Kwete Vose Vashandisi vepaIndaneti Vanodhakwa
Saka mibvunzo yakawanda inouya pamusoro pe cybersex. Chii chinonzi cyber pabonde? Ndezvipi ngozi dzekutengesa paIndaneti? Tingachengetedza sei vana kubva ku- cyberstalkers? Kunyange iwe ungafunga nezvedzimwe nzira dzisina kufanira dzakabatana nehutachiona hwehutano hwepabonde, chokwadi ndechokuti kushaya zvepabonde paIndaneti kunotarisa vanhu vakawanda, kusanganisira varume nevakadzi, vaduku nevakuru. Kunyange zvazvo tsvakurudzo yakawanda inodiwa kuti ione mapoka zvakanyatsoruramisa, pane mamwe maitiro ehutano wepaIndaneti pane zvatinoziva nezvazvo.
Vashandisi veCysexsex vanosiyana mukuwanda kwavanoita muhutano hwepabonde, uye mune zvikonzero zvavo zvekuita kudaro. Sezvatsanangurwa mubhuku, "Mumumvuri weNet: Kusununguka Kwekusununguka Kwekuita Zvepabonde Pamusoro pepabonde" naPatrick Carnes et al, imwe nzira yekuisa maitiro emhando yevashandisi veIndaneti vari maererano nematambudziko mashanu aya.
Girasi 1: Vashandisi Vanovaraidza - Vakakodzera
Iri boka revashandisi vepaIndaneti rinokwanisa nguva nenguva kuongorora zvepabonde paIndaneti pasina zvinetso. Vangashandisa i-cybersex kuti vawedzere hukama hwavo hwepabonde. Vanokwanisa kufara neukama hwepedyo hwepabonde munyika chaiyo, uye vane maonero akanaka kune zvepabonde.
Boka repiri: Vashandi vekuvaraidza - Hazvifanirwi
Iri boka revashandisi vepaIndaneti rinogonawo kusvika paIndaneti pasina zvekunyanya kushandiswa asi rinogona kushandisa mashoko aya zvisina kunaka. Izvi zvinogona kusanganisira kutumira sexting kana kuratidza mifananidzo yepabonde kune vamwe vanhu nekuda kwekunakidzwa kana kutyisidzira, zvichiita kuti usanyadziswa.
Vashandisi vakadaro havaiti kuchengetedza mabasa avo pakavanzika, uye vangave nemafungiro akanaka kune hutano uye hukama.
Boka rechitatu: Vanoshusha Matambudziko - Discovery Group
Iri boka harina kumbobvira rave nedambudziko rakapfuura paIndaneti kana zvimwe zvepabonde. Vangave vari kushandisa keroti senzira yekutsvaga zvepabonde nenzira iyo hupenyu husati hwave husati hwavapa.
Mienzaniso yevanoshungurudza vashandi muboka rekutsvaga vanhu vanoomanikidza kushanyira vanhu vakuru vanoita zvepabonde mune tariro yekusangana nemumwe wavo, vachidzivisa mikana chaiyo yehupenyu yekusangana nevanhu; kana vanhu vanoshandisa internet vachiedza kusangana nemukomana wepabonde kune zvepabonde, pasinei nhoroondo yekare yekuita kudaro.
Boka rechina: Vanoshusha Matambudziko - Gwaro Rakagadzirwa
Iri boka rinobatanidza vanhu vanogona kunge vane nhoroondo yekufungidzira nezvepabonde, asi vasina kumboita izvi kusvikira vasvika paIndaneti-based based material. Vangave vaifunga nezvekuparadzanisa mabhidhi kana kuona mahure ekuita zvepabonde, asi vasina kutora chiito chekuita, zvichida nokuda kwekutya kuonekwa kana zvimwe zviitiko. Kushandisa kwavo kunogona kuva nguva dzose asi kwete kudarika, kunyange kunyatsobviswa kubva paukama hwechokwadi, basa rehupenyu rinogona kutambura kana kusatendeka kunoitika.
Girasi 5: Vashandi Vanokonzera Matambudziko - Bhizimisi Rokuita Zvepabonde Munyika Yose
Vanhu vari muboka iri vari pamagumo ekupedzisira ekupfuurira kwezvinetso zvepabonde. Kuita kwavo zvepabonde kunowanikwa kana kusina kuwanika paInternet - nyika iri paIndaneti inongowedzera imwe nzira yekuongorora zvepabonde zvisina kufanira. Ava vashandisi vepaIndaneti vanogona kuona zvinonyadzisira nguva dzose, sechikamu chemuitiro unoenderera mberi wekuita zvepabonde zvakanyanya.
Kunyange zvazvo havasi vese vashandisi vepaIndaneti vane zvinetso zvinoshandiswa, vose vanotora ngozi yokuti kushandiswa kwavo kunogona kuoma. Chimwe chinetso neveInternet nyika yepabonde ndeyekuti apo vashandi vanochengeterwa kubva munzvimbo dzavo, vachimutsa zvepabonde, uye vachifambisa mumambure, vangave vaiswa pachena kune zvidhori zvavasingazombozvitsvakiri. Izvi zvinogona kutungamirira pakuongorora zvinhu zvisina kukodzera zvepabonde nenzira isina kumbobvira yakarongwa, dzimwe nguva nemitemo yakashata yemitemo uye yehukama.
Kunobva:
Makwara, Ph.D., Patrick, Delmonico, Ph.D., David, Griffin, MA, Elizabeth, naMoriarty, Joseph. Mumumvuri weNet: Kusununguka Kusununguka Kwekuita Zvepabonde paIndaneti. Centre City, MN: Hazelden. 2001.