Kuti Cybersex Inogona Kukuwana Sei muDambudziko?
.kuchengetedzeka kwenyika chinhu chimwe nechimwe munhu wose anoda kuziva. Chikamu chekukwezva kwepaIndaneti, kana zvepabonde paIndaneti, ndechokuti inogona kunzwa yakachengeteka uye isingazivikanwi kumunhu. Muzvokwadi, hazvisi izvo. Basa renyu paIndaneti rinowanikwa kune vamwe, vazhinji vavo vasina hanya newe pamwoyo.
Mamwe maitiro einternet nzvimbo dzenharaunda dzinonyanya kukanganisa . Heano zvimwe zviitiko zvehupenyu-zvakaitika kune zvakaitika kuvanhu vanotsvaka zvepabonde paIndaneti. Iyi mamiriro ezvinhu angave chiratidzo chekuita zvepabonde nemamwe nyaya.
Matambudziko Ehutano
Chimwe chekudzidza zvepabonde paIndaneti chakaratidza kuti vamwe vakadzi vane hupenyu hwepabonde hwehupenyu hunosangana nevanhu vanoonana paIndaneti kupfuura varume. Zvisinei, imwe dzidzo yakaratidza kuti vakadzi vanoita izvi vanotora humwe hutano hwepabonde uye vane huwandu hwakawanda hwezvirwere zvepabonde, kusanganisira HIV.
Chimwe chidzidzo chevechidiki chakaratidza kuti vechidiki varume vanoita zvepabonde vaisangana nevashandisi vepaIndaneti vakanga vasingagoni kushandisa kondomu. Gay uye vaduku vechidiki vanogona kutsvaga vanoita zvepabonde paIndaneti kana vaine shamwari dzakawanda, vashandi vakura, uye vanobatana nehuwandu hweSDD. Vanhu vanowana zvepabonde paIndaneti vanozivisa kuti inogona kukurumidza kumanikidzira uye inotungamirira kumatambudziko ekudhakwa kwepabonde.
Kuita zvepabonde paIndaneti kunogona kutungamirira kune dzimwe dambudziko reutano Mumwe murume akafara akaroorwa ane vana uye basa rakanakisisa rakava nehanya nekambani yepabonde. Akanyepedzera kushanda kwenguva pfupi sechikonzero chekudzoka kumba gare gare uye kuti arambe ari kure pakombiyuta. Kusakwanisa kurara uye kushungurudzika uye mhosva yekureva nhema uye kuvhara zvakatora mararamiro pahutano hwake, uye pakupedzisira, akatambura kushungurudzika kwemoyo kusatarisiri. Iye chete panguva ino akabudisa pachena kushungurudza kwake kwepabonde paIndaneti uye kutambudzika kune chipatara chechipatara.
Public Embarrassment and Judgments
Kuwana zvinonyadzisira kunogona kukonzera matambudziko, kunyange iwe usingakwanisi kugutsikana zvepabonde. Imwe nhengo yehurumende inoshandiswa nevarume vanoita zvepabonde vakawana zvinonyadzisira paIndaneti vachishanda kuti vaedze uye vanzwisise zvakawanda nezvevashandi vake. Asi kuwedzera kwemaawa anoshandiswa paIndaneti kwakaonekwa nehosi yake, uyo akamupa nyevero.
Kutumira sexting kunogonawo kuunza kunyadzisa. Iwe unogona kufunga kuti iwe chinyaradzo chisingabatsiri ndechokuti mukomana wako, asi vakadzi vakawanda vechidiki vakazviwana vachininipiswa nekugovana kwemafananidzo akadaro apo hukama hunova hwakaoma. Vamwe vakazviwana vaine maitiro ekuona zvinonyadzisira zvevana.
Chisimba uye kushungurudzwa
Vanhu vanoita zvepabonde paIndaneti, kuburikidza nemasayiti akadai seTinder , vanogona kuisa dambudziko rechisimba uye kushungurudzwa. Mumwe mukadzi akaroora, uyo ainge abiridzira murume wake munguva yose yewanano yavo, akawana nzvimbo dzekutengesa internet. Akave akabatwa nehupenyu hwake hwekuIndaneti, achishandisa manheru ake ane nyaya dzekutsvaga nevarume paIndaneti. Akapa nhamba yake yefoni uye akaita zvepabonde nefoni.
Akaronga musangano we-munhu kuti aite zvepabonde muhotera nemurume waaifunga kuti akanga asingagoneki. Vakasangana uye vakaita zvepabonde, mushure mezvo vakarwiswa, vakarova vasina chavanoziva, uye vakasiyiwa kuti vafe. Mazuva maviri gare gare, akamuka muchipatara asingazivi kuti akawana sei. Zvinhu zvake zvainge zvabiwa, vashandi vezvipatara vakanga vasina nzira yekuzivikanwa, uye murume wake akaora mwoyo akanga atumira mushumo wevanhu vakanga vasipo. Akakurumidza kubvunza rubatsiro rwekuita zvepabonde .
Matambudziko Epamutemo uye Kusungwa
Vanhu vazhinji vanoita zvepabonde paIndaneti vakawana vaine matambudziko epamutemo semugumisiro.
Mumwe murume asina chakanaka akawana makamuri ehurukuro uye akasarudza kugadzirisa zvepabonde nemusikana ane makore gumi nemashanu. Mushure mokunge aona kuti akanga achigadzirira kusangana nemumwe mudzidzi wekukurukura zvepabonde zvepabonde, akaenda kunzvimbo yakatarwa kuti aone chiito. Akaona mumwe murume wacho achizviratidza, uye akasungwa, sezvo nzvimbo yacho yakazara nemapurisa emasoja uye maFBI vashandi. Achiziva kuti akanga ava pedyo nekusunga sei, akatsvaka rubatsiro zuva rakatevera.
Mumwe murume akagumburwa panzvimbo yepabonde yepaIndaneti achishandisa njodzi akatanga kushandisa nguva yakawanda nguva yakawanda paIndaneti, kusvikira apedza maawa gumi nemashanu kusvika makumi maviri pavhiki paIndaneti, achiedza "kuvhiringidza" nevasikana vaduku. Akasungwa nekuda kwekuedza kusangana nemusikana wechidiki ainge aisangana naye paIndaneti, uyo akazova murume mukuru FBI.
Mumwe murume akadzikinura mwana wekuona zvinonyadzisira chifananidzo kune imwe nzvimbo yekutaura akasungwa kuburikidza nekuvhima kwepasi uye akarasikirwa mari yakawanda yekuchengetedza uye mari yekubvisa mari pamutemo. Akarasikirwa nebasa uye imba yake, pamwe nekuremekedzwa kwemunharaunda. Akatarisana nechisungwa kumusungwa uye iyo inogona kugara mujeri kwemakore 220.
Matambudziko Emari
Mari inodhura zvepabonde paIndaneti inogonawo kutungamirira kumatambudziko emari. Mumwe murume ari mumakore ake makumi matatu akawana kuti akanga amhanyira chikwereti chekadhi rechikwereti chinodarika madhora 12 000. Akanga asina kurasikirwa nehuwandu hwemasayenzi e-cybersex aakanyoresa. Zvinodhura zvinogona kukurumidza kuitika kuburikidza nekupfuura nharaunda yako yeminiti isina kukwana mumakamuri ekukurukurirana, uye kuburikidza nehutano hwebasa rekuita zvepabonde.
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