Muhutano hwemagariro evanhu, shoko rokuti munhu kutarisa rinoreva maitiro akasiyana ehutano atinoshandisa kuita mafungiro evamwe vanhu. Izvi hazvirevi kuti tinoumba sei zvido izvi, asi zvakasiyana-siyana zvatinoita pamusoro pevamwe vanhu zvichibva pane zvatinoona.
Funga kuti unowanzoita sei rudzi urwu rwekutonga zuva rega rega. Paunosangana nemumwe mushandi wekushanda, iwe unotanga kukudziridza pfungwa yekutanga yemunhu uyu.
Paunoshanyira kugoroka mushure mebasa, unogona kufungidzira pamusoro pemuchengeti anokuongorora iwe, kunyange iwe uchiziva zvishoma nezvomunhu uyu.
Izvi zvinotibvumira kuti tive nemitemo yekutonga uye zvisarudzo , asi zvinogonawo kutungamirira kumanzwisisiro kana maonero asina kufanirwa evamwe vanhu. Ngatinyatsoongororai kuti munhu anotarisa sei achishanda uye zvinokonzerwa nehupenyu hwedu hwezuva nezuva nevamwe vanhu.
Ndeapi Mashoko Atinoshandisa Kuumba Maonero Evamwe?
Zviri pachena kuti munhu anoona kungakwanisa kuve nzira yekuzviisa pasi iyo inogona kuchinjwa nemhando dzakasiyana siyana. Zvimwe zvinogona kukukanganisa maonero ako iwe maitiro evanhu vamwe zvinosanganisira maitiro evanhu vamuri kuona, mamiriro acho ezvinhu, mamiriro ako ega uye zviitiko zvako zvekare.
Vanhu vanowanzoita kuti vamwe vaone zvakakurumidza nemashoko asina ruzivo. Tinowanzosimbisa maonero edu pamabasa uye mitemo yemagariro atinotarisira kubva kuvanhu.
Semuenzaniso, unogona kuumba maonero emotyairi webhazi kubva pane zvaungatarisira kuti munhu ari mubasa iroro kuzvibata, achifunga nezveunhu humwe unhu humwe chete kana wapedza kuumba maonero aya.
Zvinyorwa zvepanyama zvinogonawo kuita basa rinokosha. Kana iwe ukaona mukadzi akapfekedzwa sachigaro-anotarisa, unogona kufunga nokukurumidza kuti anoshanda munzvimbo yakagadziriswa, zvichida pamatare emutemo kana bhangi.
Unhu hwemashoko atinoona hunokosha zvakare. Kazhinji, isu tinowanzoisa pfungwa pane dzimwe pfungwa dzakajeka panzvimbo pokucherechedza zvidzidzo. Iyo inoverengeka inoverengeka kana pachena pachena chimwe chinhu ndechokuti, inowanzoita kuti tifunge pairi. Kana iwe ukaona mukadzi akapfekedzwa sutu yakagadzirwa uye vhudzi rake rakagadzirwa mumwambo we pink rose, iwe unogona kubhadhara zvakanyanya maitiro ake asina kujairika kupfuura zvigadzirwa zvake zvebhizimisi zvine musoro.
Social Categorization
Imwe yenhepfenyuro dzepfungwa yatinoshandisa mumunhu maonero edu inozivikanwa sevanhu social categorization . Munharaunda yehutungamiri hwevanhu, isu mupfungwa tinongoronga vanhu mumapoka akasiyana-siyana zvichienderana nezvinofanana. Dzimwe nguva izvi zvinowanikwa zvakajeka, asi kune chikamu chikuru, social categorizations inowanzoitika uye isingazivi. Vamwe vevanhu vanonyanya kushandiswa vanoshandisa vanosanganisira makore, hutano, basa, uye rudzi.
Sezvakawanda zvishoma zvishoma zvepfungwa, ruzhinji rwemagariro evanhu hunobatsira uye hwakashata. Imwe yezvigaro zvehupfumi hwevanhu ndeyekuti inobvumira vanhu kutonga zvakakurumidza. Ichokwadi, iwe hauna nguva yekuziva munhu mumwe nemumwe waunosangana naye pane mumwe munhu, hwaro hwemunhu.
Kushandisa social categorization kunokubvumira kuita zvisarudzo uye kusimbisa tarisiro yekuti vanhu vachaita sei mune dzimwe mamiriro ezvinhu nokukurumidza, izvo zvinokubvumira kuisa pfungwa pane zvimwe zvinhu.
Matambudziko ane chimiro ichi anosanganisira chokwadi chokuti chinogona kutungamirira kumakanganisa uye pamwe nekusimudza kana kunyange kusarura .
Chimbofunga muenzaniso uyu:
Fungidzira iwe uri kuenda pabhasi asi kune zvigaro zviviri chete zviripo. Chigaro chimwe chiri pedo nediki, sirivha-vhudzi, mukadzi akwegura, imwe chigaro chiri pedo ne-burly, munhu akashungurudzika. Kubva pamaonero ako epfupi, iwe unogara pedyo nemukadzi akwegura, uyo anorasikirwa anowedzera kuva nyanzvi pakusarudza mapepa.
Nemhaka yekusangana kwevanhu, iwe wakakurumidza kutonga mukadzi wacho seasina maturo uye murume ari kutyisidzira, zvichiita kuti kurasikirwa kwechikwama chako. Kunyange zvazvo huwandu hwemagariro evanhu hunogona kubatsira pane dzimwe nguva, hunogonawo kutungamirira kumhando idzi dzisina kururama.
Zvakakwana Umunhu Maonero
Unhu hwakazara hwehutano ndeyekusanganiswa kwezvitendero nekufungidzira kwatinazvo pamusoro pekuti dzimwe humwe hutano hwakabatanidzwa sei kune mamwe maitiro uye maitiro. Kana takaziva chimwe chinhu pamusoro pekadhiina , tinofunga kuti munhu wacho anoratidzawo zvimwe zviito zvinowanzobatanidzwa nechimiro ichocho chinokosha.
Semuenzaniso, kana iwe ukadzidza kuti mushandirapamwe mutsva anofara zvikuru, iwe ungabva wafunga kuti iye ane ushamwari, ane mutsa uye ane rupo. Sezvo neruzhinji rwemagariro evanhu, mafungiro evanhu akajeka anobatsira vanhu kuti vatonge nokukurumidza, asi vanogonawo kuita kuti kuve nemafungiro uye kukanganisa.
References
Bargh, JA, Chen, M., & Burrows, L. (1996). Kushandura kwehutano hwevanhu: Mazano ekutsvaga kwehutano kuvaka nekugadzirisa kushandiswa kwekuita pachiito. Zvinyorwa zveMunhu uye Social Psychology, 71, 230-244.