Mumwe mubvunzo wandingawana kubva kumunhu ndewekuti: "Chero kwenguva yakawanda sezvandinoyeuka, ndakaedza kubvisa kubva pane zvose zvakandikomberedza. Ndaigara ndiri mudambudziko kuchikoro nokuda kwezuva uye ndisingafungi, edza kuvhara zvinhu zvose kunze.Vabereki vangu havana kumboita sevanondiona.Kana nemakore gumi nematanhatu, ndakanga ndichishandisa mbanje, uye ini ndakaedza mishonga yose kubva ipapo.
Nenguva yandakanga ndava nemakore gumi nemasere, ndakanga ndiri muropa kune heroin. Ndiri iye zvino 28, uye zvakawanda zvezvinodhaka zvandinoziva zvakave kuburikidza ne rehab zvakaonekwa kuti vaitambudzwa zvepabonde sevana. Vamwe vavo havana kumboyeuka kunyange kusvikira vaine chirwere. Handiyeuke zvakawanda nezvehuduku hwangu, saka ini ndakatambudzwa semwana here? "Iyi, nemimwe mibvunzo yakabatana pamusoro pokushungurudzwa kwepabonde kwevana, inopindurwa pasi apa.
Chokutanga, hapana chakaipa nekubvunza mubvunzo uyu. Kushungurudzwa kwepabonde kwevana ndeimwe yezviitiko zvakasuruvara zvikuru munharaunda yedu. Kuwanda kwekushungurudzwa kwepabonde kwevechidiki kunogona kuva kwakaoma kunyatsorongedza-uye kunyange nhamo zvese zvakanyanya, hatiwanzoitauri nezvazvo pachena. Kutarisana nekushungurudzwa mune zvepabonde semucheche anotora ushingi hwakakura, asi inogona kuva chiitiko chinoporesa.
Ichokwadi zvakare kuti kushungurudzwa kwepabonde kwevana nehuwandu husina kukwana kune vanhu vanovhiringidza zvinodhaka pamishonga yakadai se meth uye heroin, uyewo yakakwirira zvikuru kune vanhu vanoita zvepabonde nekudhakwa kwepabonde , pamwe chete nevaya vanokurudzira kudhakwa kwezvokudya uye zvimwe zvinetso zvekudya .
Muenzaniso wekuedza kusunungura kubva munyika yakakupoteredza, inozivikanwa sekuparadzanisa , inowanzove pakati pevanhu vakaona kushungurudzwa kwepabonde muhuduku. Vamwe vakambotambudzwa vanokanganwa nezvekudzvinyirirwa kwemakore-kana kunyange makumi emakore-kungoyeuka zvakare mushure mekukura, dzimwe nguva panguva yekurapa.
Ichokwadi kuti iwe hauri kuyeuka zvakawanda zvehuduku hwako zvakare chiratidzo chekuti ungangodaro wakambosangana nechiitiko chinotambudza-kureva, chimwe chinhu chakanga chakanyanya kukuvadza kuti iwe utsungirire panguva iyoyo-muhuduku. Kushungurudzwa kwepabonde kwevana kune rumwe rudzi rwekushungurudzika, asi pane dzakawanda zvakawanda zvinogona kuva nemigumisiro imwechete, kusanganisira kupupurira chisimba kana rufu, kuva nenyama kana kushungurudzika mupfungwa , kana kuwana njodzi, kukuvara kana kurwara kwakakomba.
Asi pasinei nokuti zvikamu zvehupenyu hwako zvinoratidzika kuti zvinowirirana nezviitiko izvo zvinowanzobatana nekushungurudzwa kwepabonde, izvo hazvirevi kuti iwe wakanyatsotambudzwa zvepabonde. Kunyange zvazvo zvichiodza mwoyo kana iwe usingakwanisi kuyeuka zvinhu kubva paudiki hwako, zvinogona kukuitira zvakanyanya kukuvadza pane zvakanaka kuedza uye "kuverenga" kana iwe wakashandiswa zvisina humwe humwe uchapupu hwekoni. Uchapupu hwehutori hunogona kusanganisira kuyeuka kubatwa zvisina kufanira semucheche, mumwe munhu achikuudza kuti iwe wakanyatsoshungurudzwa zvepabonde, kana mumwe munhu achiuya mberi uye achitaura nezvekushungurudzwa uyo aiva mwana mumamiriro ezvinhu akafanana. Munhu uyu angave ari mukoma kana munhu mukuru uyo ane chiremera chepamusoro pamusoro pako-semudzidzisi kana mudzidzisi-uyo anobvuma kana kuti akawanikwa ane mhosva ye, kushungurudzwa kwepabonde kwevana mukutarisira kwake.
Uye kunyange zvakadaro, kana iwe usingayeuke, zvingave zvisati zvaitika.
Mimwe mimwe mitauro yepfungwa inogona kutungamirira kukurasikirwa mupfungwa, saka edza kusvetuka kusvika kugumisiro. Kana iwe uchinzwa wakagadzirira kutarisana chero chii chiri chikonzero chezvipingamupinyi zvawakave nazvo, ikozvino ingava nguva yakanaka yekutsvaga rubatsiro rwekubuda pamishonga yemishonga kamwechete, uye kugamuchirawo kurapa kwezvinetso zvako zvepfungwa zvepfungwa. Kana iwe uchinzwa kuti iwe unokwanisa, taura nachiremba wako nezverongwa hwakanaka hwekurapa. Uye kana iwe usinganzwi wakagadzirira, dana National Sexual Assault Hotline pa 1.800.656.HOPE, iyo inogona kukupa nzvimbo yekutaura nemamiriro ezvinhu kusvikira iwe unonzwa wakagadzirira.
Nhanho yakanaka nerwendo rwako kuenda kuchirapa. Varume nevakadzi vakawanda vakapora kubva pamidhakwa uye kubva pakushungurudzwa kwepabonde kwevana, ndokuenda kunorarama hupenyu hunofadza, hwakazadzika.
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