Kushushikana Bonds Maererano neInstory Theory

Kushamwaridzana kwataiita rudo kunokurudzira kushamwaridzana, kutarisira, uye kuswedera pedyo

Maererano nekubatanidza nhaurirano, kushamwaridzana kworudo rudzi rwekubatanidza tsika iyo munhu mumwe kune imwe. Zvichida muenzaniso wakazara wehukama hwekudanana ndewekuti pakati pemubereki nemwana. Mamwe mimwe mienzaniso inosanganisira hukama pakati pevamwe vadiwa, shamwari, uye dzimwe nhengo dzemhuri.

Zvikonzero zveAnoda Bond

Nyanzvi yezvepfungwa John Bowlby yakatsanangura iyo izwi sezvaakagadzira chidzidzo chake chakanyanyisa chokubatanidza .

Maererano naBirlby, saamai vanoita zvinodiwa nevana vavo, hukama hwakasimba hune hukama hunoumbwa. Chisungo ichi chinobatanidzwa muhutano hwemwana uye chinoshumira sechikonzero chekushamwaridzana kwese kwerudo.

Gare gare, mushandi pamwe naBilllby Mary Ainsworth akarondedzera zviyero zvishanu zvezvisungo zvorudo:

1. Kushushikana zvibvumirano zvinopfuurira panzvimbo pekufamba kwenguva. Vanowanzotora kwenguva yakareba uye vanotsungirira pane kuuya uye kuenda.
2. Kushungurudza zvisungo zvinotarisirwa kune mumwe munhu. Vanhu vanoita manzwiro akasimba ekubatana uye rudo kune vamwe vanhu muhupenyu hwavo.
3. Ukama hunobatanidzwa muhukama hwakanaka hune simba hunokosha hwepfungwa. Izvi zvisungo zvinoratidzika zvine simba guru muupenyu hwevaya vanogovana navo.
4. Munhu wacho anotsvaka kusangana uye kuswedera pedyo nemunhu iye ane rudo rwehukama naye. Tinoda kuva neukama hwepedyo nevanhu vatinoshamwaridzana navo.

1. Kuparadzanisa kune mumwe nomumwe kunotungamirira kumatambudziko. Mukuwedzera pakutsvaga kuswedera pedyo, vanhu vanotsamwa pavanoparadzana kubva kune avo vanobatanidzwa.

Ainsworth akaratidza kuti kuwedzerwa kwechitanhatu chekutsvaga - kutsvaga nyaradzo nekuchengeteka muhukama - zvakashandura chibvumirano kubva kune hukama hune rudo kune hukama hwechokwadi hwekubatana.

_Sources:

_{Bowlby, J. (2005). Kuita nekuparadzanisa zvido zvekuda. Routledge Classics.}

_{Bowlby, J. (1958). Chimiro chomusikana wemwana kuna amai vake. International Journal of Psychoanalysis, 39 , 350-373.}

_{Ainsworth, MDS (1989). Zvinyorwa zvisingasviki mwana. Nyanzvi yepfungwa dzeAmerica, 44, 709-716.}