Rudo rwetsitsi runopesana nerudo rukuru
Nyanzvi yezvepfungwa Elaine Hatfield akatsanangura marudzi maviri akasiyana erudo rukuru : tsitsi uye ruchiva. Rudo ruremekedzo runosanganisira kunzwa kwekuremekedzana, kuvimba, uye rudo asi rudo rukuru runosanganisira kunzwa kwakanyanya uye kukwezva zvepabonde.
Chii Chinonzi Rudo Rurefu?
Hatfield inotsanangura rudo ruchida se:
"Chido chekuda kwazvo kubatana pamwe nemumwe." Kushuva rudo chinhu chakaoma kushanda zvakakwana kusanganisira kuongororwa kana kuonga, manzwiro ekuzviisa pasi, mazwi, maitiro ehutano, maitiro, uye mafambiro emhando. Rudo rwakagadziriswa (kubatana nemumwe) runobatanidza ne kuzadzika uye kugadzikana rudo rusina kukodzera (kuparadzana) nekusaziva, kuzvidya mwoyo, kana kuora mwoyo. "
Chii Chinonzi Rudo Rukuru?
Rudo runyoro, runonziwo rudo rworudo, ndezvekushamwaridzana, kuvimba, kuzvipira, uye rudo. Mune hukama hurefu, rudo rukuru runowanzokanganisa rudo rwetsitsi mukati memakore maviri kusvika maviri.
Zvikonzero Zvinokurudzira Rudo Rurefu uye Ruremekedzo
Maererano naHatfield, zvimwe zvezvinhu zvinobatanidzwa nerudo rukuru zvinosanganisira:
- Nguva: Kuva "akagadzirira" kuva murudo nemumwe munhu kunokosha.
- Kutanga kushamwaridzana mafashoni : Zvakachengetedzwa vanhu vanowanzoita zvakadzama, kwenguva refu rudo nguva iyo avo vanozvidya mwoyo vanowanzowira uye vabuda mukuda nekukurumidza.
- Kufananidza: Hatfield naRacson vhesi yekuti tinowanzoshushikana nekudanana murudo nevanhu vane maonero akanaka, vane rudo, vane rudo, uye vakafanana nesu pachedu.
Kunyange zvazvo rudo rukuru rune simba, rinowanzotora nguva. Vatsvakurudzi vakatarisa kuti hukama hunofambira mberi sei pakati pevadzidzi vakaroorana, vakaroorana, uye avo vakaroorana kwenguva yakareba uye vakaona kuti kunyange rudo rukuru ruchiwedzera zvikuru pakutanga kwehukama, rinowanzopa nzira yorudo rukuru runotarisa kune ukama hwepedyo uye kuzvipira .
Rudo rwekuda mwoyo runogona kukurumidza kupera, asi rudo rwetsitsi runogara.
The Passionate Love Scale
Hatfield uye Sprecher vakagadzira Passionate Love Scale yakashandiswa pasi pose nevanhu vezera rimwe nerimwe. Inobvunza mibvunzo inobva pamagariro ekufungidzira (chii uye nguva yakawanda iwe unofunga pamusoro pewawakaroorana naye), maitiro ekuzvibata (unozvipira sei uye zvaunoita kune mumwe munhu), uye mafungiro emanzwiro (maunonzwa sei pamusoro pomumwe wako).
Pfungwa dzekupedzisira pamusoro peRudo Rurefu uye Ruremekedzo
Apo kutsvakurudza pamusoro pe rudo kwakabudirira mumakore makumi maviri apfuura, kutsvakurudza kwaHatfield kwokutanga panyaya iyi kwakanga kusina vatsoropodzi. Mumakore ekuma1970, Senator William Proxmire akarovera vatsvakurudzi vakanga vachidzidza rudo uye vakaseka basa sekuparadza kwevateresi vemadhora. Zvimwe zvakadzivirira basa rinokosha raHatfield uye vamwe, vachicherechedza kuti kana magweta epfungwa anganzwisisa maitiro erudo rwevanhu, saka zvichida vanganzwisisa kurambana uye vakakundikana hukama.
Pasinei nekukakavadzana, basa rakasimbiswa naHatfield nevamwe vaaishanda vakabatsira zvikuru kunzwisisa kwedu rudo uye vakafuridzira tsvakurudzo yakawanda pamusoro pokukwezva, kushamwaridzana, uye hukama hwevanhu.
Sources:
> Hatfield, E., Bensman, L, Rapson, RL. (2012). Nhoroondo Pfupfupi yeMasayendisiti eZvamwe 'Kuedza Kuenzanisa Rudo Rurefu. Zvinyorwa zveHindu neHumano hwehukama. 2012; 29 (2): 143-164. doi: 10.1177 / 0265407511431055.
Hatfield, E, Rapson, RL. Rudo uye Kushamwaridzana. Encyclopedia of Mental Health, 2. New York: Academic Press; 1994.
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