Hapana mhinduro yakajeka, asi heino mamwe matanho ekufungisisa
"Makore maviri apfuura ndakaroora mumwe mukadzi wandakafunga kuti akakwana kwandiri.Takanga tine rudo rukuru, uye ndainzwa ndiri pedyo uye ndakabatana naye, ndakaziva pakarepo kuti ndaida kumuroora.Asi nguva pfupi mushure mokuchata kwedu, Zvinhu zvakasuruvara.
Akatanga kuva nemafungiro chaiwo emusango, ndokutanga kuva nechisimba-anokanda zvinhu kwandiri uye anorova pamusoro pezvinhu zviduku.
Ndinofunga kuti ane borderline hutano hwemunhu-anokodzera zvose zviratidzo. Ndanzwa BPD chirwere chenguva refu. Ndizvo zvakandinakira here kumuramba? "
Unofanira Kuparadzanisa Unhu Hwako Hwemuganhu Wenharaunda Wakaroorana Naye Here?
Zvinosuruvarisa, hapana mhinduro iri nyore kune iyi. Kuti iwe unosarudza here kana kuti usasarudza kurambana nemudzimai wako ichisarudzo chako pachako, uye hakuna munhu anogona kukuudza zvakakunakira iwe. Zvisinei, hezvino zvimwe zvinhu zvokufunga nezvazvo.
Chokutanga, iwe hauna kutaura kana mudzimai wako aive akaonekwa kuti ane borderline person disorder. Ikoko kunogona kunge kune mamiriro akasiyana-siyana anoita kuti zviratidzo zvaunotsanangura, uye zvakakosha kuti awane kuongorora kwakakwana kuti aone kuti chii chaitika.
Chinhu chechipiri chokufungisisa ndechokuti chikamu chikuru chevanhu vane borderline person disorder vanoita kurapwa. Saka, usati wafunga kurambana, zvingava zvine musoro kuona kana mudzimai wako achida uye achikwanisa kuita zvirongwa zveBPD zvinogona kuderedza zviratidzo zvake.
Usagara Uchifungidzira Zvakaipisisa
Kunyangwe kana mudzimai wako achinyatsoongororwa ane borderline person disorder uye imba yako iri pachena mumatambudziko, haufaniri kufunga kuti mamiriro acho acharamba akaoma.
Zvakakosha kuziva kuti kunyange pasina kurapwa, kufungidzira kune mumwe munhu ane BPD kunogona kunge kwakanaka chaizvo.
Vanhu vazhinji vanoonekwa kuti vane borderline person disorder havanosangana nemitemo yehutano mukati memakore mashomanana chete.
Saka, kana mudzimai wako ane chirwere ichi, izvi hazvirevi kutongerwa upenyu. Kurapa kunogona kubatsira mamiriro ake ekuvandudza, kana kuti angava nani pane ari oga.
Pakupedzisira, vanhu vane ruzivo rwemiganhu yehutano hunowanzova nezviratidzo zvakanyanya zvikuru apo hukama hwavo huri mumatambudziko. Zvinokwanisika kuti kushanda pakuvaka ukama huri nani huchabatsira mudzimai wako kuti ave nehukama hwakanyanya.
Ichokwadi kuti unofunga kufunga kana iwe uchida kuita izvi. Iwe chete iwe unogona kuita sarudzo iyi, asi ndinofunga kuitora nerubatsiro rwechiremba wako, kana zvichibvira.
> Kwakabva:
> Giffin J. Mhuri Yakawanda yeBorderline Personality Disorder. Australian neNew Zealand Journal of Family Therapy . 2008; 29: 133-138,