Kunyanya kukanganisa kuitika ndeye chiitiko umo kupiwa mubayiro kuburikidza nekuita chimwe chinhu kunowedzera kuderedza chinangwa chekuita icho chiito. Funga nezvezvishoma zvezvinhu zvaunoda kuita. Kune mimwe mitambo yakafanana neyomuvolleyball kana basketball yaunoda kutamba here? Iwe unoshuva nekugadzira, kuverenga, kana kuunganidza mafirimu memorabilia?
Kazhinji, iwe unobatanidzwa mumabasa aya kungoita kuti ufare zvikuru uye mufaro waro, kwete kune rumwe rudzi rwekunze kusimbiswa. Basa racho pachayo rinoshanda semubairo wayo. Zvingakushamisa here kuti udzidze kuti kana iwe uchipiwa mubayiro wezvinhu zvaunonakidzwa nazvo kuita, chido chako chekutora chikamu mumabasa iwayo dzimwe nguva chinoderedzwa?
Mukufunga kwepfungwa, izvi zvinozivikanwa sekunyanya kukanganisa uye zvinogona kuva nechinetso chakakomba pane zvinokurudzira uye maitiro. Ngationgororei kuti izvi zvinorevei uye kuti zvingakanganisa sei maitiro.
Kunyatsoongorora Kutariswa Kwakaitwa Muitiro
Kunyanya kukanganiswa kunoitika kunowanikwa apo chikonzero chekunze chinowedzera kukanganisa kwomunhu kuti aite chiito kana kuita chimwe chinhu mune rimwe basa. Vatsvakurudzi vakaona kuti kana zvikomborero zvakadzama (zvakadai semari nemikomborero) zvichipiwa nokuda kwezviito izvo vanhu vatozviwana vaine zvikomborero, ivo vachava vashoma mukati mavo vachikurudzirwa kutevera mabasa iwayo munguva yemberi.
Somuenzaniso, fungidzira kuti vana vari kuchikoro vanobvumirwa kutamba nemitambo inofadza munguva yavo yekusununguka. Kana vakatarisira vanotanga kupa vana mubairo wekutamba nematayipi aya, vana vanogona kutanga kutanga kunzwa vasingapindi maitiro ekutsvaga kutamba nematayipi.
Chii Chinokonzera Kuwedzera Kwakaitwa?
Sei kunyanya kuitika kuchiitika kunoitika?
Maererano nedzidziso imwechete, vanhu vanowanzobhadhara zvakanyanya kune mibairo yekunze kunze kwekunakidzwa kwavo kwebasa racho. Somugumisiro, vanhu vanofunga kuti kubatanidzwa kwavo mubasa racho kunokonzerwa nemubairo wekunze kunze kwekufunga kwavo mukati maitiro.
Imwe nyanzvi inotsanangurwa ndechokuti dzimwe nguva vanhu vanoona kusimbiswa kwekunze se simba rinomanikidza. Sezvo vachifunga sevari "kurohwa" pakuita maitiro, vanofunga kuti vari kuita izvi chete nokuda kwekusimbisa kunze.
Mherechedzo
Kutsvakurudza kwakawana kuti kana kusimbiswa kwemasimba kunobva pane kuita chimwe chinhu chakanaka, zvino mufambiro hauna kusimbiswa nekunyanya kuitika. Kuva wakakomborerwa nekuda kwekudzidza, somuenzaniso, zvichida hazvizogadziri chimwe chinhu chinokurudzira iwe unogona kudzidza. Izvi ndezvokuti chikoro chako ndechekusimbisa-kushandiswa kwakasimba. Vanosimbisa kudzidza kwako maitiro, asi ivo vanovimba nezvakanaka kuita zvakanaka pane kungoita zvavanoda.
Kutsvakurudza zvakare kunoratidza kuti kushandisa rumbidzo semashoko semubairo kunobvumidzawo vamwe kungwarira. Vana vanorumbidzwa nekuda kwekushingaira kwavo ("Makashanda zvakaoma mubasa iro!") Panzvimbo yezvavanogona ("Iwe wakachenjera kwazvo!") Anowanzofunga kuti kubudirira kunobatsira pane kushanda pane tarenda yechokwadi.
Vana vanosimbisa urudzi urwu rwepfungwa uyewo vanogona kuramba vachiri pakatarisana nezvipingamupinyi.
References
Breckler, SJ, Olson, JM, & Wiggins, EC (2006). Social Psychology Alive. Belmont, CA: Thomson Wadsworth.
Griggs, RA (2010). Psychology: Chirevo chechinyorwa. New York: Worth Worth Publishers.