Ndezvipi zvinorehwa nehope dzako?
Ko kurota kune zvinoreva zvakadzama here? Nhamba inoshamisa yevanhu vanotenda kuti mhinduro kumubvunzo uyu ihe. Maererano nechisarudzo chakaitwa neNewsweek , kutyisa 43% kwevanhu veAmerica vanotenda kuti kurota kunoratidza zvishuvo zvisingadi uye zvishuwo.
Nzara psychoanalyst Sigmund Freud akarondedzera kurota semugwagwa wamambo kuenda kune asina chinhu uye akaratidza kuti nokudzidza zvakajeka zvezviroto, tinokwanisa kujekesa zvishuvo zvakavanzika uye zvisingazivi zvinoita kuti tive neurosis .
Kuongorora zviratidzo zveroto uye kutsanangura zvinoreva kuva chinhu chinozivikanwa chekuvaraidza uye kuzvifungidzira mune tsika yakakurumbira. Ko kurota zvechokwadi kunoreva zvisiri izvo here? Iwe unogona kudzidza zvido zvako zvisingazivi uye zvido zvako nekududzira kurota kwako here?
Kunyange zvazvo nyanzvi dzakawanda dzemazuva ano dzidziso dzekurota dzichiratidza kuti mhinduro yacho kwete, izvi hazvina kumisa vatanthauki uye vaongorori kubva pakubudisa sangano rose rezvinyorwa zvitsva zvinoreva kutsvaga izvo zvinowanzodiwa zviratidzo uye zviratidzo zvinoreva chaizvoizvo.
Ngatinyatsoongororai zvimwe zvezviroto zvakajairika uye ndezvipi zvimwe zvinyorwa zvakakurumbira zvezvinyorwa zvekurota zvingareva pamusoro pavo.
1 - Nharo Pamusoro pokuwa
Kurota pamusoro pokudonha kubva munzvimbo dzakakwirira zvakanyanya. Kunyange zvazvo pane nhoroondo inofanirwa kuti kana iwe ukarova pasi muroto dzako iwe uchafa muhupenyu chaihwo, hazvisi zvechokwadi. Saka ndechipi chaizvoizvo kurota kwekuwa kunorevei?
Maererano nehuwandu hwemashoko anoremekedzwa, kurohwa hope chiratidzo chokuti chimwe chinhu muupenyu hwako hachifambi zvakanaka. Zvinogona kuratidza kuti unofanirwa kufungisisa sarudzo kana kutarisa nzira itsva mune imwe nzvimbo yehupenyu hwako.
"Kurohwa kwekuwa kwakakurumbira." Ichi chiratidzo chekutya muhupenyu chaihwo - zvichida nekukundikana kubasa kana muhupenyu hwako hworudo, "anodaro Russell Grant, munyori weThe Illustrated Dream Dictionary . "Kuramba kazhinji kunoratidza chido chokuzvirega iwe uende mberi uye unakidzwe noupenyu huzhinji."
2 - Kurota Pamusoro Pokuva Nenguva Muhurumende
Unogara uine imwe yezvisinganzwisisiki hope dzako apo iwe unoratidzira kuchikoro kana hofisi muzuva rako rokuzvarwa rinotevera? Usanetseke. Kurota pamusoro pokuve usina kupfeka hakusi chinhu chisingawanzwisisiki.
Penny Peirce, munyori we Dream Dream yeDummies , anoratidza kuti kurota kwehupenzi hwevanhu zvinogona kuratidza kuti iwe unonzwa sechinyorwa kana kuti iwe unotya kuzarura kusakwana kwako nekukanganisa.
3 - Kurota Pamusoro Pokudzingwa
Nharo dzinenge dziri kuteverwa nemunhu anozivikanwa kana asingazivi dzinogona kunyanya kutyisa. Asi zviroto izvi zvinorevei pamusoro pezvinoitika mupfungwa dzako? Dudziro vashanduri vanowanzoreva kuti kurota kwakadaro kunoreva kuti uri kuedza kudzivisa chimwe chinhu muupenyu hwako hwezuva nezuva.
Tony Crisp, munyori we Dream Dream , anoratidza kuti kudzingwa muhope kunogona kuratidza chido chekutiza kubva pane zvaunotya kana zvido zvako. Chinokosha kuti unzwisise kuti chinangwa ichocho chinorevei chinotarisana nehuzivi hwekutsvaga kwako. Kudzingwa nemhuka kungaratidza kuti uri kuvanda kubva kune iwe pachako kutsamwa, kuda, uye mamwe manzwiro.
Kana iwe unotevera iwe chisingazikamwi, chimiro chisingazivikanwi, chingave chinomiririra ruzivo rwehuduku kana dambudziko rakapera. Kana iwe uri kudzingwa nemumwe wevasikana, Crisp anoratidza kuti zvinoreva iwe unotya rudo kana uchitya nehukama hwekare.
4 - Kurota Pamusoro Pokurasikirwa Maziso
Penny Peirce, munyori we Dream Dream for Dummies , anoratidza kuti kurota pamusoro pokurasikirwa nemazino kunogona kuva nezvirevo zvakawanda. Zvinogona kureva kuti unonetseka nezvekukwezva kwako kana kuonekwa. Zvinogonawo kuratidza kuti iwe unonetseka pamusoro pekugona kwako kutaura kana kuti unofunga kuti ungadaro wakataura chimwe chinhu chinonyadzisa.
"Chinhu chaicho chemazino ndiko kukwanisa kwavo kuruma, kucheka, kubvarura, uye kugaya," anotsanangura kudaro. "Kana meno ako akadonha, iwe unorasikirwa nesimba rako pachako uye unyanzvi hwako hwekusimudzira, kusarudza, uye kuzvidzivirira."
5 - Kurota Pamusoro Pekufa
Rufu ndechimwe chiitiko chinowanzoonekwa chezviroto uye chimwe chinogona kunyanya kuvhiringidza. Vanorota dzimwe nguva vanorota nezvekufa kwemudiwa kana kunyange kurota kwekufa pachavo. Zvinoratidzirwa kurota tsanangudzo dzimwe nguva zvinoratidza kuti kurota kwakadaro kunoratidza kufunganya nezvekuchinja kana kutya kwevasingazivikanwi.
"Sekufa, kuchinja kunogona kutyisa nekuti - kufanana nerufu - hatizivi chii 'kune rumwe rutivi,' chekuchinja, ndicho chikonzero pfungwa dzarota dzinofananidza kuchinja nerufu," rinoratidzira Lauri Loewenberg mubhuku rake Dream paIri: Svinura Dharo Dzeve, Shandura Upenyu Hwako .
Loewenberg anotendawowo kuti kurota pamusoro pekufa kwemudiwa kunogona kuratidza kutya kwakadaro kwekuchinja, kunyanya maererano nevana vanosvika pamatambudziko uye vachikura. Kuchinja kwakadaro, anoratidza, kuratidzira kuti mwana ari kukura uye pfungwa yemubereki inotanga kushamisika kuti chinangwa chemudiki chakaenda kupi. Kurota kwakadaro kwokufa, saka, kunoratidza rudzi rwekuchema kwechiitiko chisingadzivisiki chenguva.
6 - Kurota Pamusoro Pokutora Muedzo
Maererano naCarig Hamilton-Parker, munyori weThe Hidden Zvinoreva Nharo , kutora kuongorora zviratidzo zvako zvinogona kuratidza kutya kwekukundikana. "Kuongororwa zvinoshungurudza zvakaitika pane zvaunosangana nazvo kutarisana nezvikanganiso zvako," anonyora kudaro. "Kurota kukundikana kuongororwa, kunonoka kweimwe, kana kusakagadzirira kunoratidza kuti unonzwa usina kugadzirira matambudziko ekusimudza upenyu."
7 - Kurota About Infidelity
Kurota kuti mumwe wako kana shamwari yako yerudo achibiridzira iwe nemumwe munhu anogona kunge achikuvadza zvikuru. Mune zvimwe zviitiko, vanhu vanototanga kushamisika kana kurota kwacho kungave kwechokwadi. Kurota kuti mumwe wako haana kutendeseka zvinoreva here kuti zvinogona kuitika? Kana kuti zvave kutoitika?
Kunyange mune dzimwe nguva zviroto zvakadaro zvinogona kuva chiratidzo chekutyisidzira kwekusatenda kwakadaro, Trish naRob MacGregor, munyori weThe Complete Dream Dictionary: Bhuku reMubhedha rekuziva Zveshoko Rako Rinorevei , tendai kuti kurota kwakadaro hakureve kuti wako wako ari kubiridzira kana kuti achabiridzira.
"Uyu ndeumwe 'zvakadini kana' kurota - uri kuedza miganhu yezvokwadi," vanotaura.
Evha Adamson naGayle Williamson, vanyori veThe Complete Idiot's Guide Dream Dictionary , vanofunga kuti kurota kwakadaro pamusoro pekusatendeseka kunoratidza nyaya nekutenda, kuvimbika, nekukurukurirana muhukama. "Kana iwe kana wawakaroorana naye achinyengedza mukurota kwako, mumwe wenyu haasi kuwana zvaunoda kubva paukama uhwu iye zvino," vanonyora.
8 - Kurota About Flying
Kurota pamusoro pekubhururuka kunogona kunge kunofadza uye kunyange kusununguka asi dzimwe nguva dzimwe nguva zvinotyisa (kunyanya kune vanotya zvikomo). Maererano naTony Crisp, munyori we Dream Dream , kurota pamusoro pekubhururuka kazhinji kunomiririra mativi maviri akasiyana. Kune rumwe rutivi, kurota kwakadaro kunogona kureva manzwiro erusununguko uye rusununguko. Kune rumwe rutivi, vanogona kuratidzawo chido chekutiza kana kutizaza kubva kuzvinhu chaizvo zvehupenyu.
Anoti, "Kufamba chete kunowanzoitika kakawanda," anonyora kudaro, "achiratidza kuzvimiririra kwekubhururuka.Asi nokuti kazhinji inosanganisira mafungiro akanaka ekufara, kubhururuka kunogona kuratidzira unhu hwedu hwepabonde ... kunyanya zvikamu zvayo zvinoratidza rusununguko kubva mumagariro evanhu uye kuzvidzora."
9 - Kurota Pamusoro pekudzivirira
Iroti vaturikiri vanowanzotaura kuti kurota pamusoro pekudzivirira kunomiririra zvinhu zvose kubva pakusikwa kune kutya. David C. Lohff, munyori we Dream Dream , anotenda kuti kuroora kurota dzimwe nguva kunomiririra kutya kwekuve amai vasina kukwana. Munyori Tony Crisp, kune rumwe rutivi, anoratidza kuti kurota kwakadaro kunoratidza kuti muroti arikudziridza imwe nzvimbo yekugona kana kuwedzera ukama. Muturikiri weroto Russell Grant anonyora kuti idzi kurota zvinomesa nguva dzakaoma.
10 - Shoko rinobva
Saka iwe unofungei? Unoita zvimwe zvekurota uku kunoratidzika kunge kwakarurama here? Kana zvisina kudaro, usanetseka - zviroto zvako zvakasiyana uye zvakasikwa. Iwe haugoni kuwana chimwe chinhu kunze kwekuvaraidza kwakajeka mumabhuku ezvinyorwa zvezvekare uye zvinyorwa zvinotsanangurwa. Pane kudaro, funga nezvekurota kwako kuratidzwa kwehupenyu hwako hunokura, kuratidzira kutya kwako, kuzvidya mwoyo, zvido, tariro, uye zvinangwa zvemuzvere.
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