

ODD inogona kuitika pamwe nedzimwe mamiriro ezvinhu, zvakadai sekucherechedza chirwere chinokonzera (ADD), kushushikana kwepfungwa, bipolar disorder, uye matambudziko emutauro. Dzimwe nguva zvinotora nguva kusiyanisa pakati peODD nezvimwe zvinetso zvinowanzoitika kune vana zvakadai seAdD / ADHD uye kutadza chirwere . (Kunyange zvazvo zvikamu zviviri kubva muzvitatu zvevana zviri kunze kwechirwere, zvinenge makumi matatu kubva muzana zvicharamba zvichiwedzera kukura kwehutano).

Apo Mwana Wako Anotanga Kuonekwa Ne ODD

Apo mwana wako anotanga kuongororwa ane ODD, zvinobatsira kudzidza zvakawanda sezvaunokwanisa pamusoro pehutano.

Kwete izvi chete zvingakubatsira iwe kudzidza nzira dzokubata nadzo maitiro, asi zvinogona kuva zvinokurudzira kuziva kuti vazhinji vevana vari kunze kwechirwere. Kuziva izvi chete kungakupa simba rekutsungirira maitiro akaoma nhasi.

Mapurogiramu ekuberekera vana anogona kukubatsira zvikuru pakukubatsira iwe kuti uwedzere kushandiswa kwekurera mwana neODD nekukurumidza. Zvimwe zvezvi zvinosanganisira:

• The Incredible Years
• Mubereki-Mwana Anopindira Kurapa
• Kubatanidzwa uye Kubudirira Zvirongwa

Zvichienderana nevana vakawana mwana wako, ungadawo kuwana mushonga anokwanisa kufamba pedyo newe sezvaunodzidza zvishandiso zvekutarisira mufambiro wemwana wako.

Kurapa kwave kuchiwanikwa kushanda zvakanaka kune vana vane ODD uye kunoderedzawo mukana wekuti ODD ichafambira mberi kuitisa dambudziko gare gare muhucheche kana kusagadzikana kwehutano hwevanhu semunhu mukuru. Iwe unogona kukumbira chiremba wako kana chiremba kana achiziva nezvemumwe munhu anonyanya kugadzirisa vana neODD kana kuti akumbire mune rimwe remasangano ekutsigira muIndaneti. Vabereki vave vachigara nevana vane ODD vawanzodzidza nekuedza uye kukanganisa uye vanogona kukupa mazano anokosha mukuwana munhu akakodzera. Kazhinji kazhinji, ichava mwana kana mwana wechidiki wechirwere chepfungwa anotarisira mwana ane ODD.

Usatya kubvunzurudza vatambi vakasiyana. Zvakakosha kuti iwe uwane shamwari iyo inogona kukutsigira pakubatsira mwana wako.

Kana iwe usina kuona mwana wevana vako, ichi chinhu chinokosha chekutanga chekutanga. Kune humwe hutano hunogona kuguma mukuzvibata kungave kukanganisa ODD, saka zvakakwana muviri zvinorudzirwa.

Kugadzirira Chikoro Chemwana Wenyu NeODD / Dzidzo Yakakosha

Kana mwana wako ari kuchikoro, zvakakosha kusangana nemudzidzisi wemwana wako kana vamwe kuchikoro uyo achabatanidzwa mune dzidzo yake. Kubatana nepurogiramu yakadzidza chikoro nemubereki akanaka pamusha inonyanya kubudirira.

Dzidzo dzepamusoro dzekudzidzisa dzinokwanisa kupa rubatsiro uye pokugara kwevana vako. Vanhu Vane Rakabhevedzwa Education Act (IDEA) mutemo wezvematongerwo enyika unorayira kuti vana vane hurema vakwanise kupiwa mabasa kuti vamubvumire kushanda pachikoro chechikoro. Izvi zvinowanzodikanwa kuti chirwere ichi chinokanganisa kudzidzira kwake kwepamusoro. Unogona kukumbira kuongorora mwana wako chero nguva.

Kana mwana wako asina kukodzera IDEA (kazhinji pasi pe "mamwe hutano hwakanaka") anogona kunge achikwanisa kuronga hurongwa hwekugara kune mumwe pasi peChikamu 504 .

Iwe unogonawo kufarira kutaura nesangano rako rechikoro, State Department of Education, kana hutano Parent Training uye Information Center.

Kuranga

Iwe unogona kunge wakaverenga zvose zvaunogona kuisa maoko ako, asi iwe unoranga sei mwana neODD? Kuva nemwana neODD kunogona kubata pamisungo yako, asi pasinei nemikana yakawanda yekupa pfungwa dzisina kunaka, kuwana mikana yekupa pfungwa dzakanaka kunogona kubatsira. Kunyange zvazvo migumisiro yakaipa ingangodaro inodiwa dzimwe nguva, kutarisa kwakanaka kunowanzobudirira. Ndinofara, izvi zvinowanikwa "zvakanaka" zvinoratidzika zvichiita kuti migumisiro yakaipa ibudirire kana zvichidiwa. Kudzivisa chirango chakashata uye kuisa pfungwa pamitemo panzvimbo pemwana kunobatsirawo. Zvirongwa zvakanyorwa pamusoro apa zvinopa mienzaniso yakawanda yekushanda nemwana ane ODD.

Kunzwisisa Kurapa Nzira uye Nzira

Sezvambotaurwa pamusoro apa, kurapwa kunowanzobudirira kune vana vane ODD uye kunogona kudzivirira chirwere ichi kuti chifambire mberi kuti chiitise chirwere kana kusagadzikana kwehutano hwehutano. Zvisarudzo zvakawanikwa zvinobatsira vana vane ODD dzinosanganisira:

• Parent management management
• Family therapy
• Kuziva njere-kugadzirisa unyanzvi hwokudzidzisa
• Zvirongwa zvehutano hwevanhu
• Zvidzidzo zvechikoro
• Mishonga

Nyaya, hapana mishonga yakanyatsorongedzerwa yeODD, uye mishonga chete haifaniri kushandiswa kubata chirwere chacho. Mishonga inogona kubatsira, kunyange zvakadaro, pakuraira zvimwe zvezviito kana kuti kugara pamwe nemamiriro ezvinhu ehutano hwepfungwa.

Kurarama Nevana Vako Ane ODD

Kurarama nemwana neODD kunogona kukusiya pamucheto uye kunetseka. Zvinogona kuva zvakaoma kumutsigira uye kuona maitiro akaparadzaniswa nemwana wako pachake uye kuramba wakadzikama. Heano mazano mashomanana akabatsira vamwe vabereki kubata nematambudziko ezuva nezuva ekugara nevana neODD.

• Deredzai nhamba yemibvunzo yaunobvunza mwana wako.
• Ipa mwana wako nguva yakawanda yekufungidzira.
• Ipa mhinduro dzakanaka kakawanda, kunyange kana mwana wako achipindura nenzira yakanaka pamubvunzo muduku. Kuvandudza maitiro nemaitiro akanaka kunogona kuderedza kuwanda kwekusava nehanya nemaitiro ake anoda.
• Usapika zviduku. Zvingava zvakanakisisa kusava nehanya nezvinetso zviduku zvishoma kusvikira iwe uwana matambudziko makuru anotungamirirwa. Akati neimwe nzira, "sarudza hondo dzako."
• Rongedza mazuva ose ezuva rimwe chete.
• Ita mitemo yemhuri yakajeka.
• "Famba kufamba:" Ratidza mafungiro akanaka evana vako kuchengeta.
• Rumbidza mwana wako kazhinji.
• Ipai migumisiro yakajeka, uye zivai kuti migumisiro haina kufanana nekurangwa.
• Dzivisa masimba emasimba.

Kuwana Rubatsiro Rwenyanzvi

Kunyange kana iwe uchitevera zvose zvezano iri pamusoro pemubereki mwana ane ODD, unogona kunge uchinzwa uchinetseka. Tora nguva yekufunga pamusoro paunofanira kutsvaga rubatsiro kumatambudziko emwana wako. Kana kukanganisa kwemwana wako kusina kuchinja paunoshandisa nzira dzokuranga, kana mufambiro wake uchipindira nechikoro kana hupenyu hwake hwemagariro evanhu, kana kana mufambiro wake usingakodzeri makore, ingangove nguva yekutsvaga rubatsiro.

Reference Resources

Pane zvikamu zvishomanana zvinyorwa zvinopa huwandu hukuru hwehutano hweODD nekurapa. Nzvimbo dzakataurwa pano dzine ruzivo rwakapiwa nevaya vakadzidziswa mukutarisira vana neODD uye vanovandudzwa kakawanda. Nzvimbo dzinovimbika dzinosanganisira:

• American Academy of Child & Adult Psychiatry
• Cincinnati Children's Hospital Medical Center

Kucherechedza Kukanganiswa Kwezvakawanda (ADD) Zvinyorwa zvinogona Kubatsira neODD

Sezvakambotaurwa, ODD inowanzobatana-iripo nezvimwe zvinetso zvakadai sekuwedzera. Pane dzimwe nguva, kutungamirirwa kweODD kwakafanana neyeAdD, asi dzimwe nguva zvakakosha kusiyanisa pakati pezvirwere zviviri. Aya masayiti anotarirwa kuAdD anogona kupa rubatsiro apo mwana wako ane ODD semamiriro ezvinhu akafanana.

• National Resource Center pane AD / HD
• ADDitude Magazine
• ADD ADHD Kufambira mberi

ODD Apo Mwana Wenyu Ari Muchechi

ODD inowanzoongororwa mumakore ekutanga kana kuti pfupi pashure pacho, uye kune vana vakawanda vanogadzirisa nezera remakore gumi nemana. Izvozvo zvakati, kubatanidza nyaya "inowanzo" yevechidiki nevatungamiri veODD inogona kuva dambudziko. Iyi inzvimbo inotevera inotarisa pamatambudziko akaoma mumakore ekuyaruka, kusanganisira ODD.

• Tarisa Mazano Okuyaruka
• Vechiduku vane Matambudziko

Nzvimbo dzeIndaneti Dzinobatsira Mukutaura Maitiro Akashata

Mawebhusayithi anopa mazano kuvabereki vane mwana ane ODD anosanganisira:

• DocSpeak inopa mamwe mashoko anonyatsotaura nezvevabereki vevana vanogara neODD.
• Kuchinja Mwana Akaoma yakagadzirirwa kubatsira vana kutarisira simba ravo nenzira dzakasiyana.
• Anorarama mu Balance pane imwe nzvimbo inobatsira kubatsira vana mukugadzirisa matambudziko.

Mabhuku Anogona Kubatsira Vabereki Vane Mwana Ane ODD

Mukuwedzera kune mawebhusayithi, podcasts, uye Youtube mavhidhiyo, kune mabhuku ose akazvipira kubatsira vabereki kubata uye kutarisira mwana neODD. Mabhuku angangobatsira anosanganisira:

• The Explosive Child , naRossa W. Greene
• The Defiant Child , naDouglas Riley (yakabudiswa muna 1997 asi ichiri kunyanya kusvika-kusvika)
• Ko Kazdin Method yekurera Mubereki Akangwara , naAlan E. Kazdin

Kutsigira Vabereki Vane Mwana Ane ODD

Kuva nemukana wekutaura nevamwe vabereki vanogara nemwana neODD kunogona kunge yakakosha. Hazvina mhosva kuti unofunga sei uye unonzwisisa mhuri yako neshamwari, pane chimwe chinhu chakakosha pamusoro pekutaura nevamwe vari kutarisana nematambudziko akafanana.

Mukuwedzera pakutsigirwa kwepfungwa, masangano ekutsigirwa kwepaIndaneti anogona kukubatsira kuti udzidze nezvezvinowanikwa zvitsva uye nzira dzekutarisira ODD. Mushure mezvose, hakuna mumwe munhu anokurudzira kunzwisisa zuva nezuva kune hupenyu hwemwana ane ODD kupfuura vamwe vabereki.

Mapoka ekutsigira kuIndaneti anokubvumira kuti uwane kunzwisisa nekupa mazano kubva kune vamwe vabereki pasi pose. Rimwe remapoka anoshingaira ndevabereki ve ODD Room. Kuberekera vana veODD kune imwe. Kune dzimwe mazita emapoka eIndaneti uye maBlue Facebook akagadzirirwa kusangana nevabereki vari kurarama nemwana ane ODD.

Pasi Panoona Kudzidza Nezvekuwana Zvimwe Nayo Nevana Mwana Ane ODD

Kudzidza kuti mwana wako ane ODD anogona kusunungura masero evanhu vakavhengana. Iwe unogona kusunungurwa pakupedzisira une chirairo pamusoro pemafambiro emwana wako asi panguva imwechete kutya izvo zvinorevei mune ramangwana. Sevabereki, kuongororwa kunogona kuita kuti iwe unetseke unyanzvi hwako hwekurera. Asi pfungwa yekuzvipa mhosva uye kunyadziswa hakubatsiri kudzidza kudzidza zvinodiwa nemwana wako. Kune vana vakawanda vakakwidziridzwa mumamiriro ezvinhu emhuri uye ane rudo avo vanotambura neODD.

Kana uchinge wapora chirwere iwe unogona kutanga kutarisa maitiro. Taura nachiremba wako. Tsvaga mwana akanaka kana mwana wechidiki wechipfungwa. Ivai nehanya mumapoka ekutsigira. Zorora zvishoma mukuziva kuti vazhinji vevana "vakabuda" maitiro aya. Izvozvo zvakati, kurapwa kunogona kufamba nenzira yakareba mukuderedza mukana wekuzvibata kwevana vako kuchapfuurira. Tarisa mamwe mazano ari pamusoro apa, uye shandisa zvishandiso nehutano hwakapiwa kuti udzidzise uye uzvipe simba semubereki wemwana ane ODD.

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