Kuwana pfungwa yekudzora hupenyu hwako
Larry anonzwa akaropafadzwa kuti ave mupenyu kuti ataure nyaya yake. Mushure mekunge vaongororwa neAADH pazera remakore makumi mashanu uye vachiwana kurapwa kwemakore 10 apfuura, hupenyu hwaRarry hwakatora hutende hwakanyanya hwekuvandudza. "Zvinondishungurudza nguva dzose pandinofunga kumashure ehupenyu hwangu uye ndinofanira kurondedzera zvakaitika kwandiri apo ini zvino ndava kuziva kuti ADHD iri nyore sei kubata uye kuti upenyu hunofadza uye hubudiriro hunogona sei." Larry anotaura kuti ADHD zvinokonzera mumwe nomumwe. Nyaya yake inogona kunzwa yakafanana kana inogona kunzwa yakasiyana zvakanyanya, asi zvimwe nenzira iyo nyaya yake inofadza zvikuru uye inotarisira.
"Zvinyorwa zvezvinhu zvandakanga ndakaita semunhu asina kudzidza zvinoramba zvichienderera mberi," anodaro Larry. "Pandakanga ndiri muduku mumakore ekuma50, amai vaiwanzoti kwandiri 'mhanya kumativi eimba kakawanda kuitira kuti ugone kugara pasi udye. Mazuva angu echikoro akazadzwa nefistfights uye kudzivirira. Ndakadzika kubva kuchikoro chesekondari mu "60s. Upenyu hwangu huri muduku hwevanhu vakuru mumakore makumi manomwe hwakanga huri madhiragi uye doro. Nyaya yacho inoramba ichienderera mberi kusvikira ini ndava nemakore makumi mashanu. "
Yakanga ichangobva kuona ivo pachavo kuchinja kwakanaka kwekuongororwa uye kurapwa kwemhuri yemhuri kuti Larry akatanga kunzwisisa zvakawanda nezveDHD. Anobvuma kuti aive nemafungiro akawanda asina kururama uye kutya kwekuti kusakwanisa kwemashoko kunounza. Larry anoti, "Ndakarwisana kwemakore akawanda, asi akabva atanga kupedza nguva achidzidza uye achizvidzidzisa nezvemamiriro acho ezvinhu.
"Handigone kunyanya kukoshesa kukosha kwekuongororwa kwekutanga uye kurapwa. Hazvina kunonoka kupinda muupenyu huri nani hunoonekwa uye kurapwa kunogona kupa.
Usamirira, "anodaro Larry.
Paakabvunzwa nezvekuchinja kwaakawana, Larry anoti zvakafanana nekukumbira munhu akafamba kwemakore asingazivi kuti makirasi eyese anotsanangura sei upenyu hwavo hwakashanduka kubva pakuwana magirazi avo! "Vanoona kure, pedyo, zvakajeka, zvakasimba, nezvimwewo," anotsanangura Larry. "ADHD inokanganisa hupenyu hwangu nenzira dzakawanda uye maitiro." Anobvuma kuti inogona kutora bhuku kutsanangura kushamisa kwekuita kurapwa kwave nako.
"Kukwanisa kudzora manzwiro angu ekutsamwa uye kubatanidza mhinduro dzisina kukodzera pakutanga kwaiva pachena," anodaro Larry. "Zvino kwakauya kuziva uye kunzwisisana nevamwe manzwiro evanhu. Ndakanga ndawedzera hukama hwemamiriro ezvinhu evanhu. "
Larry anotaura nezvenguva iyo mudzimai wake akadzoka kumba achibva kubasa uye akamutsvinyira nemubvunzo wakajeka - "Saka, waive sei zuva rako?" Mudzimai wake akada kufa! "Akati iyi ndiyo nguva yokutanga mukuyeuka kwake kuti ndakanga ndatora nguva yekufunga nezvekunzwa kwake."
Mamiriro ekumanikidzika ari nyore zvakare kubata. "Kuvhara makii angu mumotokari ndisati ndaongororwa uye kurapwa kwaiva, regai nditaure, 'chimwe chinhu chechiitiko.' Mushure mokurapa, mhinduro dzangu kumamiriro akasiyana-siyana uye zviitiko zvaive zvakanyanya kutarisirwa uye kudzorwa. "
Unhu hwehupenyu hwemhuri hwakavandudza zvakare. "Zvikomborero kuhupenyu hwemumwe wangu nevana hazvigoni kuiswa mumashoko," anodaro Larry. Sezvo munhu akabatwa neHDHD, Larry ane pfungwa iri nani yekutonga, anopa zvakanyanya kufunga kune vamwe vanhu manzwiro, ndiye mutyairi nani, uye anopindura mamiriro ezvinhu zvakakodzera kupfuura zvaaifunga kuti zvinogona.
Sei vanhu vakawanda vakadai saLarry vachienda kune vasina kudzidza uye vasingatendi kwemakore akawanda kudaro?
Larry anotaura zvaanofunga:
"Ndinofunga kuti kutya, kusava nehuwandu hwemashoko uye hukama hwehutano ndicho chikonzero chikuru ADHD inoenda isingazivikanwi. Vanhu vanoda kuziva uye kudzidziswa nezvechiitiko. Vanofanira kuverenga mabhuku, mabhuku emagazini uye iye zvino kunyange webhusi dzine nzvimbo dzakadai sezako, add.org uye chadd.org, kutumidza zvishoma. Sevanhu, tinofanira kuchinja maonero atinoita 'vanhu' vane ADHD. Sangano revanhu, pane zvakawanda zvakasara pamusoro pemafungiro asina kufanirwa uye kusarura avo avo vane chirwere chete vanongofanira 'kuzviswededza nemabhootstraps ako,' 'edzai zvakanyanya,' 'kunyatsoteerera.' Aya maitiro anotadzisa kurwadziwa uye kuvhiringidzika pamusana pekunyadziswa kunobatanidza nekuonekwa kwakashata kwemunhu ane ADHD.
Zvinosuruvarisa nokuti, nekunyatsoongorora nekurapa, ADHD ndeimwe yezvinetso zvakanyanya kutariswa zvichiita kuti huve hupenyu hwakaisvonaka uye hunogutsa. "
Kana uchinetseka kana uchifunga kuti unogona kunge une ADHD, sarudza nguva yekusangana nemudzidzisi ane chiremba ane ruzivo pakutsvaga nekurapa munhu mukuru ADHD. Larry anozvipupurira zvakanaka, "Ita izvozvo, nokukurumidza zviri nani." Uchafara kuti wakaita!
Kunobva:
Ichokwadi, Elizabeth. "Re: Chikumbiro cheChikoro." Imeyili neIkubatanidza Webhu Kubvunzurudzwa kubva kuna Larry kuburikidza naErizabheti Ichokwadi kuna Keath Low. 20, Dec. 2007.