Kune zvipingamupinyi vabereki vanofanira kuongorora
Mishonga yekuongorora mishonga yemusha inotengeswa paInternet inogona kuita kuti zvive nyore kuti vabereki vaedze vana vavo nokuda kwezvinhu zvisiri pamutemo, asi iyo nzira inogona kunge isiri iyo pfungwa yakanakisisa. Kune zvimwe zvingangoita zvinetso zvinotarisirwa nevabereki vasati vachisarudza kumishonga-kuedza vana vavo.
Kazhinji, kune zvikonzero zviviri zvinoita kuti vabereki vaongorore kushandiswa kwemishonga kumba: sechiyero chekudzivirira kana sechinhu chinoongorora.
Mishonga yemishonga Edzimba Kuedza seSekudzivirira
Kana uri kufunga nezvekushandisa mishonga yekuongorora mishonga semishonga sechinhu chinodzivirira, iwe uri kushanda padzidziso yokuti kana vana vako vachiziva kuti vachaongororwa nguva dzose, havazogoni kushandisa madhiragi.
Dambudziko nedzidziso iyoyo ndeyokuti haisi kutsigirwa nekutsvakurudza kupi zvese kwesayenzi kunoratidza kuti kunoshanda. Ichokwadi, zvimwe zvezvidzidzo zvishomanana zvakaitwa pamusana pekuongororwa kwezvinodhaka zvevana kuchikoro uye pamba zvakaratidza kuti hazvina matanho ekuderedza kuwandisa kwezvinodhaka nevanoshandisa doro. Mhinduro dzave "dzakasanganiswa" pane zvakanakisisa.
Miedzo Yekumba Inogona Kudzingiswa
Imwe dambudziko nemagariro ekudzivirira ndeyekuti hapana mumwe muedzo wekushandisa mishonga unogona kupa izvo zvichaedza zvose zvinogona kushandisa zvinodhaka izvo vana vako vangashandisa. Kana uri kuedza imwe yemishonga yemishonga, vanogona kushandura kune rumwe rudzi rwemishonga, asi kuedza kwako kuratidza kuti vakanga vasingashandisi zvinodhaka zvachose.
Kunyange zvazvo dzakawanda zvekuongorora kwemusha idzi dzinoshandisa nzira kuti dziongorore kutendeseka kwemuenzaniso, panewo dambudziko kuti kune nzira dzekugona kubiridzira pakuongororwa kwezvinodhaka. Hatizonyora pasi pano nekuda kwezvikonzero zvakajeka, asi kana mwana wako achibatanidzwa mune zvinodhaka zvisina kushandiswa kwezvinodhaka kana ane ruzivo rwekutengesa, anogona kuzviwana.
Izvi zvingakusiya nechinangwa chenhema chekuchengeteka mukufunga kuti mwana wako haashandisi.
Mishonga Yekushandisa Mishonga Inoshandiswa Sekushandisa Investigative Tool
Kana iwe uchifunga kushandisa mishonga yemishonga pamusha nekuda kwekutsvaga, mikana iwe wakacherechedza kuchinja mune mufambiro wemwana wako kana mafungire ako, uye iwe unofunga kuti zvingave zvichida nekuda kwekushandisa zvinodhaka. Iwe unoda kushandisa chiyero kuti uone kana iwe wakarurama.
Dambudziko rekushandisa mishonga yemishonga yepamusha kuti uongorore kuti vana vako vanogona kushandisa sei zvinodhaka ndechokuti kuongorora kumba kwega pachako hakuiti chaizvo zvayo pachako. Kunyange avo vanotsigira kushandiswa kwemishonga yekurapa kwevana kuchikoro uye kumba vanonyevera kuti zvakakosha kubatanidza kuongororwa nekuongorora kwakakwana uye chirongwa chekurapa.
Kuedza Haisi Mhinduro Yega-Yega
Maererano neNational Institute on Drug Abuse, kuongororwa kwezvinodhaka hakufaniri kumboitwa sekumire-oga kupindura chinetso chemishonga. Sangano reAmerican Academy of Pediatricians (AAP), iro risingasimudzire kuongororwa kwemishonga kumba, rinobvumirana kuti zvinhu zvakakwana zvekuongorora nekurapa zvinofanira kuvapo kana vana vako vakakundikana kuongororwa kwezvinodhaka.
Kana mwana akundikana kuongororwa kwechirwere, inofanira kutungamirira pakupindira kwepakutanga nekurapa, kwete kungoita chirango chete.
Maererano neshoko remutemo weAAP panyaya yekuongorora zvinodhaka nevana vaduku, pane zvingangodaro zvisiri kukura zvakakodzera zvekuyarwisa zvinodhaka uye zvirongwa zvehutano hwepfungwa zvinowanika munharaunda yako kana mwana wako ari kushandisa.
Zvirongwa zvevanhu vakuru zvinogona kunge zvisina kukodzera uye zvisingabatsiri kune vechidiki, tsvakurudzo yakaratidza.
Kukuvadza Ukama Hwako
Kune imwe imwe yenyaya inokosha yekuvhiringidza kwevabereki vachifunga nezvekuongorora mishonga kumba kwavo vana vavo: kukanganisa kukanganisa ukama hwenyu nemwana wenyu. Kuedzwa kwekushandisa zvinodhaka pamusha, kana kana pasina kubvumirwa kwevechiri kuyaruka, kunogona kukanganisa ukama hwomubereki nemwana, maererano neAAP vatsvakurudzi.
Vechidiki vanogona kuona kuti kumanikidzwa kwemishonga yekumanikidzirwa kumusha nevabereki vavo kunopesana nekuputsa kodzero dzavo. Iwe hausi mapurisa, uye iyo haisi iyo iyo yaunoda kutamba muhupenyu hwemwana wako.
Zvinogona kukuvadza ukama hwako uye hukama, zvichiita kune dzimwe matambudziko ekuzvibata.
Ndeapi Matanho Aunotora?
Kana iwe unonetseka kuti vana vako vangave vachishandisa zvinodhaka kana doro, uende navo kuchiremba wavo mukuru wekurapa kana vamwe vashandi vezvehutano hwehutano kune unyanzvi hwekuongorora. Kana mwana wako akabatanidzwa mukushandisa zvinodhaka, chiremba wehutano achaziva kuti zvii zviripo zviripo kupa mwana nemubatsiro kana kuporesa.
Kana mwana wako achida kurapwa kwekodzero kana kugadziriswa, iva nechokwadi chekuwana nzvimbo kana chirongwa chinowanikwa mukurapa kwevechiri kuyaruka, kana zvichibvira. Zvinoshanda kune vanhu vakuru hazvigone kushanda zvakanaka kune vechidiki.
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