Mhando dzakawanda dzakasiyana dzehukama hwepedyo dzinokanganiswa nemuganhu wehupenyu hwehutano (BPD) , asi zvichida hapana chimwe chinopfuura kuroora kune munhu ane BPD. Kunyanya kunyanya, michato umo umwe kana kuti vose vari vaviri vane BPD inogona kunge yakavhiringidzika, inopesana, uye isingabatsiri.
Dzidza zvakawanda pamusoro pekuti mararamiro ako angakanganiswa sei neBPD, uye kuti iwe neshamwari yako (zvishamisika) zvingave zvisingafananidzi kurambana sezvingangodaro wakambofunga.
Borderline Personality Kuroorana: Nhamba
Zvidzidzo zvehutano hwemhuri kuvanhu vane BPD vakawana kuti vanenge 60 muzana vakaroora (izvi zvidzidzo zvakaitwa kuvanhu vane makore akaenzana vane makore anenge 40). Izvi zvinoratidza kuti vanhu vane BPD havakwanisi kuroorana kune avo vari vanhu vakawanda-muUnited States, vanenge 85 muzana yevanhu vakaroorana nezera remakore makumi mana.
Zvisingatarisirwi, vanhu vane BPD havana hutano hwakanyanya kupfuura huwandu hwevanhu. Nevheji yezera remakore anenge makumi mana, kurambana kwevanhu vane BPD kune mamiriyoni 35 kubva muzana, uye izvi zvakaenzana nehutano hwekurambana kwevagari vekuAmerica. Zvisinei, vanhu vane BPD havakwanisi kuroorwa zvakare mushure mekurambana. Ichokwadi, inenge gumi chete kubva muzana yevanhu vane BPD vanoroora zvakare nemakore anopfuura makumi mana iyo inenge hafu yehafu yenyika yekuroora zvakare.
Panyaya inofadza, tsvakurudzo inoratidza kuti vanhu vane urwere hwemiganhu yemuganhu vanoita kuti kuderedzwa kukuru kwezviratidzo zvavo (kunotsanangurwa sekudzikinura kubva kuBPD ) kune mikana yakawanda kupfuura vanhu vasati vadzorerwa vane BPD kuroora uye kuva mubereki uye zvisingabviri kurambana kana kuti anorasikirwa nemwana.
Borderline Personality Kuroorana: Zvakanaka Matambudziko
Imwe nzira yekutonga kana iwe wakaroorana nemunhu ane BPD inogona kubudirira ndeyekurambana. Kushandisa ichi sechiyero che "kubudirira," zvinoratidzika kuti michato inobatanidzwa nemubati pamwe neBPD haisi kana kubudirira kana kupfurikidza nevakaroorana.
Zvisinei, izvi hazvifungi nezvehutano hwemuchato kana kugutsikana kwevadzidzi.
Zvinosuruvarisa, pane zvishoma zvakanyanya kutsvakurudza dambudziko pamusoro pehutano hwewanano mune mumwe munhu ane BPD. Nekutsvakurudza kwakaitwa, kumwe kuongorora kwakawana hukama hwakanaka pakati pekuoma kwezviratidzo zveBPD uye chisimba chemhuri uye kutambudzika. Izvi zvinoreva kuti kunyanya kuipa kwezviratidzo zveBPD (semuenzaniso, kutya kuregererwa kana kuwedzerwa uye kuchinjwa kwemaitiro kunowanzochinja) zvinowanzoitika kune chisimba, kuwedzera kune dambudziko guru mumhuri.
Chimwe chidzidzo chakawana kuti zviratidzo zveBPD zvakabatanidzwa nehutachiwana hwekugadzirisa matambudziko uye hutano hwekukurukura muwanano.
Kune imwezve yesayenzi yedzinza pamusoro pehukama hwepabonde uye BPD iyo inopa zvimwe zvingangodaro kunzwisisa. Kutsvakurudza kwakaratidza kuti zviratidzo zveBPD zvinosanganiswa nekusingaperi kwekushungurudzika, kukakavadzana kunowanzoitika, uye kugutsikana kwepedyo mushamwari muhukama hwepabonde.
Uyezve, dzimwe nyanzvi dzinofunga kuti unhu hunoenderana nehutano hweunhu asiri BPD. Zvinofadza, pane tsvakurudzo inoratidza kuti vanhu vane zviratidzo zveBPD vanowanzoroora avo vanoitawo zviratidzo zveBPD zviratidzo-chiitiko chinonzi assortative mating.
Ichi chinoshamisa chinounza pamusoro pekufunganya. Zvinoratidzika kunge zvingava zvakanyanya kuoma kugadzirisa ukama hunobudirira uye uchifara kana pasina mumwe, asi vaviri vari varoorana, vane mafambiro ane mafungiro, vanoita maitiro ekufungidzira, uye vane unhu husina kunaka hwehu--humwe zviratidzo zvekuva neBPD.
Shoko Rinobva
Mharidzo yekutora pamba pano ndeyokuti kunyange zvazvo kurambana kwematambudziko hakusi kwakakwirira semunhu kunze kwekuroorana kune mumwe munhu ane BPD, kuva muukama nemumwe munhu ane BPD anogona kunge achinyanya kunetseka uye kuoma.
Ichi ndicho chikonzero kunze kweBPD shamwari yekuwana kurapwa, iri pfungwa yakanaka yekutsvaga mararamiro kana mhuri kuti uchengetedze muchato, ukama nemhuri kushanda zvakasimba.
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