Kune zvishoma zvishandiswa kune avo vanotarisana nevanodikanwa vanogara
Kune shamwari uye nhengo dzemhuri dzakave dzinofamba dzichifamba mumagumo ekupedzisira kudhakwa, chiitiko icho chinogona kugumbura uye kusurukirwa. Manzwiro ekushaya simba anogona kukuremedza iwe sezvaunotarisa mumwe munhu waunofarira zvishoma nezvishoma anofa asi akaramba kuramba kunwa kunyange dambudziko.
Uye musakanganise pamusoro pazvo, vanofa. Kubva kusatenderwa, kudhakwa chirwere chinouraya.
Mudhakwa muhupenyu hwaLinda ndechimwe chezviitiko zvekupedzisira. Kaviri akaudzwa kuti aisazogara mamwe mwedzi mitanhatu. Katatu ave ari pamusuo wekufa, ane hospice inobata mumazuva ake okupedzisira. Asi iye anoramba achidzoka, achipfuura nekutora uye kupora.
Haasi Kuzviita
"Ndinotarisira uye ndinoronga kuguma izvo, zvinosuruvarisa, nguva dzose inonzwa sekuti ingadai iri chikomborero," Linda anonyora pa blog yake. "Takave kuburikidza ne 'haasi kuitora' kunetsa vazhinji, kakawanda."
Asi anoramba achizviita. Nokudaro musoro webhuku rake, "The Immortal Alcoholic."
Kazhinji, apo bhugi idzva rinosangana nehutano rinosvika padhipatimendi rangu, ndinoshanyira muchidimbu bhulogi, ndinyore zvinyorwa zvishomanana, kuve nechokwadi chekugadziriswa nguva dzose, iri pamusoro-nyaya uye yakanyorwa zvakanyorwa, isati yataurira kune vamwe vaverengi.
Asi paIkusingaperi Doro, ndakasara. Ndakagara kwemaawa akawanda, ndichiverenga zvinhu zvose panzvimbo ino nezvemaedzo, matambudziko, uye hongu, kunyange huseve hunobatanidzwa mukutarisira kuguma-dhigirii doro.
Kunwa doro Chirwere Chichifambira Mberi
Sezvaunotanga kuverenga nhau yaLinda, iwe unoda kuenda kumutsvaga uye kumupa kukumbundira kukuru, kunyange ndichifungidzira kuti angada kuti iwe urege kusiya mhinduro. Asi kune avo vedu vakaona kana vari kutarisa vanodiwa vanozviuraya ivo nedoro, nhau yake inoputsa mwoyo uye inovaka.
Mumwe mukadzi weNavy, Linda akabatana nehuwandu hwake hwekudhakwa kwemurume kwemakore makumi maviri nemakore achirera mhuri , asi akabva amusiya musikana wake akura. Munguva yemakore gumi nemashanu vakaparadzana (asi vasina kurambana) kudhakwa kwake kwakafambira mberi kusvika pakukanganiswa kwepfungwa dzake uye nhengo dzomukati.
Kudzivirira Mwanasikana Wake
Apo mwanasikana wake akaita chisarudzo chekutora baba vake varwere kumba kwake kuti vamutarisire, Linda akapindira kuti adzivirire mwanasikana wake kubva mukusaziva.
"Mwanasikana wangu aida kuti auye achigara nemhuri yake." Ndakati kwete, "anodaro Linda. "Ndakanga ndagara ndakaroorana naye kuitira kuti ini ndive nehunhare yangu.Iye aiva mutoro wangu.Iyo yakanga iri nguva yekubhadhara.IYE HANDAIDA hupenyu hwemwanasikana wangu kuti ave pakati pehurukuro yake yekudhakwa.Ndinofanira kumudzivirira nokuwedzera uye kuita zvaidiwa kuitwa. "
Mutarisiri, MuPurisa, uye Warden
Nenzira yakati Linda akakwanisa kuzvishungurudza kubva kune doro panguva imwe chete achibvuma kushanda somutarisiri wake, mupurisa, uye mutariri. Ari kugara naye muSouth-East United States mumusha wake wekumaruwa kubva kumahombekombe ekudhakwa ari pedyo.
Pamusoro peThe Immortal Alcoholic, nhengo dzeLinda dzinowanzotarisana nehupenyu hwezuva nezuva huri kurwisana nemagumo ekupedzisira ane doro, uyo panguva iyi kunyorwa kwave kwakoma kwemwedzi inopfuura mitatu, asi inojekesa nguva dzose zuva rimwe nerimwe kuti rimwe zuva achamwa zvakare.
Akaoma Kuwana Mashoko
Bhuku rake rinotaura nezvekutambudzika kwehupenyu nemumwe munhu ane pfungwa uye hutano hwakaparadzwa nekudhakwa, asi ane mapeji ezvimwe zvevasiri vasiri doro saiye, uyo angave achifamba nemamiriro ezvinhu akafanana.
Sezvaakatsanangura mune imwe email, "Ndakatambura nekuwana vanhu vanonzwisisa" kuguma-gadziriro "uye zvinhu zvose zvinofambidzana nazvo .. Kunyange vanachiremba havazivi chavanoita ..."
End-Stage Alcoholism Information
Saka, webhusaiti yake ine ruzivo rwaakange aunganidza paanenge achiita doro rekupedzisira, kusanganisira:
- Nhanho dzeMweya Wekudhakwa
Linda anorondedzera kufambira mberi kwekudhakwa kubva kune "madoroki mashomanene" kune "haasi kuzoita" nzvimbo uye kwose kwose.
- Chokwadi Pamusoro peDetox
Zvavanokutaurira pamusoro pekugadzirisa detoxification kusvikira murwere atova purogiramu. - The Medical Dilemma
Madzimai akawanda emhuri haafaniri kudzidziswa kubata nemagumisiro ekupedzisira ekudhakwa kana kuti havadi kuve akavimbika kune vakadhakwa kana mhuri dzavo. - Doro uye Biology
Apo chiropa hachikwanise zvakare kubvisa doroza doro zvakaringana uye kuidzosera zvakare muropa remvura kakawanda, inokonzera marudzi ese ematambudziko mumuviri.
Kana iwe kana mumwe munhu waunoziva ari kutarisana nekudhakwa, unogona kuwana bhuku raLinda zvishoma nezvishoma nezvekuguma kwechigarire-chei, chinyaradzo chekukurudzira nekujekesa, kana chirevo chokuti hausi wega.